Having a young child doesn't necessarily bring harm to an older child. The two children accompany each other and share with each other, which reflects their adaptation to socialization and has many benefits. The key depends on the guidance of parents.

For example, the attitude of parents communicating with the boss can't make the boss feel that he has special rights. He can decide the birth of his younger brother and sister and tell him directly that his parents still want to have a baby.

Rory doesn't have to preach a lot before the second child is born. The boss can't find a feeling without experience. If he doesn't speak well, it's easy for children to get the wrong idea.

For example, some parents often say "If you are not good, I will send you to kindergarten", and as a result, children are deeply afraid of going to kindergarten. Simply tell your children that with brothers and sisters, you can become brother and sister.

After the second child is born, parents will always keep in touch with the boss. My brother and sister can't walk or talk. They are too weak. How can we help him? When you were so young, your parents helped you ... find an expression suitable for your eldest brother's age and accompany him to grow up. If the boss is older, you can talk about the benefits of being a brother and sister.

Because the second child is small, many parents will pay more attention to the younger one. Don't forget to explain something bigger at this time, so as not to misunderstand the parents' partiality. At the same time, we need to pay attention to the boss's psychology. Don't pay too much attention to the small ones and completely ignore the big ones. Older people will have psychological trauma.