Find the target first, first choose people who read the same kind of books as you, then choose people your age, then the sister who looks more patient, and finally the person who sits in the same library with you. Don't try to strike up a conversation in the study room for two reasons: First, two-thirds of the people there are made up of learning tyrants and learning gods. The atmosphere of struggle will make most people enter the state, and the success rate of chatting up at this time is not great. Secondly, most of the people there are newcomers. In this case, you can't talk about a few words if you strike up a conversation successfully (if you don't believe it, you can experience it yourself. In the first case, if you say more than two words, you will be blindsided. In the second case, you will basically come in groups of three or five, and a person's words are waiting for someone. In the end, a few people will be single, and ten sentences may not be answered-study hard ...)

After the goal is finalized, sit tight and find an opportunity (for example, when drinking water, I accidentally see the title/chapter name/short key content/author, etc.). ), and said softly: You also read XX/ XXX books/this kind of books (etc. ), what do you think of its content /TA style/this part (etc.)?

The key is not to say this suddenly, but to show interest first, call someone and wait for him to react.

The conversation time must be controlled within three minutes (after all, people come to read books ...), and they tend to raise topics rather than questions during the conversation. Interrogative questions should try to be irrelevant questions such as what time it is or academic questions such as the other party's views on Ta.

After the conversation, don't read immediately, do something else (look out of the window, etc. ) or leave for a while (go to the bathroom to answer the phone). In any case, you can't give people the feeling that "I look up just to chat with you".

Study hard for more than half an hour. If the book that Ta is reading is still the same, then strike up a conversation again and try to talk about something related to that book. It doesn't matter whether you understand or not. Reading on douban, half an hour is enough.

Repeat this process until it is getting late or close to lunch time.

You can ask Ta directly if you want the number. After talking for so many times, Ta basically won't refuse, and then took the opportunity to ask Ta's name. If you don't want the number, just politely say goodbye to Ta when she puts down the book.

But it's still like upstairs said.

Yes: bold and thick-skinned