Our differences have recently appeared in whether Niu Niu goes to early education. After the problem was solved, I remembered that many online mothers complained that their children's fathers thought their children should go to school at a basic level and play in a happy childhood. I asked Niu Niu's father what he thought, and Niu Niu's father said that if Niu Niu had talent, she could really basically go to school and play in a happy childhood.
In fact, Niu Niu's father also has this idea. I feel that many dads will have it. I think it is very hard for children to attend so many extracurricular classes and interest classes at such a young age. Children have no childhood. But in fact, I think the idea itself is still at the previous exam-oriented level for education. Let's not talk about the diversified and personalized teaching of teachers in extracurricular classes and interest classes. How can learning itself be misunderstood as hard work? It seems that only playing can make you happy? But why can't you learn knowledge when you play? This is not necessarily a contradiction in itself.
Learning can be diversified, and learning is not necessarily just fixed in a certain place and constantly brushing questions.
In Montessori education in the previous family environment, there was a parent-child game about dinosaurs. In fact, it is not just dinosaurs, but anything that children are interested in. Parents organize their thoughts. Children should first fill in what they know according to this idea. If they don't know or understand the content, they should learn to look up the information themselves, or ask the teacher in the interest class and fill it out by themselves. All finished. Children can sort it out as a whole and rearrange it according to their own ideas. Isn't this a learning process? Will children feel unhappy? Not exactly.
The other is about children's talent. I often joke that children's learning talent is like winning the lottery. There are many tyrants and gods, but you may not meet them by chance. In other words, what if your child doesn't learn to be a bully and can't keep up with the 0-based enrollment? Or do you want to sign up for remedial classes and online classes, or do you just think that your children are like this?
Einstein did, Newton did, but there was only one. More are ordinary people like us who work hard every day. As ordinary people, we also want to be extraordinary in the ordinary field, not mediocre. After all, every child is an angel, and every child carries the expectations of his parents. Both girls and boys will grow up one day and face the pressure of life and work alone one day. What we can do as parents is to give our children the right to choose when they really have to face pressure, rather than being forced to accept it.
I'm Lerong. About me sharing parenting, we will go together on the way to parenting.