First of all, teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A person who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a person who knows nothing, a person with bad conduct and vulgar behavior, a person who is selfish and does not honor the elderly, will not cultivate good children.

Secondly, it should be noted that children in parenting education are very concerned about whether their parents have made great efforts for their growth. Some parents stay with their children all the year round, but they don't always communicate. Most parents neglect parenting education on the grounds of being busy. Parents' parenting education should be ahead of their children's physical and mental development, so parents should devote themselves to their children's education, keep learning and improve their ability to educate their children, so as to win their respect and love.

Third, create a good knowledge environment. Children should have a good learning environment, not high-end, but atmosphere, to avoid unnecessary family gossip, ignorant people at home as little as possible. Besides, we should create a harmonious, peaceful and stable family atmosphere.

4. Parents who trust their children unconditionally are the children's first teachers and role models for their lives. Children's strengths, weaknesses, good habits and bad habits basically come from the influence of parents and the surrounding environment. Therefore, parents should first do what their children are asked to do. We should appreciate the advantages of children, tolerate shortcomings and allow children to have imperfections. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children.

5. Praise more and criticize less. Appropriate praise is a stimulant and lubricant for parents to communicate with their children. Parents always understand, appreciate, praise and encourage their children, which will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. Remember: praise and encouragement make children progress, and criticism and complaints make children fall behind.

Sixth, when correcting children's key shortcomings, we must pay attention to maturity and choose the best place and opportunity.

Finally, please remember the following sentence: the premise of educating children is to know them.

Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure.