Everyone knows that doting is harmful to children.

But sometimes we can't tell love from doting?

The following 10 comics will make you feel deeply after reading them!

1. Many parents complain that their children are picky eaters, anorexia,

You can't eat well in kindergarten.

In fact, these are all for parents' own use.

Many parents think that their children are dirty and troublesome to eat by themselves, and they are also worried that their children will not have enough to eat.

So I have been chasing the children to feed them, begging them to eat more.

Parents' urging and pleading make children feel that eating is a burden.

Then anorexia, picky eaters, wasting food.

Let the children eat by themselves,

Not only let children experience the fun of self-exploration and growth,

It is also to exercise children's hand, eye and mouth coordination ability.

Far-sighted parents have a sense of "heartless" boundaries. Let the children eat by themselves. If they don't want to eat, don't force them to feed. If they are hungry several times, they will know how to eat on time.

Many parents think their children are too young.

It is impossible to dress and wear shoes by yourself.

It's not really a child. I don't know,

But parents don't want their children to try and make mistakes.

Many children go to kindergarten,

There is no ability to dress independently, wear shoes independently, and go to the toilet independently.

You can see other children, but not yourself.

Will children feel inferior?

The worse a child's independence and self-care ability are,

The harder it is to integrate into the new environment,

Parents should not let their "love" become an obstacle to their children's growth.

In fact, children over two years old can wear simple clothes by themselves.

Give children more trust, patience and encouragement.

Don't deprive children of opportunities to grow and exercise.

Let children do their best.

Parents look after everything for their children,

Not only will it destroy children,

It will also make children feel that their parents' efforts are taken for granted.

It's easy to raise a baiwenhang.

True love for children is not doing everything for them.

But to guide children to do their own things,

But many parents can't bear it.

If you can't be a child's umbrella all your life,

Don't do everything for the children.

When parents are always in front of their children,

What children lose is the opportunity to develop core abilities such as self-confidence, independence, responsibility and creativity.

Parents do everything for their children like nannies,

Because the child has not experienced it personally,

So I don't understand the hard work of my parents,

When children get used to the care of their parents,

I will not cherish my parents' efforts.

Parents are worried that their children will be bullied.

So when children play with boys,

Staring at and protecting,

Parents' love looks great,

However, it deprives children of the opportunity to be independent and powerful.

In order for children not to be bullied,

Some parents never leave their children,

Don't even let children play with other children.

We cannot tolerate children being bullied,

But it is normal for children to bump into each other.

We want to protect our children,

But unconsciously, it has entered the overprotective mode for children.

We think it's "for the good of the children",

But it makes children timid, dependent and lack of self-confidence.

Under the protection of parents' powerful wings, children will never grow up.

Try to let the children solve their own problems first.

This is also an excellent opportunity to exercise children's problem-solving and interpersonal skills.

Many parents think that their children want to do housework,

As a child's prank,

This not only dampened the enthusiasm of children,

It is also not conducive to cultivating children's sense of family responsibility.

Not letting children do housework will discourage them.

If you refuse, it means telling him: you can't, I don't believe you, so I won't let you move.

Children have just started to learn to do housework, and parents should be more tolerant if they don't do well.

Children will become more and more skilled.

Doing housework not only helps children learn to be neat and inductive,

It will also give children a sense of family responsibility.

Children who can do housework, because they have experienced and experienced the hard work of their parents,

You will also be more considerate of your parents.

Nannies do everything for children,

It will only breed children's laziness, selfishness and lack of gratitude.

6. Many parents can't write or draw their children's homework.

I write and draw directly for the children.

But growth can't replace it.

Don't let children explore and make mistakes.

Children will never learn by themselves.

The child has just begun to learn to draw.

It may not be good at all in the eyes of adults, or even full of mistakes.

But children's growth is progressing through trial and error and experience.

Parents repeatedly interrupt and interfere with their children's learning and exploration.

Not only can it not help children grow up quickly,

It will also make children lack self-confidence and unable to master learning by themselves.

We always expect our children to meet the high standards of adults.

Ignoring the differences between children and adults,

Be patient and encourage your children.

Allow children to "make mistakes" and do imperfect things,

Let children grow up at their own pace.

7. Take the children to the 100 early education class,

Why not take children to get close to nature,

I don't want my children to be flowers that can't stand the wind and rain in the greenhouse.

Don't always keep the children in the greenhouse.

The fun and experience that nature brings to children,

It is something that educational toys in the room can't bring to children.

Let children feel the sunshine, wind, grass and stones and streams of nature.

Can bring the purest happiness to children.

Nature is also a natural playground.

Children often climb mountains or chase and play in fields.

Children can not only relax,

It can also ensure the health of children.

Why are children relatively easy to get sick now?

One of the reasons,

Because they are too far away from nature,

If you want to protect your child, keeping him at home will make him weak and sick.

8. get up after falling,

Children can learn to be brave, strong and responsible.

Always make excuses for children and let them pass the buck to others. How can children become talents?

Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and many children are not afraid of wrestling.

After wrestling, children usually get up by themselves and continue to play.

But the parents' panic and nervousness after the child fell,

It will make children weak, timid and cry.

Don't be too nervous, son. Every autumn is growth.

Let children learn how to stand up by themselves from falls,

It will make children more brave and confident to face the challenges and setbacks of life.

Always making excuses for children will not only make children flinch when they encounter setbacks,

It will also let children learn to shirk their responsibilities and dare not face the society bravely.

9. Parents always tell their children that it is dangerous here and dirty there.

Don't do this, don't touch there, and finally blame the child for being timid.

Should we suppress the idea that "I know", "I have experienced" and "I know what is good for you"?

What about lifting all kinds of prohibitions and restrictions on children?

Children's curiosity to explore the unknown world should not be imprisoned by us.

A lot of things that children have to go through,

In order to feel the fun, we can look forward to and love the world.

Life is a process of exploring the unknown,

I hope my children are optimistic, brave and confident.

Let the children do, try and explore.

Success will give children a sense of accomplishment.

Failure will allow children to accumulate experience.

10. Knowing how to let go is deep love.

The risks you avoid for your children,

Life will always pay off;

The path you chose for the children,

The child still needs to cry before leaving.

We can participate in children's growth, but we can't replace them.

We don't want our child to suffer, and the world will make him suffer.

We don't want our child to suffer, and the world will make him suffer.

We always think that children are a blank sheet of paper.

We can paint and design the future for our children.

But in fact, the child is not a blank sheet of paper.

But a unique seed,

We can provide suitable soil for children,

But we can't grow up instead of children.

Children need to grow up by themselves.

Children are like seeds,

Only aft experiencing that setback challenge of wind, frost, rain and snow,

Grow into a towering tree.

Children will eventually learn to face everything by themselves.

Please let the children grow up in their own way!