Every time I think of love, I always think of Miyazaki Hayao's "Give ear and listen". The most beautiful confession I have ever heard is what Saint said to Tsukishima Shizuku: "I read a lot of books in order to have my name on the library card early".
The scene of them reading quietly together in the library seems ordinary, but I am always moved by this ordinary picture.
When they look at their favorite books, they wake up from the world in them. The moment you look up, you are on the opposite side, smiling at each other, and then looking down at their books, their hearts are quiet and beautiful.
Another form of love is Fu Zhen and mingji. They met in Lhasa during SARS in 2002, settled in Dali, worked hard together in Britain, then quit their high-paying jobs in investment banks and started their gap year trip.
The best love is that someone can accompany you to study quietly, and the best love is that someone can accompany you to travel hand in hand and travel all over the world.
Shen Fu and Chen Yun did both, especially in China in Qing Dynasty. It is not easy for husband and wife to have such deep feelings and get to know each other.
In ancient times, most people thought that a woman without talent was virtuous, but Chen Yun used her time as an actress to teach herself poetry. And have their own unique views on poetry. No wonder Lin Yutang called Chen Yun the loveliest woman in China literature.
In the interesting part of boudoir, there is a long paragraph describing the discussion between Chen Yun and Shen Fu about literature and poetry.
When talking about Li Bai and Du Fu, Chen Yun mentioned: "Du Fu's poems are refined and pure, and Shi Li's poems are bold and unrestrained; It is better to learn from Li than to learn from Du Zhisen. "
Chen Yun's love for Li Bai can be seen in the dialogue, which is also in line with her personality, lively and lovely, just as she said: "Li Shiwan is like a fairy, with a kind of interest in water, very cute."
But Chen Yun's loveliness lies not only in her poems, but also in her frankness and rebellion, which adds a lot to this loveliness.
In Six Chapters of a Floating Life, Shen Fu once said to Chen Yun: "If we can turn women into men, we can visit famous mountains, find places of interest and travel around the world, it's not too fast!"
Chen Yun immediately replied, "Why is it difficult? Although my mane is gray, I can't travel far to the Five Mountains, but I can walk close to the Tiger and Lingyan, starting from the West Lake in the south and reaching Pingshan in the north. "
Father Shen said, "I'm afraid I won't be able to leave until the day of your temple." The cloud said, "Not in this world, but in the future."
In fact, in Chen Yun's heart, there is also a heart to visit famous mountains, find scenic spots and travel around the world. But she doesn't feel sorry for herself, because she is a woman. Instead, he replied generously and heroically, although it is difficult, it can't be done in this life, and it will be forever.
Having said that, our lovely Chen Yun won't just wait for the afterlife and let this life be empty with regrets. She will dress up as a woman and try her best to get a chance to travel with Shen Fu.
Knowing that Shen Fu will go to Wujiang and pass through Taihu Lake, Chen Yun also wants to go with him. He went to Taihu Lake with Shen Fu on the pretext of going back to his mother's house.
Seeing this scene of water and sky, Chen Yun couldn't help but sigh: "Is this the so-called Taihu Lake?" Look at the width of heaven and earth today, glad you came. I don't think people in the boudoir will ever see this man again. "
Chen Yun, on the other hand, will encounter an own goal because she disguised as a man. For example, on a trip, she will meet a woman and a young woman by chance. At this time, Chen Yun's men's wear will cause misunderstanding.
Whenever this happens, Chen Yun will immediately take off his hat and show his feet: "I am also a female ear." Xiang got a fright and turned anger into joy. From this aspect, we can also see that Chen Yun is naughty and lovely.
Chen Yun and Shen Fu once spent their summer vacation in the suburbs of Suzhou City, facing a room full of vegetable gardens and the surrounding quiet environment.
At that time, Chen Yun said to Shen Fu, "He should build it here with the military department, buy a 10 acre garden around the house, and grow melons and vegetables as a salary. You paint and I embroider, thinking you need poetry and wine. Cabbage rice, coke for life, no need to travel. "
After reading this passage, I really feel that Chen Yun is painting a beautiful idyllic scene: you are painting, I will embroider, and you can exchange some wine money to sing poetry and harmony.
The most valuable thing in love is not inner harmony, nor inseparable. The hardest thing is getting closer as time goes by.
The love between Shen Fu and Chen Yun is: "Hong's case has been married for twenty years, and the longer it takes, the closer it gets. Within the family, or meet in the dark room, meet in the narrow road, shake hands and ask where to go. "
No matter how long it takes, meeting is like first love. As time goes on, the deeper you get to know each other, the more stable and practical this relationship will become.
Many times, lovers in love can't get rid of their feelings. But the longer we spend, the more we find each other's shortcomings, or because the other person doesn't meet our expectations, we will get bored with each other.
But Chen Yun and Shen Fu, no matter how long they were apart, understood each other, and as time went on, their feelings became deeper and deeper.
But things are always impermanent, and good things will not last long. Later, Chen Yun failed to win the favor of her in-laws, and her previous concubines in Shenfu were taken away by others, causing an old illness and finally died.
After Chen Yun left, Shen wrote: I advise couples in the world not to hate each other and not to be too affectionate. As the saying goes, "loving couples never end." If the rest, you can learn from the past.
And this must be Shen's heartfelt words. What is love? There are too many forms of expression throughout the ages, but like Chen Yun and Shen Fu, in the feudal Qing Dynasty, their husband and wife were affectionate and enviable. But it is also because of deep feelings that the final separation is particularly sad.
Hello, Caicai:
I reread Six Chapters of a Floating Life last weekend and started writing book reviews today. The frequency of recent updates is really less.
Travel notes about Gannan and northern Sichuan may be sent out tomorrow, or they may never be sent out again. Sometimes lazy cancer is really hard to overcome, or reading is easier than code words, so people's inertia is really easy to grow.
But I still hope to record the bits and pieces in my memory in words. It's just that I always like to chatter. I couldn't stop the car from the beginning. If I write too much, it will become a broken thought. I will turn it into a diary and keep it for myself.
Have a nice weekend. The weather in Shenzhen today is really amazing, but I slept until late in the morning. When I woke up, I opened my eyes and saw that it was 10, which was a record. But I slept contentedly and didn't feel guilty before.
On weekends, I will consciously slow myself down. However, I am an impatient person and always think that there are still many things to do. But today is still very slow. It feels good to linger at home for a while at the end of the day and then write a code word.