Lost home
I don't know when mahjong became popular in society. One weekend, my colleagues at work asked me to come here. I think it's okay anyway, so I agreed because of face. But this time, I almost ruined the harmony between father and daughter and a beautiful home. Since then, I have been asked to play mahjong regularly, and my addiction is getting bigger and bigger. As long as I have time, I will build a square city. In the past, every day when my daughter came home from school, I always asked her about her performance at school that day and what she didn't understand in her study, and urged her to review her lessons. However, my daughter's study has been neglected since she got sick of playing mahjong. My wife and daughter have warned me many times not to come, but I didn't listen. Sometimes when you lose, you go home angry. The laughter at home was drowned in complaints and quarrels. My wife went back to her mother's house for a month for this matter. When my daughter saw her father, she said he was a gambler. She didn't act coquettish in the past, and her studies were greatly affected. Her mood is also very low. She was in high spirits and became silent. At this point, I seem to be possessed by a ghost.
I woke up suddenly.
Every dark cloud has a silver lining. Just like family conflicts, like volcanic eruptions, are in danger and explosive, and an unexpected event has changed all this. It's another night full of smoke. I had a fierce battle with some friends. My daughter doesn't know when she came in. She looked at me with angry eyes and almost shouted at me with all her strength. "Dad, do you know that mom is ill? She's in the hospital. You are still playing mahjong. Are you a competent father? " I let you play mahjong. "Say that finish, she threw the mahjong on the table on the ground. My daughter's eyes are full of fire and hatred, like a sword penetrating my selfish chest, like a thunderbolt in the clear sky. I was shocked and appalled. How did this happen? Where's my lovely daughter? Where's his good father? I looked up at the long night sky outside the window and kept torturing my conscience. Since then, I have no mind to play mahjong. A few days later, my daughter came home with a form for me to sign. It turns out that Hutang Central Primary School, where my daughter is located, is carrying out reading family selection activities. Compared with the above requirements, especially when I see the time my parents spend reading books every day, I feel ashamed. I really don't think I should. I don't study, which affects my children and my family, and my heart is full of deep regrets. Yes, my father is my children's first teacher, and his influence on them is lifelong. Today's society is an era full of competition and challenges. Not only will I bring bad consequences to my children, my family will suffer, and I may be in danger of being laid off. A happy scene in the past came to my mind like a movie. It's time to wake up.
call up all the forces to meet the urgency
After a sincere confession and apology, my wife and daughter forgave me and agreed with me that no matter who asked, I would not be allowed to play mahjong. After work, I will go home to study with my daughter for two hours. On weekends, the whole family will go to the bookstore to read and buy books. I order five study magazines and three study newspapers for my daughter every year. My daughter said that she should study hard, live up to her parents' expectations and strive for the five-star award of the school. My wife also signed up for the correspondence exam in junior college.
Time flies, and it's the winter vacation at the end of the year. My daughter went home happily with a five-star award, and my wife was admitted to a correspondence university. I also got the excellent annual assessment of the unit. The warmth and joy of the past have returned to this broken home. My daughter gave me a sweet kiss during the Chinese New Year. I jokingly said, "Daughter, don't call me father gambler." The wife joked, "You will be called a nerd dad." The daughter laughed, revealing white tiger teeth, and the two sweet dimples were filled with intoxicating happiness.
Reading is the top priority in my family at present. Sometimes, in order to argue about a study problem, the whole family is mobilized and the argument is red-faced. I am a minority, and my daughter is always on my wife's side, but the truth is often in the hands of a few people. I always win the final victory. My wife and daughter love and respect me more and call me a doctor at home. Isn't all this the change that reading has brought to my family?
or
Family education plays an important role in children's growth. In order to better cultivate children's reading and expression skills, parents take measures to help children create a warm and harmonious reading atmosphere. In particular, everyone's methods are summarized as follows: (* _ *)
1. Start a family book club.
Family reading meetings can be held regularly to cultivate children's organizational ability and overall awareness, enhance their self-confidence and express their courage. Pomegranate's weekend reading club is an example. (*^__^*)
1) Moderator: It is suggested that family members take turns.
2) Other members: parents, other relatives, classmates or teachers.
3) Classic reading: Learn an ancient poem every week. The choice of this poem is often in line with the season.
4) Appreciation of American literature: This is the most important part of the reading club. Everyone recommends a book or an article that he has read recently to other family members. For example, classics and newspapers on the Internet or new influential works and picture books.
5) Comment: Comment, communicate with each other and improve together.
6) Same song: Learn a new song.
The above contents can be appropriately adjusted according to different situations, and it is best to create the one that suits you best. (*^__^*)
See: /showsinglecarticle. action for details? artId=4 17 155
2. Set up a family book corner
Children's interest in reading largely comes from their parents' role models and the position books occupy in family life. It is proposed to "open up a place at home, vacate a desk, sort out some old books, buy some new books, post a reading desk" and set up a "family reading corner".
1) has a scientific name: starlight pavilion, fragrance room, puzzle room, bookworm room. ...
2) Let children actively participate, for example, let children serve as librarians in the book corner.
3) The content of Family Book Corner should cover the fields of history, culture, science and technology.
3. Parent-child reading
Parents and children reading a book together not only strengthen the communication and discussion between parents and children, but also cultivate children's listening ability and guide their learning and thinking habits. (Applicable grade: before the fourth grade of primary school)
1) Parents' timely guidance in reading aloud: When parents read aloud, they ask questions according to stories and guide their children's thinking and expression skills in a targeted manner.
2) Role reading: Experience stories and improve children's ability to express and feel.
3) Carry out a family performance drama: According to the story, the family can write a script together and invite classmates and relatives to participate.
Tips: When children are uncomfortable in bed or can't sleep at night, reading to children can make them feel valued and more confident.
4. Make a reading resume:
Many bloggers have their own unique reading notes format, including good words, personal feelings, learning gains and so on. It is suggested that parents guide their children to make a complete reading resume, which is convenient for analyzing the quantity, quality and category of children's reading and more targeted guidance.
1) Ask the children to write down the titles of the books they have spent so far on paper.
2) indicate the author's name next to the book title.
3) Summarize the main contents of the book in one sentence.
5. Go to the bookstore with your children.
Books are the nourishment for children's growth. Many of our bloggers are aware of the importance of books, just as one party said, "The daughter who studies is so beautiful!" . Children who often go to bookstores are smarter. (*^__^*)
1) Go to the bookstore with your children regularly, at least once a month.
2) Read with children and set an example.
3) Children choose their favorite books.
Tips: At first, you can take your children to some children's bookstores nearby. The environment is best not to be noisy, so that children can form a good impression on books. After primary school, you can go to a slightly bigger bookstore. It is recommended to go to a large bookstore in the fifth and sixth grades of primary school.
6. Carry out a family reading contest
Parents can design competition questions about recent reading gains. Fully mobilize the reading atmosphere of the family.
1) Choose the moderator and do the questions.
2) Contest, answer questions and score
3) Analyze the reasons and reward the excellent. Specify the next host.