? Therefore, I didn't watch an episode of "Sansheng Sanshi", and I dedicated all the time I wanted to watch the drama to my parents on weekends. We don't talk about the intrigue in the workplace in the play, don't talk about the mistress, just talk about the parenting problem that extends from the play.
? Barbara Zhao and Judy are cousins, and they both have a happy marriage and their own children. Barbara Zhao and her husband, Yu Zhiyuan, both started as small clerks, so their financial ability is average. Besides, Barbara Zhao is too young to be a good mother at all, so the children have been at grandma's house since birth and can only be reunited with their parents on weekends. It was not until the child reached the age of kindergarten that Jani realized that the child should be left to herself. Therefore, I have the desire to buy a house for three years and pick up my children's parents to live together, so that I can be with my children, and some old people can help me in my daily life, accompany my children and work together.
Judy and her husband Shao Jie are both fund managers and managers of public relations companies, both of whom are rich talents. Because of busy work, there is no time to take care of the children, and the children have lived with their grandmother since childhood. Children can't see the problem when they are young, but when they are in kindergarten, the problem gradually emerges. Children's self-care ability is not good, and it is impolite for the elderly to spoil. The concept of education can't keep up. Judy's daughter Dodo has been living with her grandmother. She has never read a picture book or a story book, but adult magazine is a bosom friend. Jani spends her spare time eating, drinking and having fun with her friends, and never thinks about her children's education. Until one time, the two sisters took their children to an early English class, which cost more than 20 thousand yuan a semester. Barbara Zhao realized that children have grown up and it costs money to receive a good education. Judy's point of view is that any investment, only education investment, can only make money, and education money must be spent.
? When the two children reached kindergarten age, the children in Jia Ni chose an ordinary kindergarten close to home. Judy and his wife chose a boarding aristocratic kindergarten for their children to receive a better education. At this time, the real problem began to appear.
Judy and his wife's quality of life is getting higher and higher. They live in a big house. Judy could have been husband and wife at home, but in order to realize the career ideal of new women in the new century, she became a desperate third sister in the workplace.
After selling and renting houses failed, Jia Ni and his wife decided to make money to buy a big house and realize it runs in the family's dream as soon as possible. Therefore, they are also involved in the workplace of large enterprises, and slowly focus on derailment, promotion and salary increase. The two sisters are getting farther and farther away from their children's education.
? Until one day, Judy's daughter said that she wanted the kindergarten teacher to be a mother and that her mother was bad mother. She didn't like her mother, but she liked the teacher. The teacher braided her hair and told her stories. I also asked my mother to give the necklace to the kindergarten teacher. The child's heart is completely on the teacher, getting farther and farther away from this home, plus her husband's derailment. Judy decided to give up her career and take care of her daughter full time. Be a good mother.
Barbara Zhao changed from a white rabbit in the workplace to a strong woman. She has been promoted to a foreign company executive for two years and bought a big house, it runs in the family. But I spend less time with my family and concentrate on my work.
In a blink of an eye, the child is young. In the interview, children have many problems, such as inattention, but many knowledge that should be mastered at this age can't be mastered at all. In recent years, Judy's children have been under the careful care and correct education of Judy. Won the teacher's love, relaxed and young.
Zhiyuan told jani that we missed the growth of the child before he was six years old. How to make up for it in two months? We need to spend more time and energy on children. Parents have a long way to go
? Jenny's competitor, Bai Jie, came to resign. Over the past two years, I have been busy making money, competing in the workplace, losing my job, falling in love, and forgetting my original intention. Re-examine what you really want. She owes her daughter too much, and now she has to make up for it and travel around the world with her daughter. Barbara Zhao also lost himself in the struggle in the workplace, thinking about the plan he had made before, buying a big house in three years, taking his son home to live with him, spending more time with his children on weekends and ending his life with his parents, but he ran counter to it and went further and further.
The story on TV is the story around us. Maybe we are one of them. Women in the new era have higher feminist consciousness. We received higher education and got more information. It is difficult for us to educate our children with peace of mind and give up ourselves like the previous generation. We still have XX dreams that have not been realized, and XX things are waiting for me, but the children can't wait and grow up in the blink of an eye. Before we can pay, the children may want to stay away from us during the rebellious period. How to balance work and family? We will continue our discussion tomorrow. You are also welcome to leave messages and tell stories about you or your excellent mother.