Every child is a flower seed, a unique seed, and they are naturally different. From rooting to germination, from germination to flowering, and even fruiting, it has its own development law and growth schedule.

I am particularly touched by this. Son and nephew grew up together and grew up in almost the same environment, but the degree of development of their abilities is quite different.

My nephew is extroverted, not afraid of life, very quick in reaction and good in motor cells. He will learn as soon as he learns. My son is slow in this part of sports development. When he was in sports training or physical education class, he was timid, afraid and afraid to participate, so he easily fell into an emotional state in class. He basically sat by and watched the whole class.

At first, I will easily fall into a state of anxiety and madness. After all, I also spent money, time and energy to accompany him in class and training, but the training content of his class. Sitting next to me, in the mood.

When I knew that it was his natural temperament and ability development that made him behave like this, I calmed down a lot. If I don't understand, I can easily be accused and criticized.

But after two years of exploration, I found a way. Basically, it takes three or four courses to get familiar with unfamiliar environments or projects that he still needs to do. He is an observant and cautious child, so he needs to wait and see before joining them. For example, I went to an early education class, and it took a whole month before I really participated in the interaction between the classroom and the teacher. The training of induction courses is almost like this. At first, I didn't want to try In the first month or so, we encouraged you to hold his hand many times. Gradually, he became familiar with it and began to participate, and he could do well.

During the years of growing up with my son, I learned that the flowering period of each seed is different. As long as I wait patiently and he gives him support and encouragement in this process, he can overcome this hurdle, his ability will gradually improve, and his self-confidence and sense of accomplishment will follow.

Waiting for flowers to bloom does not mean doing nothing. Early watering, fertilization, weeding, pest control and pruning are essential. Work hard in your career and follow the fate in the fruit!