What if children don't like learning? In the final analysis, it is a manifestation of children's lack of motivation to learn. How can parents make their children fall in love with learning without yelling or scolding? Here are some suggestions for parents, hoping to help.

(1) Parents should learn to comfort their children when they fail in the exam.

The child failed in the exam, and he was already very lost, but he still had to endure the severe punishment of his mother. After several times, he became unwilling to study. Therefore, in the face of this failure, parents need to learn the correct comfort to help their children rekindle their confidence and enthusiasm for learning. For example, empathy for children's emotions, everyone will encounter setbacks. Talking with children about how adults face failure and how to cheer up can make children feel understood. Or give the child a "failure award" and recognize the child's efforts, but it is easier to stimulate the child's learning motivation. Furthermore, as parents, we should keep a correct attitude. Score is not the only criterion to evaluate children's learning ability, and knowledge itself is a good reward!

(2) Children are not self-motivated, and parents should set an example.

The learning atmosphere needs to be cultivated. If parents want their children to become schoolmasters, they should sit opposite their children and read books. Children's initiative in learning will naturally improve in the environment of listening and listening. For example, you can set a reading time for the whole family, or hold a reading salon regularly to share your daily reading experience and understanding of the plot in the book. If mom loves astronomy and geography and dad loves economy and technology, then in the process of sharing, children's knowledge is expanded, their desire to explore knowledge is stimulated, and parents' successful experiences can also be interspersed in salons. This is an inspirational story that is very suitable for children.

(3) children are tired of learning and patiently untie their hearts.

If you ask your child why he hasn't studied hard recently, it is impossible for parents to find the real reason and help their child solve the problem. It is necessary to start with fun, talk about topics that children are interested in, and let children relax their vigilance. When chatting heartily, subtly insert the topic of study. Or "exchange secrets" with your child, so that the child will open his heart to you and parents will easily know why he doesn't like learning. Furthermore, the children's confusion and problem lies in recognizing their emotions and actively helping them to come up with solutions, otherwise the children will feel that it is useless to talk.

(4) Children lack enthusiasm for learning and are lit with dreams.

First of all, no matter what children's dreams are, parents should show enough interest, because dreams are the premise of igniting learning enthusiasm. Then, parents need to guide their children to realize that learning is a shortcut to realize their dreams. For example, when a scientist has a high dream, he needs to master a lot of knowledge, which comes from learning and accumulation bit by bit. It doesn't matter if the dream is unrealistic. The most important thing is to patiently guide children to realize that the most optimistic way to achieve their goals is to study.

(5) When the child makes small progress, encourage him with specific praise.

First of all, don't worry about children's mistakes, pay attention to their advantages and cultivate their self-confidence. Secondly, when we praise children, we pay attention to the process and behavior, not the result. Finally, praise needs to be concrete, not simple perfunctory and rigid statements, such as "You are great" and "I am proud of you". Examples of specific compliments are: "When writing a composition, you can be unconstrained and unconstrained, and your thinking is particularly open. This is called rich imagination! " "It's thoughtful of you to solve such a difficult problem!" .

(6) Children don't like learning English, try cartoons.

Watching English animated movies is a very good way to relax and entertain! Nowadays, many parents have the awareness of cultivating English language sense. Since the baby was born, they only watched English cartoons. Children in primary school can even try to exercise their listening sense by watching English subtitles, or be bilingual in Chinese and English, so that children can accumulate vocabulary invisibly. Recommended animated films are: Travels of Flying House, Zootopia, Soul, Toy Story, etc.

(7) Children don't like reading. Try to take them to libraries and museums.

Take half a day off every weekend, take your children to the library or bookstore to enjoy reading time and respect their choice of books. Parents force their children to read books that parents think are important with utilitarian heart, which will destroy their interest in reading. The advantage of the museum is that adults don't know, but the museum knows the answer. And if the museum can't find the answer, parents can guide their children to explore in the book, so that the children have a wide range of knowledge, know more knowledge and learn more about nature.

(8) Children don't like math, so they use games to enhance their interest.

In mathematics learning, parents can use the Digital Planet APP to enhance their children's interest in learning. At present, Digital Planet has been used by 5 million+parents and users. Combined with the psychological development characteristics of children aged 4- 10, we designed 5000+ fun training level, 1300+ game interaction and 200+ animation to explain the content, so that children can fall in love with mathematics in a playful and fun way. The number sense planet attracts children through exquisite painting style design, which can integrate abstract knowledge points into the game and let children learn in happiness. More importantly, combined with the national mathematics textbook, the synchronous exercise question bank is designed, and the CPA teaching method of Singapore mathematics is marked. The content gradient design is very good!