Ruyi's daughter is two and a half years old. Originally, Ruyi planned to let her go to kindergarten at the age of three. Before that, she was also taken care of by the elderly. But something happened to the old man recently, and no one helped to look after the children. There is no way for children to enter kindergarten in advance.
Ruyi sent her daughter to kindergarten on the first day. Although I was psychologically prepared at home, my daughter still said, "Mom, don't worry, I won't cry when I go to kindergarten. I am very brave. " But when she arrived at the kindergarten gate, what the prostitute said didn't count, and the prostitute clung to her thigh and refused to let go.
The kindergarten teacher hugged the wishful girl abruptly.
The teacher said to Ruyi, "This is all a child's strategy. Go ahead, the child will stop crying soon. The more you give up, the more she will cry. " Ruyi turned away after listening to the teacher.
After leaving, the teacher didn't send photos to Ruyi for a while, and her daughter stopped crying and had a good time with the children. Ruyi is relieved to see her daughter. Ruyi was the first person to pick up her daughter from kindergarten after work.
In the next few days, Ruyi also deliberately helped her daughter to separate excessive anxiety. Ruyi not only invited the children in her class to her home to play, but also took her to kindergarten on Saturday and Sunday. Soon my daughter's anxiety about entering the park passed.
Why do children have separation anxiety as soon as they attend kindergarten? 1. Children are afraid to face unfamiliar environment alone.
Because kindergarten is a strange environment for children, there are no parents and no familiar people here, which is particularly scary for children. So children want to express their feelings by crying.
2. The child has no sense of security.
Some parents usually spend less time with their children and do not establish a good sense of security attachment for their children, which leads to their lack of security. Such children simply can't adapt to the kindergarten collective environment. The environment in kindergarten will only aggravate children's inner fears, so children will have various maladjustments after entering kindergarten.
3. Children's uncertainty about the unknown
Kindergarten has too much uncertainty for children. The children don't know what will happen here. What will happen to you? I wonder if teachers get along well with children. Can I adapt to life in kindergarten soon?
What effect will separation anxiety have on children? 1. Children get sick easily.
If parents send their children to kindergarten and fail to help them through the anxiety of separation in time, it will slowly lead to physical problems for their children. Because emotions can't be vented, it will lead to physical problems, and emotional depression for a long time is prone to psychological problems. Otherwise, children will easily get sick after going to kindergarten, which is the reason.
2. It is easy for children to hate kindergarten.
Parents don't help their children deal with separation anxiety very well. Parents force their children to come to kindergarten every day, and children will not be really happy in kindergarten. Children will especially hate kindergarten. Children are very happy in kindergarten every day, but children who are out of anxiety just want to escape from kindergarten as soon as possible and don't want to stay in kindergarten for a while.
3. Children's personality changes.
Excessive separation anxiety can also affect children's personality. Some children are cheerful and lively before kindergarten, but from kindergarten on, children become timid and shy. In the past, no matter what they did, as long as their parents watched from a distance, children who were out of anxiety would always stick to their parents and wouldn't let them leave their sight.
Of course, if parents want to help their children get through the anxiety period smoothly, they should accompany their children as much as possible before going to kindergarten, give them enough security and give them inner strength.
At the same time, parents should provide more collective environment for their children. For example, parents can take their children to early education classes before they go to kindergarten, and let them adapt to the collective environment in advance in the early education courses, so that they will not feel helpless when they enter the collective environment again.
Parents can also simulate kindergarten activities for their children at home before they go to kindergarten, so that children can adapt to and understand kindergarten life in advance, so that they will not be so afraid of what will happen after they arrive at kindergarten!
If parents can help their children adapt to separation anxiety in advance before they go to kindergarten, I believe that children will adapt faster after entering kindergarten. This is not only good for parents, but also good for parents.