It's human nature to expect a child to become a dragon and a woman to become a phoenix. Every parent wants their children to be better than their peers, and thinks that only children who behave well from childhood can be more promising when they grow up. But in fact, if parents often take their children out during their growth, they can not only cultivate their emotional intelligence, but also cultivate their pattern. For example, the following story happened between this precious mother and baby. Let's have a look!

Recently, a treasure mother in the treasure mother group shared a story about herself. She said her child's name was Bao Xiao when she was four years old. On weekdays, she thinks that Bao Xiao sometimes doesn't want to play with the children, but always likes to play alone in silence. So she decided to take her children out to travel more, let them get in touch with the outside world and broaden their horizons. Soon after, she found that her children not only made many new friends on the road, but also became more lively and cheerful after coming back. They are willing to take the initiative to chat and play with their children ... so parents want to cultivate their children's emotional intelligence, so they may wish to take their children to these places more.

In fact, for the cultivation of children's emotional intelligence, if parents often take their babies to these places, they will benefit their babies for life.

How many children in life are shy in front of others except their parents, and always hide behind their parents when they meet unfamiliar people. In fact, parents can often take their children to parties between adults, because at adult parties, children can not only know and make friends of the same age, improve their social skills, but also cultivate their manners and learn how to get along with adults, which is conducive to the improvement of emotional intelligence and vision.

Some children like to play alone and live in their own world, whether at school or on vacation. I don't like playing with children my age, so parents can often take their children to the park if they find their children withdrawn, because the park can be said to be a gathering place for children, and children can often make new friends and exercise their language skills and independence. Such children will have a unique advantage in interpersonal communication when they grow up.

People often say that it is never too old to learn, and they have been encouraging everyone to read more books since ancient times. Children can not only gain knowledge from books, but also improve their thinking mode and language expression ability through reading ... so parents can take their children to the library more often, and the library has a suitable reading environment and peers who can communicate with each other. Cultivating children's reading habits, knowing the world in the ocean of knowledge and exploring answers can also improve children's IQ and EQ and make them more confident.

The ancients said, "Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road." Parents should take their children out to travel more, which can broaden their horizons and open up their children's pattern. The most intuitive thing is that you can enhance the feelings between parents and children during your trip. Children playing happily in a strange environment is of great benefit to cultivating their observation ability, attention and independent thinking ability.

Parents who want to cultivate their children's emotional intelligence can usually start with these things. Take children out to play more, travel to broaden their horizons, go to the library to study, and form a good habit of reading … Children will be better!