At the moment when the children were playing with toys, I had finished all the shopping, washing and cooking in a few seconds.
During work, if the child is sick, he is working at work. During the break, they all took time to run home to see if they wanted to go to the hospital. They even went to the hospital to sign up, waiting for their father to take their children to see a doctor.
After reading books and playing games with children at night, face a messy house and clean it in minutes.
Even if I am such a haunters, I still can't change some facts:
I have superluminal, but at the same time I also have my own imperfections.
I have the ability to learn quickly, but at the same time I forget it quickly. I may read for a few seconds, but after 10 seconds, I forgot all about it.
I have ftl, but my child is an ordinary child.
He can't move as fast as I can, nor can he read as fast. I read a book for a few seconds, and even if it takes a long time, he can only understand a picture book 1 month.
I have ftl, but I can't change some external environment.
Can't change the declining trend of traditional media industry; Can't change the screening of children taking the college entrance examination. ...
In the face of these unchangeable things, learn to start with acceptance.
Accept your cowardice, your incompetence and your imperfection.
20 16 1 1, I resigned from CCTV. I really can't find a balance between children and work. I admit that I don't have that much energy to do both.
I told the leader that I didn't think I could do it. Between being a reporter and being a mother, I chose to spend this time with my children.
If the choice between work and children is a kind of courage, in fact, I just accept my cowardice and my imperfection.
Accept that your child is an ordinary child.
Accept him and only love to read one picture book a month. This book is read 10 times a day, and a Harle has the same book, because he is the cognitive level of ordinary children.
Sing a song repeatedly for half a year. Because I know that he is just an ordinary child who wants to sing and dance, far from being a "musical genius". I refused to enroll him in early education classes such as musical instrument classes, in order to give an ordinary child a "play" childhood.
In the process of accepting myself and others, I found that I should be brave enough to act and do things that can be changed.
20 14, in less than five days, three media people committed suicide one after another.
In the early morning of May 8, Zhang, general manager of Shenzhen newspaper distribution logistics company, and Zhang, former editor-in-chief of Shenzhen newspaper group, committed suicide. According to Huasheng Online this morning, on May 6th, He Zhe, deputy director of Xiangxiang Radio and Television Station, hanged himself in the stairwell of his office.
On May 4th, Xu Xing, deputy editor-in-chief of Hangzhou Metropolitan Express, committed suicide at the age of 35.
The suicide of media people is obviously related to the pressure faced by traditional media. If this industry is good and this unit is not, you can go to another unit. However, this industry (traditional media) is dying out. There are old people in the world and old people in the world. No matter where you go, there will be no way out until you reach a dead end.
In the face of the decline of the industry, is there no other way but to accept it?
There is a way, for those things that can be changed, we should be brave enough to act.
After resigning, I also experienced a period of confusion. I have no other way out except to go back to my original unit. I can't change my business, so what can I do?
1, sign up for the writing class. Empty cup mentality, learn to write, deliberately practice calligraphy. Focus on the user's thinking to practice. I met a group of people who love writing in the teacher's class.
2. Deepen your professional knowledge in the field of reporting. Learn fund knowledge through the examination system, and strive to pass the fund qualification certificate examination on 20 18.