"We often talk about these issues at home. For example, when you watch the news, you will admire those who care about and help others. Children will also be taught to think more about others, such as starting from the little things around them and being especially careful when they see their father sleeping; Don't throw dirty clothes around, put them in the right place, and don't affect other people's life order; When you go to the library, you should keep quiet and put the finished books back, which can reduce the workload of librarians ... "Tim's father said that if these aspects are emphasized in family communication, children will subtly accept the concept of thinking for others.
"Parents must be role models for their children. When I go out to play with other friends, I will not only take care of my children, but also help my peers' parents or children as much as possible. For example, lend your diaper to other parents and help other parents look after their children. Going out to eat in a fast food restaurant will minimize the workload of the restaurant waiter and let the children throw away the finished dishes together. Also, I usually take my children to participate in various community service activities. "Nini's mother believes that parents must set an example for their children, otherwise the so-called public welfare is just lip service.
Of course, when children help others and contribute to society, parents should not be too active and overstep their responsibilities. "Children should be given opportunities and time to learn and grow in practice. If a child wants to do something to help others, we should encourage and support him more, see what he needs his parents to do, and try our best to help the child achieve what he wants to do. But when the child is not ready, don't force him to accept his parents' ideas and concepts. "Lisa said that children are always the protagonists of their own actions, and only respected children can truly face others in society with love.