Acquaintance stage: cultivate the temperament of attracting the opposite sex
First, you need to be a woman with a "background". This "background" is not a narrow family background, but a "background" to enter the men's world. For example, a boy meets a girl at a stinky tofu stand, and his position in his heart is different from that of the girl who leads the dance when watching the performance. Maybe the conditions of the two girls are similar, but the girl under the spotlight and aura is more attractive, isn't it? Maybe dancing girls will eat stinky tofu stalls, and maybe girls who eat stinky tofu are really rich and beautiful, but we can't underestimate the factors that affect human emotions in this different environment.
Therefore, if your skin is not white and your figure is not thin, then try to cultivate the aesthetic feeling of sports and walk around with a racket; If you are slim, have eyes, quiet and male, you should run to the library and walk around with some books. Use some "background" and "props" to set off the woman you deserve to worship and pursue. Find your own characteristics and advantages, and then play.
Friend stage: satisfying men's self-esteem
Whether you are really strong or really weak, you must make a man tired in front of him! This tired, just can't let him idle, to show weakness, to coquetry. Of course, it's not that you have to let the cup pass in front of you, nor that you are too lazy to let him buy rice or something. That's not weakness, it's princess disease. "Tiring a man" here means letting him give full play to his ability and self-esteem as a man.
The best state is to let him know that you are good, but you can't do it alone in front of him. Many things can't be solved without him. In this way, he won't worry. You beg for help from other members of the opposite sex outside, you are taken advantage of, and you feel that you have a sense of existence. There is a saying that men don't really like stupid women, but like women who can play dumb. Many girls may scoff at this. Why do you have to be stupid just because you are smart? In fact, this is a great wisdom. After all, sharp-edged hurts people and hurts themselves. Playing the fool is a peaceful character, an attitude of not attacking, and a kind expression of giving others space.
The immature stage of lover: "unscrupulous" for love.
With the background and aura, there is a good way to play the fool fully distracted. Next, we should "do whatever it takes" at the right time. Why at the right time? Because young men are a little uncertain, mentally, and they are passionate about each other. In short, men are not good things! But what can we do? Men's philandering, like women's premenstrual syndrome and prenatal syndrome, is determined by physiology. Reason, education and maturity can only restrain and restrain it, but they cannot eradicate it.
In addition to being a third party, when you meet a man who can fall in love well, you must use some thoughts to make him inseparable from himself. Some girls are naturally arrogant and conceited. They think that if a man loves her, he must chase her and tolerate everything. For such a girl, there is only one thing to say to her: your parents can't tolerate everything about you, so why should you ask someone who has nothing to do with you to be especially kind to you?
It's not that men can't be particularly nice to women. But you won't be particularly nice to a woman from the beginning. The kind of girl who waits for a rabbit, don't wait, even if she waits, she will be a dead rabbit. Lower your posture and set your sights higher. You can't go wrong. A real princess knows how to train a real knight worthy of herself. Although the training is a bit bitter, this knight belongs to himself.
Love stage: falling in love with a man's mind.
Men's thinking is more direct and bold, which is really more worry-free than women's. Therefore, if you want to conquer men, you should also use men's thinking. Don't be too petty. Don't always ask "Do you love me?" . If you are too indecisive, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and then men will be more direct and careless and will not care about you. Therefore, girls should practice the skill of falling asleep after quarreling, and continue to talk about the topic when they are obviously unhappy, or be deeply entangled in such trivial matters as "Why didn't he call me this morning" (maybe he just overslept).
After a long time, men will find that under your soft appearance, there is such an open-minded heart. He thinks he feels safe. After all, having such a girlfriend is far more worry-free than having a girlfriend who thinks all day. Doing so is not only good for the relationship between two people, but more importantly, good for their own personality.
Fresh-keeping stage: praise him if something happens.
If you can praise a person, you will encourage him. Whether a child feels inferior or confident from an early age depends on whether parents suppress or encourage him. In fact, the same is true for two people. Women don't want men to praise her for her ability and talent, especially her lover. But I like men to say that they are beautiful and lovely, even if they feel a little silly and need constant care and care. But men are not. Men are a super species that needs praise. If his ability, handsomeness and even every little thing are praised, they will feel very happy.
Praise him with friends, especially boyfriend's friends. Men are jealous. A bad man is praised by his girlfriend, and everyone around him will envy him. Over time, it has become excellent. This is also a good way to "train" your boyfriend. What we need is to give him a time and space to grow up.
3 strokes boast boyfriend essential skills!
A. always compare his strengths with others' weaknesses.
B. Always repeat his typical advantages, such as caution, wit and sureness. If your boyfriend really doesn't have any advantages, but you still want to be with him, then you can boast: honey, your attitude is really good, and I don't feel tired with you.
C. always make something that can show his ability.
The right way to love (both men and women need it)
Method 1: Honesty and correctness.
Honest communication is the most basic principle for lovers. Regardless of educational background, no matter whether there is a good job or a good position, they are telling each other frankly. At the same time, honesty is the basis of mutual trust, and trust is the key to the success or failure of love. If you keep running with a lie, the lie will be the fatal point of your breakup on the day you are discovered.
Method 2: devote yourself wholeheartedly.
Young people often have to take care of their love while working hard, and they should also do a good job in falling in love. It is difficult to give consideration to both, and sometimes there will be irreconcilable contradictions. Therefore, we must be careful and devote ourselves to girls. When we get along, we should try not to mention some people who have nothing to do with your relationship, although casually mentioning them will leave some traces, which will make the other party feel inattentive or absent-minded
Method 3: Appropriate "doing"
When in love, boys will be unconditionally obedient to girls, so after marriage, girls will also be unconditionally demanding, but girls should know what requirements can be asked, what things can be willful, and what things can only be "done" to the bottom line. Put yourself in the man's shoes, don't be unreasonable. This will make the man feel that he is not married, but has taken his daughter home.
Method 4: Stick to yourself.
Love skills (warm feelings skills)
When two people get along, they don't have to haggle over unprincipled issues, but don't be afraid to argue with their girlfriends on principled issues, don't get used to each other's waywardness, and don't give each other the impression that they will always surrender in the end. When arguing about something, you can increase your man's charm, give her a sense of security with you, give the other person a sense of identity that you are the pillar of her life, and add points to your love.
Tip 1: imitate the behavior in TV series.
"I like love TV series very much. Every time I see the' romantic interaction' between the hero and heroine, I can't help but look forward to it. For this reason, I have been waiting in the rain for my boyfriend who hasn't come back since the quarrel. Although it sounds sad, I always yearn for the scenes that often appear in this TV series, so I feel very happy instead. Looking back now, I feel that it was a good memory of my youth. I am really glad that I was so stupid. "
If you want that kind of romantic love in TV series, you might as well start by imitating the hero and heroine in TV series! Whenever I see the lovely behavior of the heroine in a TV series, I might as well write it down silently. If you have time to "perform" in front of your boyfriend, it may have unexpected good results! Sometimes you can take the initiative to say "come and save me" to your boyfriend, which is also possible. It feels good to be able to move scenes from TV series to real life, and it seems that imitating the practices in TV series every day will make ordinary life very interesting. But be careful not to overdo it or imitate those stupid scenes.
Hawick Lau also revealed that he often used this trick to "flirt" with the great man. Oh, it's very happy to hit hard at home with great strength. Huang Xiaoming and baby often stage romantic plots in TV series, and elaborate romantic surprises and various flower offensives emerge one after another. It can be seen that this is an effective means to maintain romantic love.
Tip 2: Don't treat an accident as an accident.
"I will never take what happens by accident as an accident, because if I turn a blind eye to the accident, I may miss a good opportunity. Many unexpected things happen every day in life. Wouldn't life be boring if all were treated coldly? Even an accidental meeting can be seen as a prelude to the arrival of love. It will be happier to secretly fantasize about the beautiful development after things. "
The hero and heroine in TV series almost met and fell in love by chance. If you want romantic love like TV series, you might as well learn the attitude of "don't treat accidents as accidents" in real life. For example, if you meet a handsome guy in the street by chance, or suddenly receive a gift from someone you don't know, you just take it lightly and won't feel romantic, but if you are happy to tell yourself, "Something unexpected has happened, maybe this is the guide of fate!" Even if nothing happens in the end, at least the ordinary life is much more exciting and fresh, and I will be very happy.
Tip 3: Dress up once in a while.
"When invited to the wedding, girls will be very happy, right? On the one hand, a happy event happened, on the other hand, I had the opportunity to put on beautiful makeup. Even if I am not invited to major occasions, I will definitely dress up once a month, so that I will be more feminine, more confident and more positive about love. "
If you don't have a chance to dress yourself up, you can also go to some formal occasions where you need to dress up. In this way, ordinary life will change somewhat, and love may come unexpectedly.
Tip 4: Try new things.
"After noticing that my life has not changed, I began to consciously try new things, such as going to places I have never been, doing things I have never done, and making new friends. In this way, the chances of meeting men have increased, and love seems to be closer to me. "
Are you tired of your ordinary life? Instead of going with the flow, it is better to make some changes at once. For example, you can set a goal to try something new every day. Over time, there may be great changes and romantic love will get closer and closer to you.
Love skills (skills of meeting romantic love)
Skill 1, talk first and then look at each other affectionately, and fall in love in 90 seconds at the earliest.
Many people think that love at first sight means that both parties fall in love with each other in an instant, but psychologists point out that it only takes 90 seconds to 4 minutes for human beings to judge whether they like each other. To develop a relationship with the person you like, you might as well talk about some intimate topics first, and then look into each other's eyes for 4 minutes. Conquest is almost invincible. Arthur Allen, a psychologist, said that this love equation of saying first and looking forward later can be applied to anyone.
Tip 2, * * * Have a candlelight dinner.
Secret love is painful. Try to make the other person like you. One way is candlelight dinner, but the key is not food, but candles. Candlelight dilates the pupils, which is an essential skill to arouse feelings.
Tip 3, body odor collocation
The researchers analyzed that genes related to human sweat smell attract each other. Studies have shown that people are always more interested in the opposite sex, which is quite different from their own smell. This is because the smell of sweat is determined by genes related to human immune system. Choosing a spouse with a big difference in body odor can not only avoid the intermarriage of "close relatives" with similar genes, but also help the next generation to integrate the strengths of both immune systems. So you might as well choose a perfume that suits you, so you can win the favor of the opposite sex.
Tip 4: Take a taxi to date.
At the moment of boarding the taxi, some passengers may have embarked on a journey of love. Many experienced taxi drivers have encountered the experience of being introduced by drivers in taxis. If you always insist on taking the bus and subway every day, you will only be left with the impression that you are exhausted, running around and sweating by a strange opposite sex.
Tip 5: Keep a pet.
By raising small animals and opening the channels of love, you will have more romantic encounters and interesting dates inadvertently.
Tip 6: Be indifferent to money.
Girls who pay too much attention to economic interests, men will hide far away. Because they are afraid that they can't stand her "copper smell". Men will find it easier to get along with women with relatively independent money.
Tip 7: Learn to love traveling.
No matter how busy you are at ordinary times, you should also make yourself free to travel. Travel is the easiest way for you to meet romantic love.