How to correctly guide boys' sex education? In our life, I believe that most parents will be confused about their children's education. In fact, children's education can be started from many aspects. Here's how to correctly guide boys' sex education.

How to correctly guide boys' sex education 1 The guidance of boys' adolescent sex education should start from the following aspects, including adolescent sexual psychology, adolescent sexual physiology and adolescent personal hygiene. It is suggested that parents guide boys to gradually understand, recognize, learn and face the relevant knowledge about sex education, establish correct ideas and concepts of sex education, and form healthy adolescent psychological literacy, which is helpful to the normal growth and development of boys.

1, adolescent sexual psychology:

Parents should guide boys to understand the relevant knowledge of adolescent sex education, help boys understand the relevant content through books or knowledge lectures, and correctly face sexual impulses, sexual awareness and sexual needs. Let boys know their gender identity correctly and avoid causing psychological pressure, psychological conflict, tension, fear or guilt to boys.

2, adolescent sexual physiology:

Parents should help boys have a scientific understanding of adolescent sexual physiology knowledge, including the composition of reproductive system, anatomical structure of reproductive organs, the whole process of sexual development and education and treatment of both sexes.

3, adolescent personal hygiene:

Parents should guide boys to do a good job in personal hygiene in their daily lives, take a bath frequently, change underwear frequently, and form good personal habits.

How to correctly guide boys' sex education II. Father is the best teacher of sex education for boys.

Fathers should pay attention to the following when conducting sex education for boys:

The most important premise is to solve the father-son relationship. Good sex education must create a relationship of love and concern between father and son.

If a "father" always gives children the impression of rudeness, indifference, pessimism and lack of care, and they don't like it, children will hide away when they see their father. How can their father and son open their hearts and talk about problems fairly?

Fathers must play games with their children, communicate with them, listen to their voices, recognize their preferences and experiences, * * * enjoy their hobbies and happiness, even hobbies, and apply their preferences with a persistent attitude.

It is not easy for a child to wake up one morning and suddenly ask a lot of clear questions about sex. When they grow up, they will clearly ask all kinds of sex-related questions anytime and anywhere. Their problems are gradually emerging, and we should act according to the camera in sex education for children. Naturally, the sooner the better, the more real the better.

The education of love and the cultivation of true feelings between father and son all take time. No matter how busy you are, you should make time to wait for the children. Cultural education without fatherly love is not a comprehensive cultural education.

Sex education is easy to say, but there is no way to do it. We can only communicate with children fairly and put forward our own opinions, but we will not force them to convince others, that is, we will not oppress others forcibly, so as to solve the father-son relationship and do a good job in sex education at home.

Mom gives boys sex education like that.

Help boys to establish a suitable gender concept

In terms of psychological state, the development trend of gender psychological state is from three years old to adulthood and reaches its peak in adolescence. In this link, mothers should pay attention to two standards. One is to let boys know to protect their own human bodies, and the other is to let boys have a negative artistic conception of every position of the human body.

Research shows that as an only child, boys are spoiled by their parents and the elderly since childhood, have little outdoor activities, like watching cartoons and playing mobile phones at home, are used to jumping and logical thinking, and don't understand the people and things around them, so it is very easy for them to become more and more selfish and indifferent. Some boys are married and still think like children. They don't have the concept of "shoulders" at all, so they can't bear the heavy responsibility. Therefore, mothers should shape boys' gender consciousness as soon as possible.

Of course, we should tell boys about gender.

Mothers let boys know about their bodies, and they don't need to be as serious and orthodox as teachers teach students. There are many natural methods in daily life.

The mother must first correct her own ideas, so as to give the boy proper and correct guidance. In fact, boys' questions about sex are as simple as "What to eat tonight". The mother only needs a very vivid response, and too many deep explanations will confuse the boy.

Moral education of boys' characteristics

Early sex education is related to whether boys can grow up happily physically and mentally, as well as to family stability and social development. Sex education includes many aspects such as sex physiology, psychology, social morality, ethics and so on, among which sex morality is also a very key part.

The mother wants to educate the boy to respect the privacy protection of himself and others. The definition of privacy protection should be subtly given to boys from the beginning of sex education. The mother should tell the boy that the sexual organ is a person's private parts, and no one else has the right to see or touch this part without permission.

According to the boy's nonverbal personal behavior, the mother should convey negative information to the boy, such as mutual understanding, loyalty, sharing housework, respecting the elderly, being helpful, being polite, conscientious, honest and friendly, which is a good education for the child.

How to correctly guide boys' sex education? 3. How to give sex education to boys?

First of all, in front of the TV

If you think it is difficult to find the right time to talk about "sex" with your children in life, you are wrong. There are too many clues in life, about men and women, about sex, about differences, and TV programs are an example.

Whether it is children's favorite news, cartoons, variety shows or even idol dramas, we often see topics about boys and girls, good health and intimate relationships interspersed among them, some of which are positive and some are negative.

At this time, parents can provide their children with appropriate sexual knowledge in a relaxed and humorous tone. Attention should be paid to correcting wrong information, extending important concepts, or connecting with life situations. In addition to providing facts, it can also increase the chances for children to practice self-judgment on these contents.

Second, reading and dialogue.

At present, many books about gender relations and sex education are not suitable for school-age children to read; In fact, it is very easy for older children to browse more novels and cartoons containing sexual topics in bookstores, and the quality is mixed and it is difficult to filter.

Parents are advised to accompany their children to find good books, and then read, observe and think together to gain more correct knowledge.

When the child is further interested and confused, when he asks questions or initiates a dialogue, it is the best time to discuss. You can know what his main problems are, where these problems come from and how well he understands them.

At the same time, it won't be too embarrassing to discuss reading content or topics. However, remind parents to be patient and listen to their children carefully first.

Third, guide children to appreciate their own growth and build self-confidence.

Physical development of school-age children

It will make him gradually start to notice his appearance, his characteristics and whether he is liked by everyone.

Especially at this stage, children usually form a strong and stable gender stereotype. The idea that "other girls are …" and "boys just want to …" has become an important indicator of self-evaluation.

However, in the process of development, it is important to have adequate nutrition, physical and mental health, develop the potential of learning various skills, and establish a positive sense of self-independence and identity.

The content of sex education that can be carried out at any time in life is introduced here for everyone. Lack of early education knowledge is a common phenomenon among many parents. In order to help them, we have collected the most comprehensive professional knowledge of early education.

Misunderstanding of children's sex education

1. My children are still watching cartoons and don't understand "this".

Expert analysis: When children are young, it is the time for sex education. At this time, parents can provide their children with correct sexual knowledge, which can prevent children from blindly looking for negative sexual information and treat them correctly even if they see negative sexual information.

When children "understand this", parents can only "mend after it is too late".

My child is not interested in sex.

Expert analysis: when children enter adolescence, sexual physiology will inevitably develop and sexual psychology will inevitably appear. Children's lack of interest in sex in front of their parents is a sign of poor communication between the two sides. That is, parents' attitude towards sex makes children think that they have nothing in common with their parents on this issue.

I think my children can come naturally, because we came here ourselves.

Expert analysis: This is a common fluky psychology of parents, and it is actually an escape from sex education. Only by educating children about sex can we know if there is anything wrong with them.

Many parents judge whether there is a problem by their academic performance, but ignore their children's psychological growth.

My child's living environment is very simple, he (she) doesn't need to know this.

Expert analysis: In an era when information is so open, it is only parents' wishful thinking that children should never be exposed to sexual information. Parents should take the initiative to provide correct guidance.

5. The school has sex education classes, so it is not convenient for parents to talk about sex with their children.

Expert analysis: the best sex education is opportunity education, which is best when children are confused about sex, and such opportunities often occur at home, depending on the careful observation of parents. Pushing sex education to schools is a way for parents to shirk their responsibilities.

6, let children know the details of sex, may induce children to imitate.

Expert analysis: It is precisely the behavior and details that reveal the mystery of sex, dilute children's curiosity about sex and avoid children's blind attempts.