? He said, "There is no woman who is not rich. The key is whether you are rich or not. It depends on your performance. Are you good to your parents-in-law? ......"
"At the sight of this sentence, the first thing that comes to mind is my sister and her marriage and family. Because she often says that she is the constitution of Wang Fu. Because since I married her, my brother-in-law's career has improved, and he has also become a section chief. After the children went to primary school, they bought a duplex house in a good community and drove the Audi to and from work to pick up the children. In a word, life is getting better and better. And I know that my sister, who has always been lofty and pretentious, is so kind to her parents-in-law in the countryside and so filial to her parents. My brother-in-law, who has always been quiet, is also impeccable to my parents. Therefore, when I saw this sentence, I felt an inexplicable intimacy in my heart and felt that this sentence had a deep meaning.
With awe, I read two pages sent by my friend. It doesn't matter if I don't watch it. After reading it, although it is only two pages, it allows me to chat with my friends.
When these two pages add up, the topic of conversation is actually one-filial piety can bring good luck and achieve life.
And this book also discusses the identity of men and women, that is, from the perspective of husband and wife. For example, just now, writing the topic of "a woman's husband" from the perspective of a woman and a wife actually leads to another angle, that is, a man's angle. In other words, whether a wife can bring her love and a better life depends on whether the husband is filial to his parents-in-law. Although there is no specific explanation in the book, the author acquiesces, and vice versa, that is, whether a person's family and marriage are happy or not and whether the children are cute or not depends on how one treats his parents-in-law.
By the way, speaking of which, I have to say that my sister was not allowed to do housework since she was a child, and she never liked the rural environment, but she always took her children and my brother-in-law back to her mother-in-law's house every holiday. Most importantly, although my sister never spends money lavishly and likes dressing up, on many important festivals, she buys clothes and jewelry for four old people first, and then buys them herself. Because I am far away in Beijing, my sister and brother-in-law are taking care of everything for my parents, from dressing to buying medicine, supervising the decoration and going to the hospital for physical examination. On the mother-in-law's side, it is said that the old man's new house was also built by my brother-in-law and sister. In his family, my brother-in-law has four brothers.
And my sister, although her education is not high, is now working in a TV station in our city, and now she is responsible for taking the children to and from school. Including my sister picking me up at the station every time I go home.
I always think that girls' education is very important, because it is related to your career and work; Temper is very important, because it determines whether you can raise lovely children and love your husband. Unfortunately, my sister didn't. but
Today, I saw an antique photo taken by my sister in a circle of friends, which read "2008-20 19, eleven years". This is also my life from graduating from high school to college to working today.
Although, I always think that my sister doesn't have the two most important things, filial piety alone is enough to make my sister have a happy marriage, more and more beautiful children, take care of her husband patiently, and have the greatest wealth of a woman or everyone in the world.
The book also mentions how to be a "Five Blessingg". My understanding is that one of them is Five Blessingg himself, and the other four are his parents and his lover's parents. The book says that as long as you treat these four people well and treat them well enough, you will get blessings from all directions.
My friends and I are very unified in this concept. Mainly what is happening around us, such as relatives, people we know and even ourselves, can prove that the contents in this book are correct.
I have a bad relationship with my parents. Sometimes, I feel terrible. This is also the reason why I majored in Disciple Rules and studied Korean. I just never watch South Korea's Ouba or TV series. It is entirely because I see Koreans, whether their parents are right or wrong, will show piety and obedience and will not talk back to their parents. Compared with the situation at that time, I can describe it as "gambling miserably". Last year, I specially bought the book Non-violent Communication, mainly because I wanted to know myself better and handle my relationship with my parents better. Although, after reading the book, the real one went home confidently, thinking that he could change the situation. But the result is not satisfactory. Later, I simply comforted myself with words like "broken cans and broken falls" and "that's it, I tried my best". That I don't know what to say every time I talk to my mother. And my friend told me that maybe it was a way for my parents to express their love at that time. No matter what their parents are like, what we should do as children is filial piety. Also, you should tell your parents what you really think. What do you like? I can't accept anything.
So, through chatting with friends in this book, I understand that maybe one day I should find a quiet place and have a good talk with my parents.