A friend said, just tell her I don't know. Why don't we seek answers together? What I want to say is that if I really go through this routine, it will only stimulate her curiosity about "whimsy". The result is often that you spend most of your time and finally forget what you want to do. More importantly, I found that this little guy who loves to ask a hundred thousand whys belongs to divergent thinking, that is, thinking with extremely rich imagination, which can make me find that I am just ignorant of learning more than once.
And every time I answer the little guy's 100 thousand why, it is a process of knowledge reorganization. The biggest advantage is that it can stimulate the baby to observe and think from multiple angles. In order to better serve the whimsy of the little guy, I began to look for the psychological motivation behind the objective views of 100 thousand why the little guy over four years old acted.
In the process of searching, I found the picture book "Little Elephant always asks why". Many times, children seem to be asking why, but in fact they are completing their self-identity through the beauty of the external world. At this time, the guidance of parents is particularly important!
How to guide? How to let children know how to appreciate the beauty of the outside world without ignoring their own unique light, so as to complete the psychological integration of self-identity? This picture book involves the education of self-identity: let every child cherish his unique self.
And children's self-confidence comes from self-identity. Realizing the advantages of others and discovering their loveliness is the first step for children to identify with themselves. Children with high self-identity have strong resistance to pressure and frustration during their growth, and dare to be unique. In addition to self-confidence, they are more loyal to their inner judgment, have a better position in interpersonal communication, and their emotions are not easy to fluctuate with external influences. They have the courage to try and have strong speculative ability.
Yes, the most precious self-confidence comes from the heart. It comes from self-recognition and acceptance. Whether you are excellent or not, you can accept who you really are and appreciate others. Elephants in picture books can find the advantages of other animals and love them, thus realizing that everyone's advantages are different. It is precisely because of this that everyone has his own characteristics and becomes himself.
Picture book information:
Translator: jujube paste
Publishing House: CITIC Publishing House
Release date: 20 17-02
Recommended age: 3-6 years old (primary school, middle school, large class)
Keywords: life education, interest, cognitive personality development
Main contents:
Xiao Yan just can't stay in the team honestly. There is so much to see!
Giraffe's long legs, wildebeest's sharp horns, cheetah's fur, crocodile's fangs ... if only Xiao slanting had these, I really envy other animals.
But the little demon also has a very special place, such as big ears like a fan and a long nose that can spray water ... no wonder the elephant told him: "you are you!" You are unique! "
About the author:
Jonny Lambert: Won the Platinum Award for British Children's Design and Children's Books. A famous British children's picture book writer, whose representative works include I love you more and more and the elephant always asks why. The painting style is fresh and natural, warm and beautiful. More than 300 works won the stockport School Book Award.