People are emotional animals, with secular desires, joys and sorrows, and some inexplicable impulses and ideas. Sometimes they are just discussing one thing, but it eventually turns into a personal attack. This is because people have emotions, language impulses and feelings about themselves, so it is no longer things that are slowly debated, but people around them.

I also like to discuss things with a group of good friends or colleagues, such as what to eat today, how popular TV dramas are now, and so on. But I don't like to participate in the right and wrong issues discussed by everyone, such as the gossip of colleagues or friends around me. But at that time, I really couldn't help myself to participate in such a discussion. As a result, everyone was very excited, and everyone was emotional and turned into a personal attack.

I walked into the office after lunch that day and heard a group of female colleagues discussing whether the company's new flowers had anything to do with anyone. Everyone kept talking, and there were many mocking voices. I just want to tell them not to be too loud, which will have a bad influence. As a result, Xiao Liu sitting next to me couldn't help but say, don't talk nonsense, okay? Flowers are from other places, and it has nothing to do with our so-and-so leader!

Unexpectedly, it was Xiao Liu's words that exploded the pot among female colleagues. Someone responded: What do you know? ! Has nothing to do with a certain leader? This has something to do with you. Worry about eating radish! Of course, Xiao Liu doesn't want to listen. Speak loudly. I'm just telling the truth. Why are you coming at me? You have the ability to talk to a leader.

At this time, I saw that there was not much anger, so I quickly stood up and said, everyone should talk less. It has nothing to do with anyone. Be yourself. As a result, I also became the target of their attack. Some people say that I have nothing to do with everyone, and it has nothing to do with you. What are you stirring? !

I can't go on like this, or I will really start personal attacks, but Xiao Liu didn't stop. As a result, you are going to quarrel with me, and personal attacks come out, such as "I don't like you at ordinary times, and you have a bitter gourd face" and "You are not much better, so you can make a long story short here, what do you look like, and you don't know what". Fortunately, so-and-so leaders appeared in time, ending the drama of this personal attack.

In fact, when we discuss something, there will always be some kind of self-emotion. Maybe you happen to have a good relationship with the person being discussed, and it's okay to say a word or two to be fair. But in the eyes of other people who are discussing, you are biased towards that person, so everyone will participate in the discussion with emotions and feelings, and gradually self-emotion and emotional factors will cause personal attacks. There is no need to think about it, so I will never talk too much and mind my own business again.