Since my children can walk at the age of one, their education has been put on the agenda.
There are several parent-child parks on the edge of the community. Every day when you go out to buy food, you will be found at the intersection. There will be a thick stack of promotional materials on the table, and balloons, small fans and other gadgets will be distributed. Children have no resistance to colorful balloons. I ask for balloons every time I pass by. They will give it every time, and then add my wife's WeChat, and we will guess the future together.
It didn't attract our attention at first. As usual, we took our children to the leisure square in the community to play. Suddenly, for a while, mothers with babies discussed their children's education together, and parent-child classes were naturally the most discussed.
That's human psychology. If people don't discuss it, they feel justified and there is nothing wrong with it. During our discussion, we felt that it was a waste of time not to sign up for a class and learn an extracurricular skill.
The result of the discussion is to go to a parent-child class.
Children over one year old have just learned to walk, their activity ability is increasing rapidly every day, their speech is becoming clearer and clearer, they are very curious about things, they can play with a button for a long time, and they have a strong desire to express themselves.
This is the world of children, pure and simple, without any stain.
Such a lovely child is not enough to love and hug. Every day after work, her mind is opening the door. She rushed to me, shouting her father's voice, helping me to change my slippers and put the uppers in the shoe cabinet. Then, I went to the bathroom to wash my hands and face. She waited for me to finish washing at the door, then picked her up and kissed her left and right face.
Now, she has gone to kindergarten.
It's not quite what we thought. Even my wife and I feel a little lost.
I heard that children will be very anxious before going to school by themselves. They will cry a few days before school, disobey the teacher's management, and don't eat, socialize, play, attend classes or go to the toilet in kindergarten. They just waited for class to go home to see their mother, and they cried when they saw it. Before school, they will cry again, just like where you will go.
My child didn't do it. Instead, I happily said goodbye to my mother with my schoolbag on my back. After getting on the school bus, he sat in his seat, carrying a schoolbag, not crying or making trouble, very quiet, so he went to school.
Later, my wife sent me a message saying that the child was not happy at all, but his heart seemed empty and painful. Should he be happy?
Or should I be sad?
The child is very independent, so maybe she won't panic about strange things. Fortunately, she got on the school bus to kindergarten alone.
My wife is still worried. After the school bus left, she secretly drove behind, watching the children get off the school bus, line up, eat and play according to the teacher's arrangement, and then run there and here. After the teacher followed, he hugged them and put them in the team.
Son, I have to say, you worry your parents too much. You are very happy for your father, and your mother is a little frustrated.
I went out to play a few summers ago and met a family of three, but my parents changed to grandparents. Parents go to work, grandparents take care of their children.
They took their granddaughter to the scenic spot to play, and the child had just been in kindergarten for one year.
She was a little shy at first, but she liked playing with me when she got familiar with it. She has many advantages.
For example:
I was impressed by these performances, so I asked her grandparents for educational ideas and methods.
Other people's educational methods:
Grandpa said: children will be spoiled at home and will be a little disobedient, but they are all under control.
Method 1:
But because children's attention is usually not too long, they will be distracted by other things, so parents and teachers should attract their children's attention or find that they are interested in those games and teach them some simple knowledge while playing them.
This is an idea that I have never thought of or seen before. It seems right, and there is no way to refute it.
Another discovery is that his children have been able to recite foreign classics for a long time, and some places are a little stumbling, and they can continue when prompted. I think this is a great place.
Method 2:
Ask grandpa and answer me:
This is another knowledge point!
I can't help sighing. With experienced people, I often get a lot of knowledge. With mediocre people, I am mediocre every day.
Other people's children are always excellent.
Their children's outstanding places are not limited to these. She knew hundreds of Chinese characters at an early age, and her grandparents made great contributions!
Method 3:
I have to say that the old man is very thoughtful and spends all his time on how to educate his children. Under the education of the old couple, the children are outstanding in knowledge, polite and lively, smart and lovely.
I teach the method of counting:
Inspired by this old gentleman's educational philosophy, I changed the rules of the game when I played Woodenhead with my children. When I count to 10, I can move, which is not illegal. Children are very interested in playing. I slowly count to 10 from the beginning, then count to 50 a week later, and then count to 100. Now I can read it quickly and accurately.
It's a pity that I didn't persist. At present, I am still stuck in the count of 100. I need to persist in this aspect, and I need to constantly discover her interests and integrate my knowledge.
These are simple to say. When you do it, you need body language, clever communication, enough patience and good physical strength to support it. Many people are enthusiastic at first, but after a while they are too tired to persist. Then, this stage of knowledge infusion is abandoned, and the golden age of children has passed. What a pity!
As a treasure mother, we must grasp it well in the embryonic stage of children's cognition. Once the particularity of this stage has passed, it will never be found again, so we must pay attention to it!
How can I correct my bad habits?
I think children at this stage have another feature:
After this stage, let the teacher correct the management after you go to primary school and junior high school. Imagine, is it easy to manage?
Sticks don't necessarily make filial sons, and strict teachers don't necessarily make noble disciples.
If it develops in a positive direction, it is a good thing. What if it doesn't work out?
It is better to correct and smooth things from an early age, and naturally feel that things should be like this when you grow up. Adults should worry less and children should make less noise, don't you think?
Finally, tell me how I spent a week teaching an ancient poem.
The first ancient poem "Ode to Goose"
At first, my wife taught Luo, a poet in the early Tang Dynasty, a poem "Ode to Goose". That is a five-character ancient poem, catchy and unpretentious. One night when I was sleeping, the child read it out smoothly. My wife said that she had taught it several times. There was no special reaction at that time, but I didn't expect to write it down.
The second ancient poem "Spring Dawn"
I really taught it consciously, that is, a month ago, before going to bed at night, I lay in bed, rolled back and forth, somersaulted and screamed from time to time. As soon as I turned off the light in my bedroom, I calmed down immediately, put my arm around my neck and let me tell a story, so I taught Meng Haoran, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, five-character quatrains. When I am prompted by the first two words, I will recite it for two nights, and four days after I say it.
Three ancient poems "The First Posting of Baidicheng"
I also taught Li Bai, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, a seven-character quatrain "The First Delivery of Baidicheng", which increased the difficulty and may be a challenge for children. Sentence breaks and tone need to be readjusted, and I memorized them in less than a week.
The fourth ancient poem "Village Residence"
Now I am teaching the seven-character quatrain "Village Residence" written by Gao Ding, a poet in Qing Dynasty. The difficulty of this poem lies in the first two sentences, which are slightly evasive and the last two sentences are colloquial. The children came back from school early and were busy flying kites in the east wind. These two sentences are easy to learn.
I said the first four words yesterday, and I can basically say the last three words. I said it in the wrong order on purpose, so I can correct my mistake.
Although it may not be difficult to recite an ancient poem a week, the number of ancient poems is a bit amazing if you persist for one year. How many ancient poems will there be in the whole primary school?
How much wealth will it bring to children if you persist?
Right?
Write at the end:
I chose to publish articles in the field of life, but I don't know what this field of life contains after all.
I don't think this is cooking with fire,
It doesn't seem like home cleaning,
It doesn't seem to be home design,
I don't think I'm dressed,
I don't think this is a trip,
It doesn't seem to be parenting education.
I don't think it's a headache or brain fever,
It doesn't seem like a feeling of life,
I don't think this is experience sharing,
But life seems to be all about this. Without these, is it still life?
In my opinion, life is like a hodgepodge, it's just a basket, everything can be put in it, and only when there are mixed flavors can we get the real taste.
This is my life. I write whatever I meet. There is no falsehood, only sincerity. Maybe some people don't like it, so I try not to hate it.
Feel useful, welcome to pay attention, forward and collect!
I happened to arrive in time.
Wechat official account: just right.
Is the most comprehensive.