"The child is clever, but not easy to learn."
Parents nodded deeply and said, "well, it's just that the brain is quite smart, so don't use it in this respect!" "
"The child is very clever, but he is not easy to learn. This is a polite sentence from the teacher. Every time a child does not do well in the exam, parents will tell themselves, "The child is very smart, but it is not easy to learn. "The most beautiful comfort in the world is actually a mystery.
As long as parents hear the teacher say this, even if they see the child's big red fork, they can't help but comfort themselves.
"The child is very smart and doesn't study hard. If he is serious, his academic performance will definitely be good! "
"He can't do it, or he is careless and careless."
"Yes, but I just can't get it."
I don't know how many injured parents have been comforted, but in fact this sentence is simply poison. I don't know how many children have been destroyed and how many parents have been satisfied.
It will give children a wrong understanding: cleverness is superior to diligence, IQ is more important than hard work, cleverness is an important advantage, and carelessness is a secondary disadvantage. In a subtle way, it is easy for children to despise the power of diligence. Even if you have this ability, you will ignore the value of this ability. There are even many students who are proud of their hard work but good grades, and laugh at the students who work hard as capital.
It will give children a feeling of no way back: if you work hard and still can't get up, then you will be considered not smart by parents and teachers; In order to keep an intelligent image, children can't go all out. The child's failed retreat was blocked.
In the classroom, these "smart" students generally have some "fatal" weaknesses: for example, lack of concentration, especially vulnerable to external interference; The endurance of learning is not enough, and the time of continuous learning is short; Always want to be slick and refuse to do solid basic training; Poor learning initiative, lack of research spirit, etc.
Parents! ! !
Don't fantasize that "as long as children are smart and read books casually, their grades will rise."
Cleverness does not need encouragement, but intention is a habit and valuable advantage that needs encouragement. "With the low level of efforts of most people, it is impossible to win talents at all."
How to cultivate children's perseverance and concentration? Cultivate children to read picture books and bedtime stories every day since childhood!
The child's concentration has improved. Every time he tells a story, he will listen carefully and find out the questions to ask. Children unconsciously learn to listen and ask questions, and it is very important for children to remain curious.
Secondly, children's language expression ability has improved. When reading a picture book, the baby will read it together. Read more, the taste will be smooth, and the language expression will be unconsciously expressed.
Sometimes I ask my baby to tell me some short stories. The baby will be very happy to tell me his favorite stories, and sometimes he can unfold many unexpected plots by himself. For parent-child relationship, it helps to increase feelings and narrow the distance.
Today, Miaomiao will introduce you to babies under 6 years old. You must read classic picture books!
After summarizing hundreds of picture books, these must-read classic books recommend 1 1 this picture book that is most worth reading with children.
I guess how much I love you.
The short conversation between two rabbits, one big and one small, condensed the complex and great emotions in life. The little rabbit expresses "I love you" to the big rabbit seriously, and expresses his love for the big rabbit with various body movements and visible still life. But no matter how compared, it will never be more, higher and farther than the big rabbit. After that, the little rabbit finally fell asleep under the package of love.
The whole work is full of love atmosphere and happy childlike interest. The friendly and lovely image of the rabbit, the story frame of two rabbits competing with each other, and the novel details of the image are very attractive to children.
Children should learn to say to their parents, "Guess how much I love you?" I love you so much! Picture books sow the seeds of love in children's hearts and teach them to express themselves. When you love someone very much, maybe you want to describe this feeling. However, as Little Rabbit and Big Rabbit discovered; Love is really not an easy thing to measure.
Second, I'm not going with you.
Lulu stood alone in the street, waiting for her parents to pick her up. An aunt just came over and said, "Hello Lulu! Come, I'll take you home! " This aunt and Lulu live in the same neighborhood. But what's her name? Is her red hair real or fake? Lulu doesn't know all this. "I don't know you, I'm not going with you!" Lulu said, "and mom said, I have to wait!" " Lulu's list makes it clear that she never goes with anyone casually, and only after her parents tell Lulu in advance will she follow the person designated by her parents.
Tell children a truth: there is love and there is hate, and there is good and there is evil. In order to ensure the safety of life, we must know how to protect ourselves-not only to instill in them the awareness of self-protection, but also to teach them the methods of self-protection. Pick up these picture books about self-protection and instill safety awareness in children.
3. Where am I from?
A window hides a surprise, a hinge hides a bunch of secrets, a turntable records a period of history, and a trip represents a growth. Children aged 3-5 are characterized by concrete images. They should make full use of natural and real life opportunities, guide their children to learn scientifically through direct perception, personal experience and practical operation, and form the attitude and ability of lifelong learning.
Experiential education is to conform to children's thinking characteristics, let children directly perceive and experience the unknown world through richer situational stories, stimulate children's positive emotions, form optimism, cultivate children's good reading habits and develop children's independent inquiry ability.
Four, my father and mother.
"My Dad" mobilizes children's life experience, recalls and compares the various abilities and virtues of the father in the picture book, makes children close in familiarity, and learns to care about their father and the people around them. I feel my father's greatness and omnipotence, and I am proud to have such a father. Slowly feel the deep affection between father and son and the warm love between family members.
1. The story is interesting and the language is humorous.
2. Mobilize the children's life experience, recall and compare the various abilities and virtues of the father in the picture book, let the children get close in familiarity, and learn to care about the father and the people around them.
3. Let children feel that their father is powerful and omnipotent, and be proud of having such a father.
4. Let children learn to slowly feel the deep affection between father and son, and experience the warm love between family members.
There are many books about the affection between mother and child in My Mom, but few books like My Mom really shock the soul and depict children's love and worship for their mother. Through simple and plain language and well-designed parallelism, the mother's daily hard work is powerfully displayed in the most powerful and novel way.
My Mom is different from other picture books. Its screen language and words do not directly express the author's intention, but in an indirect humorous way, using many metaphors and exaggerations, they present us with an omnipotent mother and express my pride and admiration for my mother.
Sixth, hug
The little orangutan saw all kinds of animals that loved each other along the way, and everyone embraced each other eagerly to express their endless and strong love for each other.
Only the little orangutan, lost with his mother, where is his mother, I hope someone will hug him!
The kind elephant mother looked everywhere behind his back and found it. From the tree came the familiar "baby" sound of chimpanzees, which was the mother's cry! The little chimpanzee shouted "Mom" and rushed to his mother. The closed eyes and happy expressions of chimpanzee mother and son gently touched every heart. Finally, the orangutan thanked the mother elephant and other friends who accompanied him to find his mother in a hug.
This book has clear images and bright colors. There is only the word "hug" throughout, and a simple and repeated word outlines a warm story. The content of picture books is also around "hug". Little orangutans play alone in the Woods. When he sees the chameleon, the giant snake and the elephant all snuggling up to each other, he can't help but point and say "hug" excitedly, but it also evokes his desire for his mother to hug him. The enthusiastic elephant quickly took the baby orangutan to find his mother, and finally the orangutan mother appeared and hugged it in time. This is a story full of love.
You look delicious.
Main plot: The picture book tells a touching story about the relationship between a Tyrannosaurus rex and a little Ankylosaurus in the dinosaur era.
Highlight: Kindergarten friends like dinosaurs very much. This picture book personifies the little dinosaur, which is very interesting.
The touching affection between the little Ankylosaurus and Tyrannosaurus Rex is touching. While listening to stories, children can subtly realize the happiness of love and being loved, as well as the true meaning of interpersonal communication. The road to growth will not be smooth sailing. Sometimes it is inevitable to meet tyrannous and stubborn Tyrannosaurus rex children or Tyrannosaurus rex children themselves, but everyone has a seed of love in their hearts, and young readers will appreciate the joy of loving and being loved, as well as the true meaning of interpersonal communication-trust, care and encouragement.
Eight: Hello Lighthouse
Name of picture book: Hello Lighthouse
Suitable age: over 3 years old
Award year: 20 19 Cadillac silver award picture book.
Features of this book: Hello Lighthouse tells the story of a family guarding the lighthouse in an era when automation has not replaced manpower.
On an island at the end of the world, a lighthouse stands at the highest point. From dusk to dawn, the lighthouse shines and the four seasons pass by day. Outside the lighthouse is an endless sea. In the lighthouse, a picture of the life of the tower keeper slowly unfolds in front of us. He wrote down every detail in his diary, and then his wife followed suit, and then their son was born until one day, his life changed. ...
Reasons for a good book: Watching the lighthouse keeper in the story endure loneliness, keeping the lighthouse and keeping a diary every day, day after day, never stopping, can make children understand the valuable spirit of persistence. Behind the hard work of the tower guards, they shoulder the heavy responsibility of "piloting to help the crisis". Through this book, let children learn the spirit of persistence.
Nine: "Little Donkeys Turn into Stones"
Little donkey turned into stone
Suitable age: over 4 years old
Award year: 1970 Cadillac Silver Award Picture Book.
Features of the book: Little Donkey is a stone collector. A small stone he accidentally collected can fulfill all his wishes. He came home with a stone in high spirits and met a big lion on the way. He was really scared to stone. The donkey's parents are very anxious. They look for it everywhere.
Reasons for a good book: The Little Donkey Turned to Stone is a warm story, which reflects the love of the family, but at the same time, it not only tells you and your children this truth, but also tells you that you can keep a good attitude and spend every difficulty with hope under any disappointment and frustration. In the end, there will always be unexpected gains, which may not be recovered. At least you can get a happy attitude and eternal strength.
X: Amo's sick leave.
Name of picture book: Amo's sick leave day
Suitable age: over 2 years old
Award year: 20 1 1 Cadillac silver award picture book.
Features of the book: Amo is a kind city zoo, which leads a regular but full and happy life. Every day, he finds time to visit several good friends: playing chess with elephants, racing with turtles, sitting with penguins, handing handkerchiefs to rhinos with runny noses and telling stories to owls. But one day, he woke up with a runny nose and sneezed. He can't go to the zoo normally, but he received several unexpected guests at home. ...
Reasons for a good book: Amo likes to go to the zoo and play chess with elephants, but even if elephants are huge, we should think about it carefully. A series of encounters with animals tell us that Amo is not alone. He has many friends, but when Amo was ill, some pictures on some pages were deliberately left without words, and they were simply told to readers in the form of paintings.
The animals all went to see Amo. When Amo saw his former friend in the zoo, he shouted, "Long live friends." In fact, maybe he never thought that friends were so precious, but he really didn't expect that friends would never leave him and comfort him when he needed them most. This is a friend, let the children know friendship. A true friend is a gift in the snow, not a icing on the cake.
Xi。 Princess's Moon
Picture Book Name: Princess's Moon
Suitable age: over 3 years old
Award year: 1944 Cadillac Silver Award Picture Book.
Features of this book: The lovely princess is ill. The king was very distressed and promised to give her what she wanted most. The princess actually wanted the moon. The king had to find many clever people to help him. Although they have made great achievements, they are helpless about the outrageous demands of the princess. Finally, the court clown appeared. ...
The reason for a good book: it reminds us of the mistake that almost everyone makes: we always use our own views to understand what others mean. When the little princess prayed for the moon, "we" always tried to solve their difficulties subjectively, but we didn't know that in their minds, our so-called problems were not what we thought, and sometimes they didn't even exist. We just think that we are making much ado about nothing.