The place where people live is the Jianghu. Dealing with people is inseparable from emotional intelligence. Cultivating emotional intelligence and learning to speak well are lessons that everyone should practice!
1, complete works of human weakness
Dale Carnegie/China Development Press /2008- 1 Publishing /496 pages >
The Complete Works of Human Weakness is the most successful inspirational classic of the author, which brings together Carnegie's ideological essence and the most exciting content. The main contents include: the basic skills of getting along with others, the key to peace and happiness, how to make others like you, how to win others' approval, how to persuade others better, and how to make their family life happy.
2. Non-violent communication
NO.9 popular psychological book TOP 10 >
[America] Marshall Luxembourg/Huaxia Publishing House /2009- 1 Publishing/190 Page >
In interpersonal relationships, it is inevitable to communicate with others, with family, partners, friends and so on. When you have a conflict with Chi people, do you think that only physical conflict is violence? In fact, "the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional" can also hurt the other party, that is to say, language and conversation style are even more painful than physical injury. Therefore, how to change our way of communication and get along with others in a more harmonious way is the message that this book wants to convey to us.
3. "A maverick pig"
Wang Xiaobo/Beijing October Literature and Art Publishing House 1 New Classic Amber /20 17-4 Publishing /220 pages >
A maverick pig must have his own ideas, but he can't be different for the sake of being different. Although we are all small people, we should at least have a little thought, a little pursuit and a little judgment. Don't live like "licensed goods", but don't pretend to be profound, flaunt style, and be true and sober. This is probably the attitude held by the author.
4. To Kill a Mockingbird
NO. 13 douban foreign novels Top 100 >
Harper-Lee/Yilin Press /20 17-2 Publishing /442 pages >
Never know a person from other people's mouths, and don't believe gossip, so that you can see how many of us always isolate others because of prejudice, and how many people jump to conclusions because they don't know other people's situation. Everyone has his unique personality and unknown experience, and no one is qualified to judge him except himself.
This book shapes a model of family education, teaching children how to experience grace in cruel reality, accumulate righteousness in unfair words, and establish their own moral bottom line in a world full of ugliness and problems!
5 "Intimacy" (6th Edition)
NO.24 1 douban books Top250 >
[America] Roland S. Miller/People's Posts and Telecommunications Publishing House/Published on page 20 15-6 /540 >
This book can be read repeatedly, and if it is read thoroughly, it can be said that it will benefit you for life. The topic of intimacy, whether in school or parents, is rarely told to us, which leads to the lack of emotional education, so that many people don't know how to express themselves. Learning to treat intimacy correctly is an important way to improve life happiness!
6. Social psychology (hardcover color printing version 1 1)
David Myers/People's Posts and Telecommunications Press/2014-10-1Publishing /707 pages >
It is the most practical book. After reading it, you can improve your interpersonal skills. This book has completely changed our underlying logic, and people are so similar in essence. Desire and need are so different. In the noisy world and subtle relationship, how to treat each other sincerely and live clean and quiet. Once the heart is enlarged, it will never return to the original narrow field. May you become an upgraded self after reading this book!