Do you feel pain:
Children playing with mobile phones are like being possessed.
You can play with TA for hours without eating or drinking:
You're right, children don't listen at all;
You forcibly confiscated it, and TA immediately came to the same place. . . .
Relevant surveys show that:
Children's use of mobile phones is getting younger and younger, and the utilization rate of smart phones for children aged 0-5 even exceeds 80%.
It is impossible to say that it should be completely banned.
Therefore, it is necessary to make rules when children first touch mobile phones.
Why do children love to play with mobile phones?
After carefully observing the children's parents, you will find that:
When is it easy for children to play with mobile phones: when they are bored.
If children are chasing children outside, or have their own hobbies at home, they will definitely rarely touch their mobile phones.
Therefore, if children want to "beat" the mobile phone, they must first "peel" the mobile phone from the child's environment.
According to children's interests, provide diversified choices for TA's free time.
For example, if a child is bored and wants to play with a mobile phone, you may wish to suggest:
"I'm going out for a walk/visit the xX store. Will you accompany me, baby?"
"I am free now. Shall we make handicrafts/# Lego/play board games together? "
How to play the mobile phone?
Some parents are worried that their children will miss school by playing mobile phones, so they are completely banned.
In fact, this practice is not desirable; As psychology says:
The more forbidden, the more curious; The more you can't get it, the more you will always think about it.
Therefore, instead of ordering a ban, it is better to use mobile phones to let children grow up.
Compared with watching something of low quality and no nutrition;
Why not take the children to see some good documentaries:
Traveling with books, Forbidden City 100, Poetry on Earth, Beautiful China, Earth Pulsating, Thinking Like a Crow, Strange Stories of the Universe, Power of Art, Mathematical Stories, Micro-world, Ah! Design and the like are all good choices.
Ways to improve children's playing with mobile phones;
Parents play less by themselves.
The power of example is great. If you want to control it, you must first do it yourself.
Spend more time with your children.
With real companionship, transfer your child's dependence on mobile phones to yourself.
Change your family's collar
Parents read more books and exercise more at home, so that the home is full of growth.
Cultivate children's interest
Don't let children regard mobile phones as their only entertainment.
It is a good choice to cultivate hobbies according to children's interests, such as reading, practicing calligraphy, puzzles, singing Europe and playing the piano.
Control time and content
It is not easy to ban mobile phones, but be punctual.
Make a three-chapter agreement with the child in advance, so that the child can understand that this is just a tool and cannot be addicted and dependent.
My dear child, I hope you remember:
Time is always fair.
Whoever wastes time will be retaliated by time.
Where you spend your time, there will be your growth steps.
In fact, the gap between people lies in the differences in habits.
Be self-disciplined and strict with children;
The future is not much different.
Mom wants you to be such a child.