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How should roommates with different views adjust their mentality?
First, you should be emotionally stable, accept your differences, actively expose your shortcomings, narrow the distance between you and avoid solving problems, so as to adjust your mentality.

1, calm down first. It's really a challenge to continue to get along with unhappy roommates. If you want to improve your relationship, you can start by adjusting your emotions. Don't get too excited when facing roommates or behaviors you don't like.

Also try to avoid positive "mutual tearing", emotional stability is more conducive to our handling of the relationship between roommates. If you want the dormitory atmosphere to be more relaxed and happy, you should first relax yourself and not be influenced by emotions.

2, accept the differences between each other. Don't sleep when you should, and don't wake up when you shouldn't. In fact, this problem exists in almost every dormitory, and even some couples may not be able to sleep and get up.

If you are used to getting up early, in their eyes, they may also think that the time difference between you and them is wrong. They don't force you to agree with them, and we don't need to force them to agree with themselves and accept their differences frankly.

3. Actively expose your own shortcomings and narrow the distance between you. Your work and rest are healthier than theirs, you like to go to the library at ordinary times, your academic performance is better than theirs, and your clothes are better than theirs. Will they be jealous of you if you don't enter them?

Maybe, maybe not. Don't guess. In fact, we don't need to mold a perfect person in front of our roommates, let them know that we also have many shortcomings, which can narrow our distance and accept each other.

4. Avoiding can't solve the problem. If we can't get along with them, we choose to leave, which is actually not conducive to improving our ability to deal with interpersonal relationships. What we should face is to face it bravely, not to escape as a way to deal with it. Only by knowing each other's real thoughts can we find the key to the problem, solve the problem and avoid future troubles.