‖ 20 17 insist on day shift chapter 94

First, some parents told me that they were worried that their children would not learn English well in advance, and they didn't officially start learning English until the third grade of school, but they were not interested at that time. In fact, this is really worrying.

Prenatal education is never too early, because it is based on science. The earlier a child's whole brain develops, the higher his IQ will be, which will help to improve all kinds of competitiveness. Therefore, children will never be overtrained, of course, provided that the children are willing.

If your child doesn't like or want to, and doesn't have great talent, and can't even sing five notes, it is a great waste to force your child to learn music according to parents' standards!

If your child is interested in all kinds of learning, first of all, congratulations on having a studious child, who is more active and will be more independent and far-sighted in the future. Then, if you don't grasp the child's ability in time at this time, it will be a huge irreparable regret for the child's growth!

Second, for children, learning the right talents at the right stage can achieve the best results. Everything needs to be done step by step, and children can't eat fat at one breath. It is really helpful for children to learn slowly, master basic skills and talents.

What are the critical periods for children's growth?

1, two and a half to three years old: painting

In fact, many children like to doodle around with pens when they are one year old. By the age of three, they are interested in various shapes and colors and will try to explore with brushes. At the age of four, children will try to draw bananas, apples or oranges they have eaten, or even cartoon characters they have seen. By the age of six, the child has already had a certain cognitive ability and began to try to add his own ideas to the painting. Then according to this series of inferences, we can see that the most suitable age for cultivating children to draw is two and a half to three years old, which is the most suitable age for guidance.

2, three years old: English

Learning a language is not difficult for children. At the age of four, children will be able to master basic Mandarin and express themselves easily. In English study, if you want to speak English as fluently as your mother tongue, you'd better study early. Otherwise, when children reach the age of five, their pronunciation will be limited by Mandarin, and it will be difficult to learn English again. When the child 1-2 years old, parents can often talk to their children about English, and when they are three years old, they can arrange formal English courses.

3. Four to five years old: piano

Some parents will arrange piano lessons when their children are 2-3 years old. In fact, this is not correct. Children must master certain cognitive abilities before learning the piano, otherwise it is difficult to understand the teacher's teaching, the hand-eye coordination is not so perfect, and the understanding of the staff is not complete. By the age of 4-5, children already have certain abilities.

Third, what should parents do in the critical period of children's growth?

First of all, you should create opportunities for children to fully contact with all kinds of things, all kinds of learning and all kinds of skills. Never underestimate a child's learning ability. Their learning ability is even a hundred times stronger than you think.

Secondly, you have to find a responsible professional teacher for him. Only when teachers are professional and authoritative enough can children get on the right track from the beginning; Only when teachers are patient and responsible enough can children learn and grow up healthily and happily.

Third, you should guide and encourage him more. Especially in the early stage of learning a new skill, the love and encouragement of parents is a powerful driving force for children to study harder, which is irreplaceable by anyone else. So, don't be stingy with your warm words to your children.

Finally, if you find that it is really not suitable for your child during the learning process, you must stop improper training for your child in time. A thousand dollars can't buy the word "I do". Only by loving children from the heart and respecting their wishes can children become more self-reliant, confident and self-reliant!

Every parent is a broken-winged angel to protect their children. Great parents, according to the law of children's physical and mental development, should also be wise parents.