Or take him to an educational film, and the punishment for stealing. I want this thing without money, so I'm sorry to tell you that you made an agreement with him, and you have to tell your parents if you want to buy it, and you must not steal it. You will give him money to buy what he should buy and explain why he shouldn't. If he really wants to buy it, he can borrow money from you and deduct it from his pocket money.
There should be punishment measures for stealing, such as doing more housework and playing less. Do more things he doesn't want to do. I think you can tell the waiter that you should put your things away first and communicate with the children in a place where no one is around. After asking the ins and outs of the matter, settle the bill with the waiter, take the child and apologize to the waiter, and do everything with the child. Don't take it out on the child on the spot.
Tell her the disadvantages of stealing and the flash of honesty, and then encourage her to fight for what she wants-if there is something she wants, she can speak frankly.
I think we can communicate with her. Don't be angry. Everyone makes mistakes. The key is how to make her understand and make her right. You should be happy that she has changed. You should also be glad that you were caught stealing this time, so that you can educate her instead of stealing herself. You can take her to the library, tell her more stories about this truth intermittently, and read more books about this truth with her.
You have to know that there is a saying: "If you don't educate your child well, someone will naturally educate him for you." This problem should be parents' own business, and others can't replace education. In fact, children can be educated as long as they can maintain a good family atmosphere at ordinary times.