But not knowing what to say in front of the person you like should be the most annoying. However, the ability to speak needs to be accumulated over time. If you want to pour out a glass of water at any time, you must turn yourself into a pond. Like those interesting souls, they all filled themselves with reading and turned their hearts into rivers and lakes. Only at every moment when you want to express yourself, can you have a brainwave, witty remarks and witty responses. This kind of connotation and quality is really not cramming. You can collect a few pages of dialogue on the forum or read a few articles temporarily to learn.
Charles Munger said: I've never seen a smart person who doesn't study every day in my life-no, not one. Probably nobody likes boring idiots. If nobody likes you for a while, read more books from now on. After reading a lot of books, I can freely discuss the advantages and disadvantages of 996 working system, Notre Dame de Paris and Hugo with others.
There is nothing to be afraid of in all kinds of topics raised by others. Instead of always telling you where you went yesterday. What did you do today? Many friends will blame themselves for being too busy to study.
Here are a few dry goods that insist on reading. Answer: I have read many books in these areas over the years:
1、? You can turn on the stereo and listen to books when you get up, get dressed, wash your face, brush your teeth, wash clothes, mop the floor and walk, and you can "read" many books a month. For example, you can have a Zhihu membership. I use the South Carolina Runner Pro3 bone conduction earphone, which is very comfortable to wear and does not hurt the eardrum.
2. Spread a book on the computer desk, wait for it to turn on, the network is disconnected, and others can read a page at any time.
3、? Buying a Kindle can help you make good use of all your spare time when you are on business trips and going out, and read at any time and place. After all, it is too inconvenient to put some physical books in the bag. As a tap water for kindle, I often advise my friends to buy books for Kindle, but some people either don't care or are too expensive. They are not poor. They buy 500 lipstick and 1000 cream without blinking. I think Kindle is very cheap. For example, the youth version, which has recently become popular because of "the Kindle is covered and the face is more fragrant", is quite cost-effective. I sympathize with Kindle, and now I have to take this route to expand my audience.
If you must watch TV, you can also watch reading programs. Both Reader and Chinese Poetry Conference are excellent.
5, dating friends, trying to meet to go to the bookstore coffee shop, two people do not need to talk, each holding a book to read, this quiet time, not bad.
If you can't sleep, you should read a good book. Because reading is particularly easy to get sleepy, especially famous books, I fell asleep without reading a few pages, which is especially suitable for helping sleep. If you can read more and more, that's good. You can spend more time reading books that you usually have no time to read because of insomnia. In this way, you will not be troubled by insomnia, because it is not meaningless, it brings the value of learning and growth.