Moreover, this includes not only the life of adults, but also the life of children. Many parents find that their children are quite addicted to mobile phones.
What is the so-called mobile phone addiction, that is, the whole person is addicted to mobile phones, just like poisoning. A French educator once made a survey: When children play with mobile phones, the brain absorbs far more electromagnetic waves than adults. Once the mobile phone is addicted, it will do great harm to his future.
Zhuang Zhuang is 8 years old this year. Strong parents are office workers in first-tier cities. They are very busy every day and have little time to spend with Zhuang Zhuang. A few days ago, Zhuang Zhuang's parents had a holiday and flew back to their hometown to have dinner with relatives.
At the dinner, Zhuang Zhuang's parents found that Zhuang Zhuang had been playing with his mobile phone and ignored his relatives and friends. Zhuang Zhuang's parents began to educate Zhuang Zhuang not to play mobile phones any more. Unexpectedly, Zhuang Zhuang suddenly lost his temper and left the table.
Strong parents were very surprised to see their 8-year-old son suddenly become like this. Come to think of it carefully, Zhuang Zhuang has been like this for a long time. He has been playing with his mobile phone, regardless of other things. Presumably, the strong son also has this kind of mobile phone addiction.
Moreover, I believe everyone has read relevant reports. Children play truant, run away from home and jump off buildings because they are addicted to mobile phones. Preventing children from indulging in mobile phones does not seem to be alarmist. Parents must stop it in time.
So why are children addicted to mobile phones?
1. Lonely growing environment.
Although people's living conditions are getting better and better now, there are also various kinds of life pressures. Many parents go to work and seldom spend time with their children.
Therefore, the growth environment of children is very lonely. Although they are not short of material conditions, their spiritual life is very monotonous, and it is easy to indulge in mobile phones in such a monotonous growth environment.
2. introverted personality.
Although every parent wants their children to be optimistic and cheerful, many children are very introverted, which is caused by many reasons, such as external factors such as heredity.
3. Lack of parental education when growing up.
In the process of managing children, we will find that many parents will put a mobile phone or tablet in their children's arms in order to coax them, hoping that children can play games on the mobile phone or tablet, so that children will not be disturbed.
Such children are likely to be addicted to mobile phones when they grow up, because they have not been disciplined and restrained by their parents when they play electronic products since childhood.
What harm does indulging in mobile phones bring to children?
1. There are sequelae of mobile phone.
A famous British educator once said that children often play with mobile phones, which will cause the radiation of mobile phones to destroy the normal nervous system of children, leading to memory loss, headache, poor sleep and other problems.
As we all know, children are in a period of physical development, and cell phone radiation will bring irreversible harm to children's physical development. For adults, often playing mobile phones will also have a series of physical sequelae, not to mention children.
2. Poor social skills.
Many parents are indifferent to their children's social skills. A survey shows that children with strong social skills will achieve their goals more easily than children with poor social skills.
We will find some children with poor social skills. They are often taciturn in real life, but they are extremely active in the world of mobile phones. They may have few friends in real life, but they know many people in mobile social software. Such children are often unable to establish normal interpersonal relationships in real life.
3. Easy to indulge in the virtual world.
I believe everyone has seen such news reports that some children can't tell the boundary between reality and virtual world because they are addicted to mobile games, and they jump off buildings in real life.
The reason why they jump off a building is because the game characters they control in mobile games do so, so they imitate the role of mobile phones, regard real life as a virtual world, and can't distinguish the boundaries between reality and virtual. Such children can't have a normal life in the future.
How can parents keep their children from being addicted to mobile phones?
1. Cultivate children's interest.
Most children who are addicted to mobile phones don't have many hobbies. Parents can cultivate their children's interests, for example, let them learn painting or piano, find their hobbies, and let them divert their attention from mobile phones.
We all know that games in mobile phones can bring people a lot of fun, which we rarely get in real life, so some ordinary things can't distract children from mobile phones, only their hobbies can attract their attention.
2. Encourage children to leave home and make more friends.
Children who live in the virtual world of mobile phones often have few friends in real life, but deep down they often long for real friends. However, due to their introverted sensitivity, they can only find people with the same topic in mobile social software.
Therefore, at this time, parents should encourage their children to go out boldly and communicate with their peers. For example, parents can take their children to some interesting activities to make friends while playing with their peers.
3. Take time to communicate with children and listen to their inner thoughts.
Children who are addicted to mobile phones often have little to do with their parents. When parents educate their children, children will get into their mobile phones and turn a blind eye to their parents' words.
This is the result of the long absence of parents when children grow up. The process of children's growth needs parents' company, not just material needs.
Therefore, parents must spend more time communicating with their children, let them dare to speak their inner thoughts and solve their psychological contradictions and problems.
I believe most parents have understood that raising children is not the most difficult thing, but how to teach them well.
What makes many parents sad is that the lively and lovely baby has become a puppet addicted to mobile phones when he grows up, but parents must remember that it is not his own fault that the child is addicted to mobile phones. All we have to do is try our best to help him and save him.