It's definitely a good thing that you go to the library to read at night. On the one hand, it supplements and broadens your personal knowledge and vision, which is an accumulation; On the other hand, it is also an effective use of time, which is very meaningful for the future and the present. If it is used to treat people or do other pastimes, we all know that there will be a lot of time and other investments, including economy and energy, but it is basically a fruitless thing, so we can't say that it is meaningless, only that what we do at what time will be more meaningful.

If you are a follower, no matter how glamorous and fashionable you look, you are doing it for others. In fact, you are just a poor wretch kidnapped by the world. But if you can do what you think is meaningful or comfortable according to your own wishes, that is the real life. It is more valuable for us to respect the opinions and suggestions of the people we love. Other guys influenced by others have lost themselves. What is the value of their opinions?

In the long run, your achievements, inner richness and the content of your life are definitely far more than this guy who laughs at you.

So, do you still resent that guy's contempt?