Parents always want to give their children a perfect life, hoping that their children will be better or win at the starting line. However, at present, various parenting concepts are mixed, and all kinds of early education institutions are even more mixed. Many wrong methods will do harm to children's brain development.

Just as things are always regular, so is the development of a baby's brain. This rule comes from the exploration of brain science. The emergence of new technology enables us to "see" how the brain works with our own eyes. Through practical observation, the medical profession found that most people's brain functions are gradually developed after birth, and early experiences greatly affect their learning ability in the future. In fact, many simple facts in the field of neuroscience provide the most solid foundation for brain health. All the information here is rooted in the existing research results of brain science.

In fact, these suggestions are as simple as learning ABC. The three cornerstones of cultivating smart and happy children are ABC: attention, parent-child bond and communication ability.

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Attention is an important foundation of learning. Most people will realize that if someone wants to learn anything consciously, they need to concentrate on it first. Children are born with the ability to stay alert, but guiding and controlling attention is the behavior they need to cultivate in the future. The development pattern of a child's attention system in the first few years will affect his ability to concentrate in his later life. For example, can he understand why you told him why he couldn't run off the road? Can he see you show him how to tie his shoelaces? Can he read a book? Can he sit in the classroom and study today's math class? Can he write a doctoral thesis? Can he even do a good job? These are all related to the attention system that began to develop in infancy.

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When you hear the child crying, you wake up from sleep and catch a glimpse of the hands of the clock in the dark: 3: 15. With a sigh, you stumbled to the cradle and picked up the crying little thing. "All right, all right, be good." You snorted in a low voice, pressed him close to your chest and prepared to feed him. "The baby is not afraid, and the mother is there." Sitting in a big rocking chair with your child in your arms, stroking your child's hair, you hold him tighter. The baby is sucking milk, and you can feel his body relaxing.

You responded quickly to the child's needs with maternal love. By doing this, you will make a great contribution to his brain development, which is much better than buying him a fancy new school tool or accompanying him to learn encyclopedia knowledge.

Your child depends on your care physically, but his needs go far beyond food and clothes. Because the child can't control his emotions, he needs you to help him keep his emotions stable. Although a child is born with emotional instinct, he needs external forces to control these emotional states and prevent them from crushing his nervous system. Comfort the child when he is sad, calm him down and prevent him from being frightened or overstimulated. This actually shapes the structure of the child's brain system and affects the brain's ability to adapt to the future environment.

You have long known that warm care in childhood can help children thrive, and now scientists have found its physiological mechanism. It can be said that parent-child attachment, or parent-child connection, is the most critical factor affecting children's future development. Parent-child relationship is the first interpersonal relationship in a child's life, and its quality has a wide and far-reaching impact on the child's life, far exceeding any other factor you can control.

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Whether a child can become a winner in life in the future depends largely on whether he is good at communication. Listening, reading and expressing are the key skills necessary for future study and job hunting. It is generally believed that learning expression starts from 1 year and a half to 3 years old, and reading literacy starts from the first grade, which is a misunderstanding. Now we know that the learning of these skills began very early. Children have the instinct to communicate from birth. What you need to do is to cultivate this communication ability slowly.

"Communication" refers to the development of language system and language skills, that is, all the information transmitted by one person to another through vocabulary, voice, gestures and words. The first words a child will say, and the sound he makes when he opens his mouth, all convey information. Knowing the word "cat" and the letter "M" representing McDonald's are all communicating and transmitting information. Communication can also be singing, laughing, crying or sign language.

Whether a child's communication and expression skills are well exercised in childhood will directly affect his future development of reading comprehension and computer operation. Maybe you don't believe it, it's not difficult to take children on this road to success, and there will be unexpected returns for you.