Eloquence is a must-have eloquence book in life. This paper expounds the significance and importance of eloquence in daily communication through three parts: praise, humor and rejection, and lists the application methods and artistic characteristics of language with easy-to-understand words and short stories close to life, so that we can feel the superb wisdom of language and improve our communication ability and speaking level. There are not many details about language and eloquence in the book, just telling us in the simplest and most practical way how to say what people like to hear, how to say what makes people happy, and how to say what they refuse without hurting people.
It's not easy to say a good word. When we are talking to people or doing something, we will have unnecessary trouble if we control it a little because of the problems of discretion, timing and words. The only way to get rid of this problem is to carry out effective eloquence learning and language training. I hope this book can help every reader make a breakthrough in language, overcome obstacles in speaking smoothly, achieve an ideal speaking situation, make daily communication unimpeded, make human friendship deeply rooted in people's hearts and help outstanding people in business life.
In life, we maintain family ties, establish friendship and pursue love through heart-to-heart, so life becomes rich and wonderful, and life is more memorable; In business, we use words to strengthen and maintain various relationships, expand the field of work, improve work ability and efficiency, make work relaxed and happy, and have a broad development space; In personal growth, we gain knowledge by speaking, increase our personal charm, constantly expand ourselves, constantly pursue or improve our life goals, and shape our ideal image. Therefore, having a good eloquence is the most useful capital in life.
Of all languages, compliments are the most popular. Everyone likes to be praised, whether adults or children. Being praised and appreciated by others always makes people feel happy and confident. This is the power of praise.
It seems easy to say compliments, but we have heard many compliments from others in our lives, but we don't think so. In fact, if you want to say a good compliment, you still need to pay attention to some arts and methods. Too much praise, too much abuse, no characteristics or conformity can not arouse enough interest of others, and even lead to disgust and unhappiness. How to win the hearts of others with an extraordinary compliment? The mystery is very interesting.
It can be said that a humor is enough to win the favor and love of others in an instant, improve the language level in the simplest way, and become the most popular person in social occasions. A philosopher in the west also said: "There is an achievement in the world that can make people achieve great things quickly and gain recognition from the world, and that is the ability to make people like to speak." Humorous words do just that. We have understood and experienced the meaning and charm of humor. Basically, everyone in the world doesn't like humor, and no one will refuse a person with a sense of humor. This is the powerful charm of humor.
And how to make yourself humorous and increase your social charm while bringing happiness to others? This requires humorous skills.
Compliments and humorous words bring joy and happiness, in contrast, refusal seems unpopular. However, in dealing with people, talking and doing things, rejection is indispensable everywhere. The most common rejection in life is a word: "No". The word "no" sounds simple, but it is not easy to say it. Why is it so difficult to say "no"? Why are we all afraid of rejecting others and being rejected? How to say "no" so that others will not be hurt and themselves will not be entangled? It seems that a word "no" is related to the success or failure of interpersonal communication and affects the intimacy of your relationship with friends.
Saying "no" is not easy, but there are ways to follow. If we master the effective methods of refusal, we will find that saying "no" is as important as saying "yes".
So making people happy is an art.
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