Wang Fang, a girl, was spoiled and cared for by her parents since she was a child, and she got everything she wanted from childhood. After school, I can't stand any difficulties in my study. I went home with a sad face and lost my temper, which made my parents very sad. To this end, I do everything for them. If you don't do your homework every day, your parents will do it for you. Suffered a little injustice at school, parents came forward to negotiate, failed the exam, and parents found relationships to intercede.

Gradually, girls are not only emotionally fragile, but also lack perseverance in their studies. I stayed in primary school for one grade, but I couldn't get into junior high school. My mother transferred her to a township middle school through the back door and got a diploma. However, his parents asked someone to arrange for him to be a conductor in a bus company.

Examples of parents doting on their children 2:

Yan Xin is an only child, and her grandparents and parents love her very much. Usually she only eats milk, bread and eggs. Generally, she chews food in her mouth and refuses to swallow it. Choose a variety of colors when wearing clothes, and look better than others. Talking to parents at home is like giving orders. Cry and lose your temper when you are slightly unhappy. In kindergarten, I didn't even dare to play with slides. When I took a few steps in the street, I shouted for a hug.

When she was five years old, she couldn't wear clothes. Neighbors said she looked like a rogue "little princess". It is difficult to adapt to society, let alone become a success.

Three examples of parents doting on their children:

Xiaobo lives in a relatively wealthy family. Grandma is very generous, as long as her grades are good, she will give as much money as she wants and use as much money as she wants. A father used his business experience to enlighten his son. If he has no knowledge to do things outside, he will suffer. Mom told Xiaobo that as long as you study hard and do nothing, the author will die.

Parents' wishes are good, but in terms of methods, they blindly obey and invest heavily in their studies, but they don't care about their children's non-intellectual factors. As a result, wavelet has a special sense of superiority. Like a little emperor at home, his pocket is full of pocket money, and he has learned to smoke, gamble and fight. I didn't study hard, I failed in the exam, and no one has accepted the repetition. He simply didn't go to school, played with a group of boys, and finally became a thief, and his family's hopes were dashed.

Cases of parents doting on their children 4

Neighbor has a little boy, 7-8 years old, in the second grade of primary school. One day, he came home from school to eat bananas, clamoring for his grandmother who was cooking in the kitchen to give him bananas to peel. The old man was too busy to get away, so he said, "Help yourself." At this time, the little boy shouted and peeled bananas and deliberately threw them all over the floor, feeling very wronged ... this is a typical pampering. It is not difficult for a 7-8-year-old child to eat bananas and peel them himself. Why does a pupil need help? Who is in charge of peeling bananas? It can be seen that this family did not attach importance to cultivating children's sense of responsibility in their usual education.

Cases of parents doting on their children 5

Duan Shu was a native of Zheng (now Xinzheng, Henan Province) in the Spring and Autumn Period. Ji, a famous Duan, was later called Duan's uncle, the second son.

His mother, Wujiang, hated her eldest son, Ji Jian, because she had a difficult delivery. She repeatedly asked Uncle Zheng Wugong to be a prince, but Wu Gong didn't agree. After Zheng Wugong's death, Kuang Sheng became Zheng Zhuanggong (744 BC). 722 years ago, Wujiang requested that Beijing (now southeast of Xingyang, Henan Province) be named Duan Shu. After being allowed, Uncle Duan was able to live in Beijing and expand his private rights at will. Soon, Duan Shu ordered Zheng's western and northern border areas to listen to his command at the same time. Lu Dui, Zheng's son, said that a minister of a country cannot obey both sides at the same time. If Zhuanggong intends to give way to Duan Shu, then go and serve him; On the contrary, we should get rid of him and not let the people have other ideas. Zheng Zhuanggong still without interference, * * * uncle more unscrupulous, charge two pieces of land belonging to him as a fief, expand the control area to delay Taiwan. In May of 49 years (722 BC), Uncle Duan * * * reorganized battlements, accumulated food, repaired and equipped weapons, enriched infantry fighting vehicles, prepared to attack Zheng's capital, and contacted Wujiang, the capital, to open the city gate. It is said that on the day of Duan Shu's departure, Lu, the son of Zheng, led two hundred cars to attack Jingyicheng. * * * Uncle Duan was defeated and fled to Yan (now north of Yanling County, Henan Province). Zheng Zhuanggong led his troops to pursue and win. Since then, * * * Uncle Duan fled to * * * City (now Huixian County, Henan Province) to live. Zhuanggong went out to kill him, and finally Duan Shu was cornered and forced to commit suicide. It is precisely because of the mother Wujiang's arrogance towards her young son that it finally leads to the tragedy of brother and sister cannibalizing each other.

Extended data

A feature of the relationship between doting, caregivers and children. At this time, the caregiver protected the child, but also hindered any efforts of the child to act independently. Tong: Too concerned.

Basic explanation

Too much love makes the child's temper spoil the child.

It is usually parents who spoil their children.

Now most parents know that doting on their children is harmful, but they can't tell what doting is, and they don't know whether there is doting at home.

Spoiling is an irrational love, which directly destroys children's physical and mental health.

Cause consequences

From a family point of view.

I don't understand what my parents think. I don't understand what my parents have done for you. I am very arrogant and think I am the only child in my family. After stepping into the society, you will be devastated after hitting a wall everywhere. It's hard. There's pressure everywhere.

In terms of love and friendship,

Do not cherish the feelings of lovers and friends. I think what my lover (friend) has done to you is taken for granted, because I grew up spoiled. From light to light, there are few good friends. Love is not satisfactory. On the other hand, it is a betrayal.

Of course, if you are a smart person, it is easy to succeed as long as you try to restrain yourself and change your shortcomings. After all, people are used to character and temper, and so is change.

Reference materials? Spoil Baidu Encyclopedia