These two days, I always get advertising calls. The other party said that he was a teacher in the early education center and asked me to take my children to the experience class. At first, I was puzzled. I don't have children. The other party always calls me again and again to ask me out? Later, I remembered that I should have taken my nephew to the mall last month. My little nephew had to scan the code in the booth to get the tinkling cat toy. I have no choice but to leave a number.
Hearing this, my sister-in-law smiled and said that I was too honest and should have left a fake number. Hearing this, the little nephew was a little shocked. He asked me quietly, "Isn't this a lie?"
Isn't that a lie? A word caught me.
I believe that many parents will leave a fake number when scanning the code, which is really for the safety of information disclosure. However, this is also an act of losing honesty in front of children.
So, do you want to scan the code collar toy? I thought the same thing.
First, if the child really wants it, he can scan the code and buy one.
In fact, the essence of this problem is that a child just wants a toy.
When a child sees his favorite toy and can get it for free by scanning the code, he must really want it. If you stand from the parents' point of view at the moment and are afraid of trouble or information leakage, children will not understand.
So, if the child really wants it, then do it and scan the code to buy one.
Second, if you get it, don't leave a fake number.
Put yourself in others' shoes. No one wants to drag the customer to scan the code repeatedly. Salesmen are also for survival. You left a fake number, which didn't help their performance. Since you have received the gift, don't give it to others. This is a kind of frankness.
Imagine what your child would think if you got a gift every time by "leaving a fake number". I not only learned dishonest behavior, but also learned the bad habit of getting something for nothing.
Third, tell children that it is not free. Although the scanning code is small, it is by no means something for nothing.
Many parents are very happy after getting the gift and will say to their children, "Don't take it for free."
You will imply that children can get gifts for free.
Success requires hard work, and what you want to buy costs money. There is nothing for nothing in the world, and all transactions are equivalent.
I scan the code to serve each other; He gave me a gift and returned my information, which was an equivalent substitute.
Of course, the purpose of doing this is also to tell children that you can get it only if you pay, and you can get it only if you work hard.
Fourth, say "thank you".
Many parents have more or less discrimination against the staff who scan the code, and always feel that they are superior, so the arrogant attitude and the behavior of finally receiving a gift without even saying thank you are very unpleasant.
No matter whether the gift is expensive or not, when someone gives you something, saying "thank you" is more useful than any quality education.
Fifth, don't throw away gifts when you receive them.
Many gifts obtained by scanning codes are not taken seriously by parents. Why? Because he doesn't have to spend money. But at that time, children didn't have much "money view". They want gifts out of love, not value. But many parents, after playing with their children for a while, say, "throw it away, it's free anyway."
Many parents told me that it is particularly difficult for children nowadays to choose expensive gifts and eat well, which is better than adults.
But have parents ever thought about it? Why children with a blank sheet of paper become secular is mostly because their parents' view of little money affects their values.
So, can the gifts in the mall be scanned? It's up to you!
Secondary forest, first-line teachers, don't talk about the truth, three minutes a day, let you learn simple and practical education methods. Welcome everyone to comment and express their feelings, and we will make progress together.