Every parent wants to make their children excellent and eager to teach them early education, but the growth process of children is scientific and regular. If parents blindly carry out early education for their children, it will not only affect their development, but also cause their children's rebellious thinking. Therefore, parents should pay special attention to their children's development and give help according to their wishes. Give different education at different stages of development.
A kindergarten teacher has such a scene when visiting a child's home.
On this day, I came to Mingming's house. As soon as I entered the door, I saw Mingming's mother teaching Mingming to read. My mother wrote a few words to Mingming, and her mother asked Mingming: What's this word? ?
Clearly frank answer,? It's heaven. ?
Mom is busy encouraging Mingming to say that Yao Ming is great. ?
Point to the next word and ask, what about this? what are you reading? ?
Clearly looked at it and answered. Read the land. ?
Mom reminded me on purpose. Think again? .
Yao Ming looked at it carefully and replied? This is a letter. ?
Mom said? By the way, write it again. ?
At this moment, the teacher just came in. The teacher asked her mother. What are you doing? ?
Mother answered the teacher proudly. Teach children to read! The early bird catches the worm. I can't let my child lose at the starting line. ?
The teacher interrupted her mother and said, Mingming, mom, there are two problems for children who can read too early in primary school. .
Mother asked in surprise. What's the problem? ?
The teacher patiently said to his mother, first, the child will not look at the picture and talk in the future. When children can read, the focus of reading picture books will become reading words, and they will no longer pay attention to the color and spatial structure of the picture. The lack of ability to see pictures will limit imagination.
Second, the class efficiency is low. Children who read books too early will change from listening to reading, and their listening comprehension ability will not be fully exercised, and they may not understand the teacher's words. Therefore, literacy is important, and reading is more important. It's best to wait until the first grade to teach the child to read slowly. There are certain scientific laws for children to transition from one stage to another. ?
The arrival of the teacher today first gave Mingming's mother an education lesson. It is precisely because Mingming's mother herself is unwilling to show weakness, and she doesn't want her children to be worse than others. So he is not afraid of hard work, not afraid of hard work, and wants his children to reach the peak in the future. As a result, after listening to the teacher, he suddenly realized. If it weren't for the teacher's timely home visit, the future study would be unimaginable. The teacher had found that there was something wrong with the child, so she made a home visit to stop Mao Mao's mother's incorrect educational methods in time.
So many times, it's not the early bird that gets the worm. Everything should respect science and follow the laws of nature. It is not a wise choice to start early education for children. Even if you want to start early education, you should teach something that will not affect your children's schooling, such as dancing and piano. If you start early education for your children, you will lose the fun of childhood prematurely. Children should play in childhood. This is my idea as a parent of a five-year-old child.
These are just the personal opinions of parents who are learning to take care of their children. Please forgive my poor literary talent. If you have any better suggestions, please leave a message in the comments section. Let's grow together.