Let's look at the advantages and disadvantages of cities and rural areas:
I. Environment
The city is full of high-rise buildings, and children can only play at home or downstairs in the community most of the time, but they are all reinforced concrete, without the fun of being close to nature, and they are all playing with science and technology toys.
Children in rural areas can run in the fields, know about all kinds of fruits and vegetables, know about sowing in spring and harvesting in autumn, play with mud, catch crickets, catch frogs, catch scalpers and listen to insects. Even without toys, children can play well.
Second, educational resources.
There must be better educational resources in the city. Needless to say, you can take your children to the library and science museum. Most teachers are better than those in the village, and certainly not as good as those in the city.
Third, eat.
Children in the village eat their own chicken, duck, fish and vegetables, which are green and safe. The food in the city is bought, not as fragrant as the home-cooked food in the village.
Children growing up in cities and rural areas have their own advantages and disadvantages, but whether they are happy or not is related to their parents. Children need their parents' company most. Without parents, no matter how much money you give, children will not grow up happily. There are many cases in which children go astray because of lack of parents' company.
Mommy Fan Yi said that children only grow up once. As parents, we should try our best to stay with our children. No matter how busy we are at work, don't forget to take time to spend with our children. The company of parents is more important than anything else. We should participate in the child's growth and don't miss his progress.
Mother-in-law's family is a conditional rural area, that is, going out to see a wheat field. I don't know how many days after marriage. My husband and I went home, but there was no one at home, and my husband didn't have the key to home. So he went to see his mother-in-law, and I waited at home alone. At this time, I was attracted by a few little guys next to me. Two boys and a girl look only five or six years old. Their little faces are red with cold, and their little fingers look like little carrots. The three of them are playing house with the stones they picked up.
Now our children are over two years old, including parks, riverside parks, wetland parks, ornamental parks, libraries, science and technology museums, sports institutes, tennis courts, swimming pools and so on. It is near our home. Life is really convenient, and children are happy every time they go to these places. At that time, at my mother-in-law's house, we finally went to the county seat. These convenient pleasures are definitely beyond the reach of rural children.
Do you think children in rural areas are happy or children in cities are happy? It should be said that children in cities are happier! To be precise, children with parents are the happiest.
No matter in the countryside or in the city, children without parents will not have real happiness!
In rural areas, many parents leave their children to work outside, and leave their children to live with the elderly in rural areas, which directly takes away their happiness.
There was a movie that touched many people before. I only remember the episode singing "Only mother is good in the world! A child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child without a mother is like grass. " ...
Parents, especially mothers, are self-evident in children's minds. When a child is young, he is the closest person, the most dependent parent and the most inseparable parent.
Children in cities live with their parents since childhood, and they are happier than children in rural areas, because they are accompanied, hurt and teased by their parents!
However, children in rural areas may not have the happiness that children in cities have!
Spend more time with your children when you have time, and let them grow up happily!
This problem lies not in the children themselves, but in the parents, because the children have no absolute choice. What to eat, what to wear, what to learn and what to play are all parents' decisions! To put it simply, ten or twenty years ago, there was no doubt that rural children were happier than urban children. At that time, I played by myself, and sometimes I could satisfy my hunger. That's what I did. The children in the city bought all their toys, learned what they participated in, made many friends and had a good time! Today's happiness is not as naive as we were then. Now parents, born in children, have made plans and paved the way for their children, just waiting for them to leave. They are busy at school, at home and during holidays. What the hell are they up to?
Happiness is relative, there is no way to compare it, but overall, I think rural children will be happier now, but there should be no urban children happy in the next 20 years! The reason for this is the following：
First, parents attach importance to education.
Most parents of rural children go out to work, leaving their children to their grandparents, who were mostly from the 1950s and 1960s. They have no educational ideas and energy, and there is no way to guide their children's homework or study habits. They only rely on teachers, but the phenomenon of "5+2 = 0" is still in the majority. At school, the teacher asked very well. After a Sunday, I let myself go and everything went to zero.
Parents of urban children generally earn money through their own efforts and then settle in cities, so they know more about the importance of learning. They may often listen to some experts' methods of educating their children, constantly learn to recharge their batteries, set a good example for their children, and pay more attention to cultivating their study habits and living habits. Of course, there is no time to take care of children in the city, and it is not good for children to form habits, but most parents attach great importance to it.
Second, learn professional knowledge.
Children in rural areas rarely enroll in interest classes, and the economic conditions at home are not allowed. But the music and art they learn at school are not particularly concentrated. Students can only sing simple songs or draw simple pictures.
Children in the city, every family will choose one or two classes for their children to train their skills, such as dancing, painting, calligraphy and so on. As long as you learn a skill, you can enrich your life and support your family when you grow up.
Third, different horizons and different ways of thinking.
Nowadays, although many rural areas have the same convenient transportation and life as cities, children in rural areas have little contact with them. The only way to the world is to study, but many students still don't like reading. On the contrary, urban children can be exposed to more advanced things, such as learning programming, memorizing methods and so on. Even children can often travel, measure the earth with their feet and feel life with their hearts. In short, there are many opportunities to broaden your horizons, which will make your way of thinking very different in the future!
In a word, no matter children in rural areas or cities, as long as they don't study hard, the rest are just floating clouds. Learning is not unhappy, nothing will be unhappy!
I grew up in the countryside, and I think children in the countryside are still happy. There are several reasons.
1. Children in rural areas can have a broad space to play. The house comes out as a field. Children can play and catch grasshoppers. For example, when we were young, we could pick jujube and walnut. Now is the season when Sophora japonica is in full bloom, and we can also pick Sophora japonica. My child lives in the city, and he has never felt these pleasures.
2. Rural people are relatively simple, and children do not have such a serious comparison mentality. Like my child, who lives in Shenzhen now, who talks all day about who owns Mercedes-Benz, who drives BMW, who lives in a big house, whose parents work and who runs a company, who is rich will still be envied by everyone.
3. Children in cities are under great pressure of competition, and there are many training classes all day, which loses the happiness that children of this age should have, while children in rural areas are relatively indifferent to it. There are not so many training courses, so they can play carefree and breathe the fresh air of nature during the holidays. I think this is really good.
However, the difference between rural areas and cities is not very big now. Anyway, as a child who grew up in the countryside, I feel happy in the countryside.
I'm glad to answer this question. First of all, I am from the countryside, and now I live in the city with my children. Every time I go home to see children in the countryside, it really reminds me of my happy childhood. Although they are all disgraceful, the smile on their faces is really pure, and their bones are full of happiness. I can really feel them. Secondly, they don't have to have endless homework and cram schools every day like children in the city, and they don't have to be urged by their parents every day. They are really happy. Although they don't know what's on the playground or what hamburger tastes like, a bowl of delicious food is enough to satisfy their taste buds. This is their simplest happiness.
Urban children are happy, but rural children are not only unhappy, but also suffer hardships and work with their parents.
Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.
I think rural areas and cities have their own advantages and happiness, and it also lies in the way parents take care of their children. My child is two weeks old now. Basically, I will let my children stay in their hometown in spring, summer and autumn and go to the city in winter.
1. The place at home is relatively large and open, and children can play at will. You can play sand in the yard with your family, swing on the street at the door and twist/balance the car. In the past, there were few people and strangers, so it was safer.
2. There are many acquaintances, which facilitates communication with others and exercises children's interpersonal skills. When children get familiar with other children, they will lead us to play with other children and have a more cheerful personality.
Neighbors are chickens, geese, pigs, dogs, sheep, etc. Children feel very novel and will find ways to feed them; There are all kinds of plants, crops and wheat, dandelions can be taught on the spot, and there are all kinds of machines, such as excavators/seeders/sewing machines. As the saying goes, practice makes perfect. When we accompany our children to see it, we can explain it to them according to the previous picture books, which will impress them.
4. Eat your own vegetables and don't worry about pesticide residues.
You can take your children to the market to buy food and feel the simple and lively life in the countryside.
When you play at home in the countryside, you are free and unrestrained, and you are happy to go out, so you will let your children stay at home when the weather is warm.
1. Shopping is more convenient, things in the supermarket are more complete, and children are more sophisticated.
There are many educational institutions. I'm going to the city when my children go to kindergarten. There are many kinds of subjects. Not only is the child proficient in everything when he is young, but I hope he also dabbles and knows something.
3. The entertainment facilities are complete, so you can take your children to the playground. In some communities, entertainment facilities are relatively complete, which is different from home, and you can experience another kind of fun.
4. During the break, I will also take my children to places that are worth visiting and traveling, such as zoos and aquariums/science and technology museums, to broaden my horizons. The advantage of the city is that I will see many new and interesting things.
The traffic is developed and it is convenient to go anywhere.
6. Children who stay in the city are more knowledgeable than those who stay in the countryside.
What kind of environment children live in is determined by their parents' attitude. My attitude is that different places have different characteristics. When the children start to learn, I will also take them home to see, enjoy different scenery and experience different lives.
I think children in rural areas are happier.