1, accept children's emotions and help them express their feelings. At the age of 4, Ding Ding came home from kindergarten. Her mother found her unhappy. She didn't eat two bites at dinner, so she went into her room and didn't even watch her favorite cartoons. After finishing the housework, my mother went into Dingding's room and asked her gently what had happened. Only then did I know that I was bullied by my deskmate in kindergarten today, and I was very unhappy. After listening to Tintin's words, her mother held her in her arms and said, "You must be very sad to be bullied by your deskmate. Let's see what we can do to improve the relationship between you and your classmates. " Tintin accepted her mother's suggestion and continued to discuss the problem with her. So, if children are bullied, why not try to accept their emotions and help them express their feelings?
2. Teach children to express their emotions and opinions. Parents can also try to teach their children to express their emotions and opinions. At this point, Miss Sister has done very well. In the kindergarten where my nephew entered, there was a tall and big boy who often bullied other children, and sometimes it was difficult for my nephew to escape. After learning this situation, my sister taught my nephew a trick to express his emotions and opinions. The little nephew was bullied again, so he told the boy loudly, "I'm very unhappy that you bullied me like this. Don't bully me in the future!" "The boy was shocked and never bullied my nephew again.
3. Parents should give encouragement and praise. On Sunday, Zhou Ling took her child Xiaoyu to play in the children's paradise in the community. The weather is fine. There are many children playing in the residential area. Xiaoyu plays with you quickly, and Zhou Ling is reading a book and basking in the sun. Before long, Zhou Ling heard the cry of Xiaoyu. At first, he argued with the children who would swing first. Xiaoyu cried when the children hit him. However, Zhou Ling did not attend. She looked at them quietly without saying a word. Finally, Xiaoyu solved the contradiction with her children by herself and made up soon. After returning home, Zhou Ling praised Xiaoyu, praised his good work and encouraged him to do the same in the future.
4. Help children build self-confidence through practice. Fang Yun's daughter is a little timid. Before going to elementary school, she was afraid that her daughter would be bullied by other children. She told her daughter in advance that when other children bully her, she should learn to say loudly: "I don't like you for me, you can't bully me." The daughter agreed without knowing it. On one occasion, Fang Yun took Eva to teach in an early education training institution. When she met a boy who was a little older than her daughter, she must grab the small toys in her hand. At the prompt of Fang Yun, the daughter spoke out loudly what Fang Yun had taught her, while the boy ran away passively. Fang Yun's daughter's self-confidence soared. She told her mother that she wouldn't be afraid if she met other children grabbing her little toys in the future.