I want to write a tragic summary. However, I reviewed my experience in naked resignation in the past six months, and found that I was not in pain, even quite happy. I've been back in the workplace for more than a week now. I'm very busy and miss being unemployed. If I had money and had a choice, I would definitely choose not to work.
I officially resigned on 20 18. 12.27 and resumed work on 20 19.5.9, less than half a year ago. But I've been on vacation since 10, so it's half a year.
As for why I left my job and what happened before I left, I won't report further here. After all, my plan didn't change fast after all.
1, reading and watching movies
In fact, this is a matter without any purpose, but in retrospect, it seems quite remarkable. The important thing is that I was very happy. Reading novels, watching movies and listening to jazz really make me happy.
2. Learning
To put it simply, I will go to the library to review IELTS after the year. Although the total score looks ok, I know everything. My writing and oral English are a mess.
cook
This is a surprise for me. I thought I couldn't cook. As a result, in the past six months, I found that I can not only do it, but also do it well.
Step 4 write a novel
A long time ago, my plan was to start writing novels at the age of 50, but after I resigned, I felt bored and eager to express myself, so I wrote first.
Of course, I can't satisfy myself, but at least I have finished one. Now back in the workplace, I have lost my enthusiasm for continuing to create. A novel being updated was forcibly broken.
5. expenses
I got rid of the habit of being extravagant, but because I used to earn a lot of money and was too extravagant, I finally spent 50 thousand to 60 thousand in half a year, including going out to play, rent and social security paid by myself.
By the way, I also sold my luxury goods, but I took more than * * * 1 10,000, and spent more than 50,000 when I bought it. This story tells us that if you have nothing to do and don't buy luxuries, you might as well save money for retirement (such as naked resignation).
6. Others
There seems to be nothing left ... so why should I write this directory? I don't know.
Oh, I went out to play twice, once in Lanzhou and once in Taiwan Province Province. There are still photos in the dynamic, so I'm too lazy to put them.
In addition, I had a big fight with my parents. Now the relationship is relatively normal, and everyone does not interfere with each other.
Not in love. Planning to go abroad.
But there seems to be something. My outlook on life, my whole world view has been opened. I used to feel a fog in front of me, but now I feel much clearer.
Although things are still those things, the perspective of seeing things has changed a lot.
I'm in the whole state of naked resignation.
The first stage: isolation and pure rest
From February 2065438+2008 to early February 2065438+2009 (during the Chinese New Year), I basically had a complete rest. I don't want to go home to be with my parents every day (the pressure is too great), so I still have my own rental house in Shanghai and my cat.
When I resigned, I was on the verge of collapse and wanted to commit suicide every day. Tired of all purposeful interpersonal communication, afraid of all WeChat messages and telephone ringtones, I opened a WeChat trumpet, and my mobile phone kept "Do Not Disturb" every day. Quiet and cool. I like quiet.
Except for one trip to Lanzhou with my classmates and one trip to Taiwan Province Province with my parents, they are basically isolated. Because I have depression, many friends care about me and drag me out by force, but I don't go out most of the time and lie in bed every day.
However, it is indeed a good means to restore the state by supplementing sleep with drugs.
Besides sleeping, I also read some books on philosophy. Very enlightening and helpful, the whole person is simply transparent.
The second stage: do some simple things and think about life by the way.
In addition to rest, update the serial novel "Going out on Wednesday and not going home" from time to time. From the title to the content, I am very casual and write what I want to write. I got stuck at last, but I was happy on the whole.
I went back to Shanghai after the Spring Festival and wanted to find a job. But I'm really tired of my previous job. Although the salary is high, I'm completely overdrawn. Every time I think of that job, my heart will beat faster because of anxiety.
Inspired by my ex-boyfriend's work, I began to consider turning to a position with more paperwork. Combined with my previous work, I basically invested in the post of Internet financial editor. However, obviously, I used to earn more than 30 thousand yuan a month, but now I only need a monthly salary of 1000 yuan. Any normal HR will think that my brain is not normal. So for over two months, no one contacted me.
But even better: I'm not worried about this. Essentially, it is because I have begun to accept that life is divided into stages and I don't have to do anything.
The third stage: do something that seems to require hard work.
I think going abroad is actually a long-standing thing. But I was too poor to even think about it. Many people may have seen this passage, so I don't want to express my political position too much. In a word, I think this country is no longer suitable for me.
I've thought about it intermittently before, but I haven't seen such an opportunity. As for the chance to make a final decision, I probably watched too many Aki movies. I think Finns are really cute. Say nothing, just drink and listen to music. Don't be too proud of your life. So I decided to go to Finland, so I signed up for IELTS and began to soak in the library.
By the way, Pudong Library really has a conscience. Especially good, especially on weekdays, Baojun is very satisfied.
In addition, start cooking. On the one hand, I think cooking can save money. Of course, this is also the most important aspect. On the other hand, I just want to do something. Since I have no job and nothing to do, I have to cook! I didn't expect to do well.
The fourth stage: I don't know how to say it, it seems that everything is suddenly getting better.
The IELTS test is coming, and suddenly a fairly good Internet company contacted me and asked me to go for an interview. A * * * three sides are quite smooth. Of course, the supervisor expressed doubts and incomprehension about the reason why I left my job and my salary reduction, but I finally accepted it. Later, I heard that they made an assumption: I have a mine at home. They think it makes sense. I can't help it anyway. Let them think!
After joining the company, the leader was quite satisfied with me. I just lost a lot of money (but I don't spend much money now), and 996 made me lose a lot of my time. But the team atmosphere is harmonious and we laugh every day. Moreover, the daily work is very easy to quantify, and Internet companies also like to meet every day to review the data of the previous day, so the iteration grows rapidly. All in all, it's a good job, and I like it.
Later, the IELTS score came out, and the total score seemed not bad (although the score was poor). Although it is possible to retake the exam, in any case, all the efforts in the previous stage seem to have paid off.
But in comparison, I'd rather not work!
Although my present job is very pleasant and I don't need to socialize, to be honest, I don't want to work if I can stay. Work really takes up personal time. For example, I didn't see any movies this week!
If you don't have to go to work, you can control your time every day and do whatever you want. As long as you keep your body in a relatively healthy range, you can basically do whatever you want.
Advice for professionals (if counted:
Spend less, maybe one day you will need to live on savings. Save more money to ensure that you can surf for a long time. If you really want to resign, don't hesitate to resign.
A friend of mine wanted to resign for several years, but he didn't. Later, he came to see me alive after I resigned, and he fired the company where he stayed for six years (see, this is an example of my power).
Advice to friends who have been to naked resignation is:
Life is still lucky. It doesn't matter if I don't contact you at work for the time being. There will be. Trying to make every moment of life happy is more important than anything else.
After writing for a long time, I feel that I haven't written anything dry. Generally speaking, naked resignation is cool, better than any job; Unemployment is cool, better than any job. Your time and health are the most important, and the rest can go to hell.
Think about your goals, deal with the relationship between soul and body, and let go of those meaningless vanity, and your life will be much broader!
You can leave me a message if you have any questions, and then communicate! !
That's it. Goodbye.