1. Take yourself as the center and develop hobbies while taking care of your studies.

(I am no longer obsessed with the establishment of interpersonal relationships and personal settings. Generally, I will go to the study room when I have no classes during the day (sometimes I will sleep late), and then I will skateboard with my friends at school or go to the downtown square on weekends)

2. read several books a semester and believe that wisdom is accumulated. A few books are enough, too many can't squeeze out the time.

I like to bring a glass of water and then stay in a sunny corner of the library to read. If you haven't seen Hesse's Demian: My Youth, I recommend it. If you have, you can tell me.

Call your parents at least once a week.

In the study room, besides improving the knowledge of specialized courses, we will also learn some psychological knowledge.

It's useful to study psychology. For me, it has improved my ability to solve negative emotions and psychological problems and may help others in the future. Although sometimes I will suffer from studying psychology, I will still go running after studying.

5. Know your own shortcomings and try to overcome them.

My biggest weakness is that I am not brave, and I will get stage fright when I give a speech on stage, so I will find an empty classroom to practice on the podium before, so as to adapt myself to the psychological state of standing on the stage and find a relaxed speech posture.

6. Be careful about making friends, and make friends with people you admire. Their talents will make you as good as them.

In college, there are two people I admire in particular. I saw them burning with anger. Stay away from those people who only complain about misfortune all day, not only for fear of affecting their mood, but also for being assimilated by such people invisibly.

7. Try to participate in some competitions where you can get certificates and prizes.

I am particularly ashamed of this, so I got some certificates and awards, but I didn't get anything once, so now I have to have my name in every competition! We can add practice points at the end of the course when we participate in the competition! )

8. Develop some useful entertainment.

When you are free in the dormitory, you can watch American TV shows such as Friends, The Big Bang Theory and Deadly Woman. Game of Thrones is my favorite! I also watch some English dramas, such as Condon Manor and Pride and Prejudice. And the documentary of the characters is also very meaningful)

9. One day of the week can be designated as sports day, and it is best to find someone to exercise with. Having a partner will be very motivated.

I used to have time to run, but now I usually invite people to play table tennis when there is no class on Tuesday and Saturday nights, and then I meet many people in the table tennis hall! )

10. It is not recommended to go home during a short vacation. You can take a short trip with your friends.