I have participated in early education for more than a year. After comparison, I found that among Gymboree's courses, the music class has the highest value. It involves children's senses, rhythm and movements. You can also exercise your ability to appreciate art, but children just don't want to go in. His friends had a good time. He just watched and clamored to go out. In music class, children don't feel like masters. Like a shy young man out of place.
In the first three classes, no matter how I persuaded, the induced shell cat refused to enter the classroom. Keep playing with the tap outside, open, close, tick-tock. It's boring for me to stand aside.
The original purpose of class is to accompany the children with high quality. I worked hard to induce them, and my children were unhappy. Why bother? If he doesn't want to do it, he won't. It is also good to go to a fixed place once a week. It's cold now. Come to Gymboree without going to the playground! In this way, my mood is much more relaxed, and it also lays the foundation for the later communication.
I always think he can do it without coercion. In order to let him enter the classroom smoothly, I analyzed the reasons why he didn't want to take music lessons. First of all, there are many interesting things outside, and he doesn't want to go into the classroom. Second, the music classroom is too hot and the space is narrow. Third, there are few things that can be freely played in music class, and there are many fixed modes, so more attention needs to be mobilized. Fourth, music class is a strange class for him, and watching other children have fun will make him more stressed.
In view of the above problems, mother cat has made great efforts from time, temperature and mentality.
1, we went to Kadian school, which saved us the distraction of playing outside for a long time;
2, wearing less inside and wearing more outside, you can walk into the classroom very cool;
I must make an announcement once a day. On Saturday, we will go to Gymboree for a music class with Lucy. For the prelude of greeting in the course, practice many days in advance;
Because the class failed for three weeks in a row, the consultant was a little tempted and let Betty cancel the class. The course at this point is very tense. Just this Thursday, he actually said, go to music class. I asked him who he slept with. The child, to be exact, is Lucy. I think there will be a performance this week. At 9 o'clock on Saturday morning, we will leave. Tell the children on the way that we are a little late today and go straight to the classroom later.
This time, it went very well. From the beginning of temp, drumming to the welcome speech and Latin dance, every link was devoted and the mood was very peaceful. I feel that the shell cat has grown a lot at once. I can't believe it.
After about half a class, his old habits returned to normal. I was not interested in one of the links, and my attention began to be distracted. Let me take out the props in the cupboard to play. Even so, I am satisfied. It is not easy for a child to concentrate wholeheartedly for such a long time. So I took him out for a walk. Relax.
It is often seen that parents with children don't understand the behavior of children coming out halfway, training and sighing. It seems to be saying that a class costs hundreds of dollars, and it's really disappointing that your boy won't give me a good lesson. Actually, let's think about it. How much can I learn by coming to class? To make children happy, high-quality companionship is the last word. We don't spend money on anger. Besides, children's attention is unstable. As long as they make a little progress every time, how can they be asked to sit there motionless like adults?
Outside, we played hide-and-seek, a small house, and watched Teacher Judy sing a song about a small train. I also learned a few tips from teacher Judy to exercise children's fine movements. Learning this kind of thing happens from time to time. As long as children concentrate, they will absorb the growing mind like a sponge.
After a while, I picked him up and watched the other children in class from the window. I told him that my little friend was going to play musical instruments. Which one do you want? Now the cat is interested, let me open the door for him. Without any effort, he soon threw himself into a new music game.
Why do children like music instead of music lessons? Maybe adults care too much. Give him enough freedom and love. Who is not interested in interesting and fresh things in a tolerant environment?
Today's sharing is a bit nagging, restoring the style of broken thoughts. But the whole output process is particularly smooth. I have been writing for two months. Writing, I forgot my original intention, that is to learn psychological knowledge and record the growth of shellfish. I don't know why, but I really think of myself as a psychiatrist. If an article fails to pass the review, which one is not read well will make my mood fluctuate. Just like educating children, accept the true self, give yourself enough freedom and love, and just write down your inner feelings. Why care about other people's eyes? As long as you concentrate, the process is pleasant and self-growth is taken for granted.
I'm Connie Qiu Er, a mother who loves psychology.