First, stay-at-home mothers will not be less than men in the workplace. As long as she is a full-time mother, she has as many skills as a working man. After taking the children down for one day, you have to make milk powder, walk the baby, bathe the children, play with them, teach them early, get food, wash clothes and put them to bed ... Even if the children are asleep, you have time to make do with two meals by yourself, and then you have to clean up the house, do some cleaning and go out to buy food. Even if a man can do it in a day, he may not be able to stand it.
Second, taking care of children is no easier than going to work. Is it easy to bring up children? Of course, this is not easy. If Baoda feels relaxed, he can try to take care of himself for a day, provided that he always goes home and everything at home can be done as well as his wife at home. You can try.
I tried. It was a Friday, I asked for leave, my wife went out to talk about part-time, and I took the children. At that time, the child had just learned to walk. He eats complementary food, milk powder, fruit, calcium tablets, wears a jumpsuit and a two-piece suit. He has to go to the park, take a nap and listen to children's songs every day.
Usually my wife sends me videos, and all I see is the children eating by themselves. It feels really good. When I cooked complementary food for him myself, I found that he ate all over the floor, and my wife didn't take pictures of him cleaning up.
I usually go shopping with my wife in the park and feel that she is holding the baby. I'm very close to things. I really found out that buying a few pounds of vegetables and holding a 20-pound baby are not a heavyweight.
I usually see my child cleaning after work at night, and I don't pay much attention to whether the child has changed clothes. It took me a day to find out that he needs to change 4-5 sets of clothes at the end of the day, whether he is playing with water or eating, he has to wash them.
Third, it takes 10 hours to work overtime, and full-time mothers are busy all day. Compared with taking care of children, going to work is really not tiring. There are almost no classes for more than ten hours from morning till night, and there is always time for rest. But when taking care of children, it is time for children to sleep when they are not busy, but after he sleeps, the room is in a mess. Can you clean it up? After you clean up, the child wakes up and starts a wave of tossing.
A man who has never experienced taking care of children all day by himself is not qualified to say that children are easy to take care of. You usually watch for a while, change diapers wet, make milk powder, make complementary food, feed and call your wife. It's certainly easy to just look at the children.