Success comes from people with high emotional intelligence. Most students take IQ tests early in their studies. Even if they never get their own test results, they still feel that their IQ determines their future life. When they see that other students are doing better than themselves, they agree and believe that those students have higher IQ, but there is nothing they can do. However, the latest research on EQ shows that success is not only the result of high IQ. Your IQ shows how smart you are, while your EQ shows how you will use your intelligence. Professor Salovey of France, who put forward the theory of emotional intelligence, pointed out that in the workplace, a person's IQ determines whether he can be hired, and the personality measured by emotional intelligence test may be more important than his personality. Professor Salovey may be right. For example, have you ever been so confused? Why is it difficult for you to pass the exam when dealing with some of the brightest students who you think deserve good grades? Their failure may be due to their low emotional intelligence. People often mistakenly think that people with high IQ always have high EQ. This relationship may exist, but. It is also possible that people with low IQ have high EQ, or people with high IQ have low EQ. People usually think that people with high emotional intelligence are good at accepting new ideas. With a positive attitude towards life, they are less troubled by problems. On the other hand, people with low emotional intelligence often have problems when dealing with difficult situations with others, so life will be more difficult, which is also a high problem. A person's IQ is considered to be innate. However, most social scientists agree that EQ has a great relationship with education. Some people try to study the possibility of improving emotional intelligence, especially in interpersonal skills, such as understanding and communication skills. Professor Meyer is recognized as an authoritative expert in the research field of emotional intelligence change. He recently published the results of a study on middle school students. After some normal bad voices are known to some disabled students, their normal students in Rong 'an County are more willing to help people in trouble than before, and they can understand the feelings of disabled students better than other students who have not participated in the study. At the same time, the attitude of those disabled students has also changed obviously. They are more active in life and willing to try new things. The results of this kind of research show that timely emotional intelligence is not more important than IQ, but at least as important as IQ. Live in this world, live happily, and think that you can get along well with others, understand the situation and deal with it in the best way. This requires a high emotional intelligence-the better you do, the better your emotional intelligence will be. This school ensures that students receive the education they really need and know that their future is not entirely determined by IQ. First impression I was particularly anxious the day I first met my best friend A Dao. I reviewed in the local library that day and prepared for an important oral exam. People don't listen to bother me, and I become more and more uneasy. Of course, the worse the mood, the harder it is to concentrate. When I heard someone singing yes behind me, my patience was at its limit. It's so loud that I can hear which one is long! I turned my head and stared at the singer. That is a tall girl, about my age, with a happy smile on her face. He stood on a literary book with a book in his hand. She seems interested in the book she is reading. I glanced at the cover of this book and subscribed to Tennyson's poems. Although she seems to be a sensitive and friendly girl, it doesn't help, but it makes me even more annoyed. How can she be so selfish? I thought angrily. Actually, I was already a little angry at that time. I grabbed my tree and stared at her angrily and said, "Thank you for the noise. I can't study at all. You are too selfish! " "I still don't want to think about the scene at that time. But I'll talk about it later. Because I left the library in a hurry, I left the most important textbook there until I went home two hours later. But it's no use because the library is closed. I feel depressed and really want to cry. Just then, the bell rang and I picked up the phone. A soft voice introduced me as Jenny. The soldier asked me if I was Jane. After confirming that I was Jane, Jenny said that she found that I had left my book in the library because my name was on it. She said that this book found my code from the file. She also said that she didn't live far away, and if I needed the book urgently, she could send it to me. I was relieved and agreed to meet her at a convenience store in this street. I really appreciate her! Of course, you have guessed who Jenny is. She is the girl whom I yelled at because of her singing. When I saw her in Bentley, I felt very guilty and apologized for my rude behavior many times. I felt guilty, but Jenny smiled and told me that she was glad to see me leave and glared at her in the library. Hearing this, I couldn't help laughing, and then I invited her to my house for a cup of tea. They get along well, and since then, they have become best friends. They are very much alike, and we talk about everything. My old friend says that I trust her more than anyone else, and I often feel so lucky. If Jenny wasn't so kind and tolerant of my shortcomings, I wouldn't have realized this true friendship. 1 each person has his own expertise to do this personality test and find a job that suits him. 1 A friend encountered some problems when writing the outline of a book report. She asked you for help. What would you do? A helps her after school. Bing told her that if she needed more information, she could call you. B provided him with a sample and told her some useful bibliography. Give him advice on how to write a clear and accurate summary. Let him make a work schedule to ensure that the book report is completed on time. You work in a poor organization in a small village, and your boss asks your team to repair a water pump near the river. What would you do? A asked Sun Ming what he wanted and asked for their advice. B choose a job that you can do well, such as data, and then plan how to do this job well. C try to change the design of the pump to see if there is a more suitable section D for building the pump, and assign some work to everyone in the team to let them know their tasks. Take on one of the most difficult tasks-setting an example for others. On a trip of the school grandfather, a coach was dodging a deer running across the road. Although no one was injured, the bus was trapped in a forest path that was closed to traffic. It's getting dark and it's starting to snow. What would you do? A talk to those who seem afraid of anxiety, so that they don't have to worry. B. Stay calm. You know the situation is not really dangerous, and someone will come to help. Tell a story to a friend while waiting for help. D Control the situation, send a team to the nearest village for help, and let Liu's people in the car put on more clothes to keep warm. Last week, the teacher asked you to prepare a short film to perform at school. There are only ten days before the performance, but so far, you have done nothing. What would you do? A volunteered and invited others to help others remember their lines. B arrange specific matters, such as clothing, scenes, sound effects, etc. C gives advice to short plays and writes dialogues, so that the whole class can watch D take the initiative to be a director and choose actors to play different roles. 3 the road to success. When I was a child, Wang Junyan never wanted to be a famous TV worker. She explained: I didn't expect to be on TV, because there was no TV at home before I went to junior high school! Now Wang Junyan has become the host of a new global TV program. I asked her how she succeeded, and she told me that it was the principles of curiosity, diligence and loyalty to the facts that made him a successful person today. Jun Yan told me that my mother taught me to be curious. She loves everything in the universe and teaches me to be interested in everything from plants to insects. Yan Jun conference said: We should look for bird hair in the nest of the old society. Even turn the stone up to see where there are bugs. I'm used to doing this. She also said: Mom is a very strong person. Although there were many difficulties in life, she never let them defeat her. She worked hard for my education until I graduated from Fudan University in Shanghai. Her attitude towards life has always influenced my thoughts and actions. After graduating from college, Wang Junyan became a reporter for a local newspaper. She said that she chose to be a reporter because people know that what happens around her is the most important thing. I asked her if there was any special moment to make her realize this. She replied that after investigating an illegal transaction. Her report not only helped the victims, but also helped to investigate the family and catch the criminals. Jun Yan said: That's when I realized how important journalists are. Jun Yan told me that it was not easy to write that report. But I realized that people needed to know, so I didn't give up. These efforts also paid off, because his report won an award. At that time, I found that as long as I persist, I don't have to give up. I can write high-quality reports. This is what Wang Junyan has been trying to do since he became a global TV presenter. I asked Yan Jun what her favorite job was. He said that although being a reporter won't get a lot of glory, it is very challenging. I have met many people and visited many different places. This job will never bore me! He added that as a reporter, I must have many different skills and be constantly faced with the challenge of learning new things. Finally, I asked her if she would be curious after many years. She told me with a big smile: I have never forgotten what my mother learned. Now whenever I look for news stories, I often feel as if I am lifting those stones to see what is hidden underneath. Survival of the fittest: alvin toffler's masterpiece The Influence of the Future begins like this: From now until the 20th century, it will be increasingly difficult for citizens of the richest and most advanced countries in the world to keep up with the needs of change. For them, the future is coming too fast, and now the speed of change is getting faster and faster. People began to pay attention to the language of toffler. Sometimes the pattern of change is difficult to figure out. How did you handle it? First of all, don't panic, take a deep breath and photograph the good things that will happen in the future. Even if you are not Einstein, you can guess which fields of work will be most affected by these changes, agriculture. Jobs in coal mines and heavy industries are rapidly decreasing. On the other hand, services, media and information technology are developing well. There is no doubt that job opportunities in the field of information technology will increase greatly. At present, there are more than 1 100 million computers in the world. By 2008, this number will increase by 10 times, so the demand for computer workers will be even greater. Many other important changes have taken place: first, that lifelong occupation will no longer exist, so people must be given flexibility. Mark Hastings of the School of Management pointed out that in the future, people will organize their careers around various jobs, rather than serving a department or branch of a family. Again, it will run in different ways. People will run around doing different jobs instead of crawling in as before. Many people will work in those vibrant small rooms, because they can respond quickly to changes on the spot. Others will give up working for a boss and start their own businesses. They all think they need people who are flexible, able to work, able to cooperate happily in the team and get along well with others. Good communication skills are essential. Dr Laurence Lyons, who works in the future, points out that women will be envied because they have advantages in this field. James Traege, a spokesman for a training institution, explained that many men will need retraining. The purpose is not to make other men more like women, but to help men communicate better. Business will become more international, and English will probably become an international business language, so there is no need to bother to learn Russian and Spanish, but it will be very important to know other people's thoughts, culture and history. After all. In my opinion, this kind of experience requires people who come to other countries and continents to work easily. New technology is the driving force behind these rapid changes, so we can't fall behind. You don't have to be a computer expert, but you must consider improving your computer skills, learning centralized software and preparing for work. Try to understand the latest technology. Undoubtedly, these technologies are changing the way we work and providing many other ways of working. Many people don't go to the office now. Secondly, they connect to the Internet and work from home. This way of working enables you to live where you want, continue your studies and enjoy a comfortable life with plenty of time. I hope these changes will help. People without husbands in some poor countries still have the importance of improving their lives. The following is their description of their lifelong learning experience. Sun Wen is 28 years old this year. " It's never too late to study. "This is the advice we got after losing the college entrance examination. Now I am about to graduate from Tsinghua University Institute of Continuing Education and get a bachelor's degree in computer engineering through distance education courses. Because of my new qualifications. I was promoted at work. In the past, people like me who couldn't get into college didn't have a chance to get a degree. Now it's different. I decided to give myself a second chance, and at the same time, I used evenings and weekends to get my degree. Frankly speaking, the past four years have been hard, but it's worth it! Three months ago, Ms. Tang was 45 years old. When I was laid off from the expressway, my mind was blank and full of anger. In the past, if a person worked in the same company for more than 20 years, he would stay in the office until he retired. I suspect that they laid me off because of poor management, but it still makes me want to cry. I feel like I made a mistake, all because of the situation in the labor field at that time. At first, I enjoyed the life of a full-time housewife and called myself the CIIO family director. But I soon got bored and decided to take business courses. I've always dreamed of opening my own stadium. Now I have almost finished the course. He is very helpful. I learned a lot of new skills and prepared a business plan to set up my own network. I think being laid off will prove that I am the best thing that happened to Grandpa Chen at the age of 75. I am an old guy, but I teach myself new tricks every day! It all started with the increase in postage a few months ago. I used to send emails to my daughter in America, but now it is too expensive. I think it's time to become an Internet user. In class, the operator taught me how to send emails and use the Internet. I really like the speed of information transmission and reply. In addition to sending and receiving emails, I also saw my grandchildren in the United States with my webcam and chatted with them. It's so interesting. In the past, if I wanted to see them, I had to go to them myself. Many people think that retiring or what you can do is to close the big cat and bury everything you want to be imprisoned. This is really a mistake. Anyway, I have to go now. My .. 3 teacher Graham Lauren, my teacher, is 29 years old, a natural science writer and a TV star. She studied in overton Middle School in, and has never seen Mr. Jenkins since she left school, but I often miss him. When I was at school, I didn't do very well in most subjects. Now that I think about it, I am really lazy. I really hope I am diligent, especially in math. The only thing I can remember about the math I learned at school now is that the sum of the angles of a triangle is equal to degrees. But when I entered Jenkins' class at the age of 50, I really became interested in a course for the first time in my life. Before Jenkins was born, natural sustainability was just a course full of strange words for me. I don't know where it came from, and I don't know that I think natural science is boring and profound. But Mr Jenkins makes everything interesting. He always explains through many real examples, but simplifies what seems incomprehensible. One day, he took us outdoors, and we built a rocket ourselves. I still remember that he asked me to pour some gunpowder into the rocket, and then another student lit the fire and let the rocket shoot out. It's really interesting. I am a particularly motivated student at school from time to time. I know I shouldn't be so rebellious, but that may be because I lack self-confidence. Mr Jenkins made me feel that I could get things done. I am very interested in astronomy, so I was asked to give a class. This is my first time to explain scientific knowledge to the audience. Now it's my job. Now whenever I prepare a program, I often take pictures of how Mr. Jenkins does it. Sometimes I really wish. My student Brian Jenkins, a science teacher at overton Middle School, was a problem student six months ago. I have heard of his bad behavior. I am very thoughtful. I competed with a friend on the spot to see who vomited farthest from the fifth generation school, but I was interested and everything changed. On her first day in my class, he dragged his schoolbag and looked tired. But when I experimented with acid and onions to show his performance, Tariq became absorbed. He likes science. Graham is very famous. He should have been able to study all the subjects better. I have two books written by him in my country, and I have seen him on TV. I always say to my wife, look at that, I once taught her. I think I can teach all the other students as successfully as Graham. Nowadays, teaching is not easy. There are many problems and funds are tight. I should allocate more money for science education. I also hope they can reduce the class size and have classes in the laboratory. If the group size is not easy to operate, the situation will definitely be worse in poor schools. At least in Europe's schools, we have laboratories. My wife often wants me to choose a less stressful job, but I love my job. As a teacher, you can enter children's hearts when they open their hearts and are eager for blood. If my job as a teacher can help tell a child like Graham to become such a successful adult, then I know that everything I teach is worth it. 4. Understand that people who are diligent in asking questions learn more and remember more. -Francis Bacon-It seems obvious now how we acquire knowledge and how we understand it. First, you need questions, and then you observe the world around you to find answers. After studying the facts, you consider possible answers and color them to find the right answer. Although today we are more accustomed to typing a few keywords in search engines and then waiting for the Internet to spit out the answers for us, we are fortunate that modern scientists and thinkers are still using this method to solve world problems. However, in the world of 17, when Francis Bacon proposed that this way of thinking was the way to acquire knowledge, he deviated from the concept at that time. During the reign of James in England, Bacon was an official who thought he held an important position, but his real interest was not the daily red tape and the constant pursuit of knowledge for twenty years. Of course, this was not the interest of most people in his time. People cultivate and believe in religion, not facts. Galileo, who proved that the earth was not the center of the universe, often taught punishment. The church and many people often ignore the facts and are unwilling to challenge everything they have always believed. They prefer to make assumptions about the world according to their previous faces. In fact, when Galileo officially said that the earth was not the center of the universe, people didn't believe what he said, but believed what he said almost two thousand years ago.