I sat in a chair, staring at the passing crowd, and couldn't help sighing: As Bao Xiao's mother, the gap is so big.
Some mothers are light and energetic, just like girls.
Others are bloated, unkempt, rigid and didactic, and vividly capture the image of an aunt next door.
Each other is born from the heart. That's true.
How a girl is honed into an aunt by life may start from the heart.
My thinking began to take children as the axis and family as the radius I am no longer sensitive to new things outside, and I am completely uninterested in improving and changing myself. The whole content of life is daily necessities, and children go to school. It is important to haggle over every ounce, but it is insignificant to look to the future.
On any occasion, you can recognize a boyish mother at a glance.
In all kinds of art early education classes, it takes a lot of money to cultivate children's artistic temperament, which is often said in the propaganda of early education centers. But I'm informal, sloppy, hunched over and immersed in brushing my mobile phone.
In the shopping mall, I don't hesitate to buy clothes and toys for my children, and I don't take things lightly for my husband, but it's my turn to turn over discounted goods, because I am always the best.
On the playground, Angyan scolded the child for soiling his clothes, but he didn't even want to notice that the child was trying to tell his interesting story happily. Because her world has lost its childlike innocence and lost more rules.
One of my female colleagues, whose clothes are always boring sportswear, her hair style is always tied with a telephone circle casually, and she can't talk about three sentences without leaving her children, giving herself a good name "I am a child slave".
During a dinner chat, everyone advised her to tidy herself up. As long as you dress up a little, you will still shine.
The colleague replied that the money spent on children's toys, meals and clothes every month now accounts for half of the family income, not counting the cost of enrolling him in training classes. As for the rest of the salary, we should save it for our children as an education fund.
I'm ashamed. I really put all my hopes on my children and didn't plan for myself at all.
By my side, there are not a few mothers who take children as the axis of life and gradually lose themselves.
However, do children recognize such mothers?
Once, I watched a TV program and randomly selected dozens of kindergarten and primary school children to make a survey. Ask them: What kind of mother do you like? What kind of mother is the best in your mind? The children's immature language touched all the audience.
I like to dress beautifully, mom.
I like smiling mothers.
I think mom is the coolest when driving.
I think mom is the best when she plays ball. ...
The children's answers, without exception, revealed that they like positive, sunny, positive energy and beautiful mothers.
Looking at yourself in the mirror, don't you wander on the edge of menstruation?
Once upon a time, how much I despised my aunt's spirit and how firmly I believed that I would never become like this. However, when my bucket waist is ugly, when I repeatedly shirk my colleagues' enthusiastic invitation to play ball, when I open my mouth and close my school district, when my resentment is getting heavier and heavier, I find that I have really fallen. I have fallen into the "Boyish" state that I once despised.
Change is imperative.
The girl's world is full of courage and infinite imagination, while the aunt's heart only has the rules and regulations in front of her.
With a girl's heart, I started my dream-chasing journey. If you make study plans and goals and focus on improving yourself, you will forget many troubles and ignore many trivial matters. Life is no longer just brushing a circle of friends to bask in the sun, there are more meaningful things that I prefer to fight for.
Exercise makes people energetic forever. It will also make you exude confidence from the inside out.
Change, from now on, you will not only gain a healthy posture, but also lose yourself inadvertently.