Among the 2,026 parents interviewed, 56% felt difficult, which is the latest survey statistics of China Youth Daily Social Investigation Center. About 22 billion books are published every year in the world, and China is also a big publishing country. According to the relevant data,1-1/kloc-0.7 million kinds of children's books were published in 20 16/0/0, an increase of 20,000 kinds compared with 20 15. Faced with such a huge market, if there is no choice, any reader is actually at a loss.

Choosing books for children first tests whether parents know their children and whether they are qualified readers. In the process of choosing books for their children, parents are actually testing their education and concern for their children. The author has done special reading sharing for parents in many kindergartens and primary schools. Teachers and principals are anxious about parents who lack the concept of education and reading, and hope to bring them into the family education. However, some young parents think that education is a matter for teachers and schools. They go home to play mobile phones and games, and rarely read books with their children, let alone sit with them until the game is over. Parents' role models are better than countless educational manuals. If children want to develop good reading habits, they should first read and pay attention to children. If parents can't accurately grasp their children's hobbies, personality and language learning level, how can they understand the relationship between reading and children? The dilemma of choosing books arises spontaneously.

When we talk about reading, we often mention the name of a country: Israel. In Jewish tradition, reading and breathing are linked. The reading atmosphere in the family determines children's reading habits. The process of being a parent is also a process of learning and growing. While growing up with children, parents also become richer, which is the wealth of spirit and knowledge. Parents should not be satisfied with getting a permit to give their children life, but also get a pass to give them the right to get rich spiritually.

In reading, there is no fixed reference standard to cultivate children's interest, personalized reading development and unique aesthetic pursuit. Parents don't understand their children's characteristics and stuff their children with reading lists according to standards, which can't achieve the real purpose of their children's reading development. Just like dressing for dinner, every parent should know his children well in order to make them dress beautifully and eat delicious food. Reading is the main intake of children's spiritual food. Every child is unique and lively, and their reading materials must be carefully selected for them. Just like cooking for them, only things that meet their tastes will make them eat well and love to eat.

Then who knows children?

Only parents. Let children and parents continue to grow up, and the confusion of choosing books will be solved.

Communicate with your child more and know more, then you can know what your child needs.