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How do liberal arts girls view engineering male's temperament?
"Looking for engineering male, people are stupid and have more money. Come on. " Recently, influenced by the "employment shortage" of college students, posts like "engineering male in urgent need" have become popular in many online forums. Engineering male, who used to feel "rustic and dull", has now become a new force in employment, which makes many liberal arts women look forward to it.

But when a liberal arts woman meets engineering male, what kind of "spark" will this intimate contact produce? The author interviewed some liberal arts girls in Tsinghua, University of Science and Technology Beijing, Huazhong University of Science and Technology and other engineering colleges with a serious imbalance between men and women, and found that although they got along closely with these gold medal boys, they complained bitterly about them.

Some liberal arts girls say that the so-called engineering male is a group of little boys who are sloppy and "curtilage" when they don't go out, and they are generally shy when they come out. "In the face of this cruel reality, unless our left brain is water and our right brain is flour, they can't land on our retina when they shake." Huang, a journalism major at Hunan University, said.

In addition, in addition to the "innate conditions" such as temperament and taste, engineering male's "acquired indicators" such as lack of emotional appeal and incomprehension of amorous feelings often fail to reach the "passing level" in the minds of liberal arts women, which has also become the object of criticism by girls.

In Tianya Forum, under a post called "Marry engineering male if you want to get married", many netizens left a message, "No, I married an engineering husband, and as a result, I have a high IQ and a low EQ, and I don't understand the world." "engineering male around me is introverted, looks embarrassed and generally has poor taste."

Some liberal arts women even said, "Don't feel great just because you are a potential stock. For us, the quality of life, clothing taste and humor are indispensable. I have to consider finding an' economic pragmatist' who doesn't understand customs. "

"Economic pragmatism" They don't understand your heart.

Different from the liberal arts boys known as the "Mandarin Duck and Butterfly School", the engineering boys known as the "economic practical school" have been dealing with numbers and theories for a long time, so it is difficult to understand girls' desire for romance and fantasy, and it is even more difficult to understand how to please their goddess. So they want to break their heads with their own engineering thinking, and even ask a few female friends around them what they should do to make girls happy. On the trip home this summer, Xiao Fang, a girl from the School of Journalism of a university in Hunan, encountered such a special "social investigation".

"I finally met your liberal arts girl. Can I do a social survey? " Xiao Fang was investigated by a standard engineering boy majoring in communication engineering. Because it was a standing ticket, he carefully bowed his head and accosted Xiao Fang. Out of curiosity, Xiao Fang readily agreed.

After a short silence, the boy asked weakly, "I wonder what I can do to make a liberal arts girl fall in love with me?" Say that finish, he blushed.

Through chatting, Xiao Fang found: "These engineering boys are very practical, but they are very boring. Although they are proficient in all kinds of money-saving tips in life, they don't understand why it is far less attractive for liberal arts girls to make an ordinary phone call every day than to send a mysterious little gift on holidays. "

Why don't you like cleanliness in Tiger Mountain?

Li comes from the law school of an engineering university in Beijing. She is usually afraid of going to a large class because she will meet "ten fragrant flowers" as soon as she attends class. Jessica Hester Hsuan vividly described that they had to have an ideological and moral class together with the engineering class. This class has a famous "Shilixiang". Usually, in his class, nothing can survive within ten miles. According to the people in his dormitory, from the beginning to the end of the semester, his sheets have never been changed, and he can still stand up in bed. Moreover, people in his dormitory usually get up very late, because the dormitory is too smelly to sleep at night and can't get up in the morning.

In engineering colleges with more boys like this, boys are generally untidy. Han Xue from Foreign Languages Institute should visit the library. If there is a boy sitting opposite, and he doesn't smell it for 10 minutes, she will open the textbook and start reading. Once the situation was found to be wrong, Cecilia Han immediately changed his seat. When she first entered the university library, she wondered why she could sit at a table for four people, usually one for a boy and one for a girl. Later, I learned that girls can't stand the scratching of boys across the street and always don't pay attention to personal hygiene.

"Ah, I have to go to Tiger Mountain again today. i really do not want to go. Why don't they take a shower? Just buy a mask next time. " The public classroom in her school is generally called "Tiger Mountain", because there are many boys, and girls complain a lot in summer.

Black shoes and white socks, a random "engineering fan"

Huazhong University of Science and Technology was formerly Huazhong University of Science and Technology, and the most exaggerated ratio of male to female students in science and engineering is 7: 1. At noon every day 12, science and engineering boys gushed out from the teaching buildings of East Nine and West Twelve like the tide, and looked down from the roof, all of them were black and gray. "It's like traveling in a black-and-white movie." "Travel is still white, and the boys here are all black and gray." Two girls in the journalism department described the boys in our school like this.

"The most intolerable thing is their clothes, wearing big black suits above and Anta shoes below. It's not that Stephen Chow is making a movie, so it doesn't make sense. " Lin Han likes sunshine and is extremely disgusted with the inappropriate clothes of engineering boys.

"I've also seen them wandering around in winter wearing huge fluffy big-headed dog cotton slippers. I'm flattered. The most terrible thing is that they are like children who have not grown up all day, carrying backpacks everywhere. " Xinmeile Co., Ltd., which used to work in the school news center, remembers that a boy majoring in mechanical engineering was elected as the vice chairman because of his outstanding performance. When he took office, he deliberately wore a neat suit, but as soon as he came on stage, he attracted a burst of snickers from girls: he actually wore a straight suit and carried a big backpack.

Some taboos about dress are basic common sense, but they have become new knowledge for engineering boys. "I once saw a buddy wearing leather shoes, white socks exposed, and his pants didn't even cover his ankles. I told him not to wear such clothes. But he asked seriously, really? Why? This makes me vomit blood. " Xinmeile Co., Ltd. said.

"Otaku" can't leave the boys' circle

Boys in engineering colleges will live together and generally do not participate in social activities, so they are nicknamed "otaku" by girls. Wang Yi, a civil engineering major at Dalian University of Technology, said that they are generally boys, who act together, attend classes together, play ball together and have supper together. Because I am usually busy with my studies, I have no energy to participate in clubs and social activities at all, so I rarely have the opportunity to meet girls from other majors. Coupled with the lack of girls at work, it has become an all-male group.

Jia Lin, a Beijing girl, is a beautiful girl in school. Once she was eating in the canteen, and the boy opposite kept staring at her. Jia Lin stared at him when he was uncomfortable. Unexpectedly, the boy blushed and said nervously, "What kind of food are you drinking, classmate?" Jia Lin almost didn't hold her glass, and her cheerful personality made her laugh. Her intention was to play a joke on the boy and ease his embarrassment. But I didn't expect the boy to abandon the meal and leave the canteen in a hurry.

Jia Lin said that sometimes when walking on campus, he would meet a standard engineering boy in school uniform and pat her, but when she stopped, he stuttered again.

"My personality is more like a boy. Seeing these unsociable boys, I really want to sing' shy roses bloom quietly' to them. In fact, I really want to tell them that paying attention to the quality of life is respect for themselves, and paying attention to the image is also respect for others. I hope that they can get rid of their own circles, get rid of books and bad habits, truly enter a colorful life, and truly enter the hearts of our liberal arts girls. " Jia Lin sighed.