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Finally, I waited for a weekend where I didn't work overtime. My friends excitedly made an appointment for a beer barbecue, but little D, who has always been active, came late. Before everyone had time to criticize, Xiao D bowed and said, Is the affair the best wine? Friends are interested and gather around to listen to his eloquence.
It turned out that it was little d, a playboy, who touched the electricity. On the way from the parking lot to the barbecue stall, I passed a woman in a white skirt, and the faint aroma attracted him to take a glance. In a flash, the face, eyes and lips made him tremble and excited with a layer of goose bumps. In order to appreciate women's faces more, little D became a stalker. He followed the woman through the alley, crossed the road, got on the bus, and sat in the old, weak, sick and disabled seat opposite the woman, looking shy and just staring blankly. He didn't get off the bus until the woman got off and took the return bus.
That's it? Is it an affair? Don't talk about the idiotic plot of the tram, you can't even chat up? Fuck! The anticlimactic ending made my friend swear. As a result, the little D with B simply packed two cans of Qingdao 2000.
Before drinking and farting, I asked Xiao D how difficult it is to meet someone who can get an electric shock. It doesn't look like you.
Dude, I grew up, too, okay? You losers always think I'm still in that beautiful youth. What I'm after now is not the body, but the spirit, okay? The realm is much higher than yours.
Little d proudly shook the jar in his hand and said what else he wanted, an affair, just look at it. If it's amazing, why meet again?
Although the words are frivolous, the truth is like thunder, which makes me think deeply.
2
The word affair is quite mysterious. It is not elegant, but it is hidden in everyone's heart. It will not be publicized in a big way, but it will always spread quietly on men's wine tables and women's private meetings. It is a sense of freshness and human nature.
When it comes to affairs, the first thing that comes to people's minds is not men's tickets and women's tickets with unique temperament and attractive charm, nor are they lonely figures hanging their shoulders, smoking cigarette rings and drinking spirits in bars. In other words, it is the attraction to the opposite sex in a movie, a novel or an article. Further, you may think of the deep feeling in the middle of the night that you have experienced, or that you have never experienced but have been looking forward to.
In retrospect, a passing figure, a distinctive face, a pair of quiet and deep eyes, even sexy collarbone, fair complexion, slender fingers, painted nails, straight long legs, black stockings, and so on, all those long forgotten memories will jump out and gradually form a vivid watercolor painting.
As for me, I think of the crowded little Barry when I came back from the county seat in junior high school, with long hair hanging down the tip of my nose and itchy, faint fragrance floating in the wind; I remember when I was in high school, in the early spring sunshine, a group of classmates and I went up the mountain to pick cherries, and suddenly I turned around. Colorful skirts dancing with the wind and 16-year-old girls are full of charm. I think of the figure floating in front of me when I was resting in the flower bed during military training, white T-shirts, jeans with holes, amazing flip-flops, lazy, dull boys who didn't have the courage to strike up a conversation; I think of the girl who rang the doorbell in the elective course and rushed into the classroom. She was not embarrassed by being late, nor did she face the panic of hundreds of pairs of eyes. Her cold temperament is like a dose of poison. I remembered the email I received while playing online games. I clicked on it and two clear photos came into view. So I wrote down the phone number and dialed it, and a mature boy sank. I think of the "crash" in the roller skating rink. When people were upset and their buttocks hurt, a chubby little baby hand appeared in front of me. At that moment, in addition to being amazing, I was moved. ...
Now, one of the amazing people has become my mother. When we recall the past with her, we will talk about these so-called encounters. Traditionally, she would tease me with the word "if". For example, if you had worked harder at that time, would XXX throw herself at you with reserve ... If you had the courage to talk to XXX, would she have a crush on you? .. if XXX actively pursued you, would you like to be poisoned by her ... if you hadn't read the email in the mailbox, would we have missed it? ...
If TM is a painful thing.
At that time, after silently muttering a word, I always expressed my determination and said: Fate decides that I love you, and I have been together since then.
three
Cousin Y is a shy mistress. Sophomore, in the corner of the library, when he was thirsty, he looked up from the world of Jin Yong's martial arts and saw the girl with long hair, frowning and toothache diagonally across the street. At that glance, Jin Yong was dazzled by Xiao Y, which gave him more reasons to skip class and go to the library.
From that day on, he was fascinated, the secretion of androgen was strong, and his emotional intelligence rose step by step in a short time. Many outsiders find it incredible, but the one-act drama related to love is quietly staged on campus.
Little y will follow, and in the morning and evening, he will follow Rapunzel from a distance and engrave the track of her activities in his mind. Then, at a certain time and place, wait silently.
Xiao y can imitate, in the library, in the track and field, he is at the other end of her, just like the amazing one, watching her smile and her every move. Then, learn, repeat, and strive to be her "shadow".
Little y learned to be quiet. He refused his friends' invitation to dinner and often waited on campus. Let go of her favorite martial arts and look at the philosophy she often watches; In my life and study, I am no longer as noisy as before, but more peaceful and steady.
Occasionally meet a girl with long hair, and when she can't sleep at night, Xiao Y will miss him silly, fantasize about her feelings for him, and fantasize about the beautiful scene of flying with her after confession. These, he wrote in his diary. He persisted in this habit for seven years. In the past, the protagonist was himself, but now the protagonist is her favorite.
Strong and brave. After a year of unrequited love, observation and missing, Xiao Y finally got up the courage to confess to Rapunzel on a drizzly afternoon. There were only two of them in the reading room of the library that day. No one bothered them. Don't be shy. Bean-sized raindrops hit the glass window, scratching, like charged drums and beautiful love songs. With the sound of raindrops, Xiao Y's heart was pounding, and he felt that he should do something.
As a result, when the devil wears a tie, he picks up his diary and walks up to the girl with long hair. Trembling and blushing, she finished the task and stuffed the book into her eyes.
"This is for you, look!" Then, pretending that the wind is light and the clouds are light is actually flustered and evasive.
Two weeks later, in the frantic expectation of Xiao Y, a girl with long hair sat beside him in the same reading room. Little y's heart beats harder and blushes faster. Practice has fully proved that no matter what kind of animals, females tend to mature earlier than males, and are more calm, rational and better at handling emotional affairs. At this time.
The girl with long hair took the diary out of her bag, gently pushed it to Xiao Y, and said quietly, "I read the diary, thank you!" " But ... "
At the language switch, she paused for a while and looked at Xiao Y's red cheeks for a while: "But I already have a boyfriend ..."
Small y froze, and his face turned white at a faster rate. His mind went blank. He didn't know when the girl with long hair left. He didn't know how he got back to the dormitory. He didn't know that his brother who slept in the upper bunk had called him eight times.
In the following days, Xiao Y quickly recovered from the state of being hit with the strength of a mountain girl. However, the soul is back and the heart is still outside. He still insists on going to the library every day, following the figure with long hair, thinking about it every day, hugging her and owning her. Although that feeling is sometimes uncomfortable compared with losing, he still insists on it every day.
During the summer vacation, Xiao Y told me the story from unrequited love to the bursting of the love bubble, hoping to get some constructive suggestions. But as an unscrupulous cousin, how could I forget my best mocking skill at that time? I told Xiao Y that the greatest love in the world is not to dig corners. Pick up the shovel and go. My uncle and I will keep an eye on you!
I smiled. Later, in Xiao Y's sad eyes, he patted his tender shoulder with the warm palm of an experienced person: "Just kidding! Boy, love in college is beautiful. If you can't bear to dig a corner, then continue to watch from a distance! Leave a best memory for yourself and your youth. "
four
At this point, I can't help but smile and sigh when I think of Xiao Y's story! Little y and little d, rookie and old bird, the realm is very different.
Shakespeare said: Love is not a sweet talk in the shade of flowers, a sweet talk in the Peach Blossom Garden, a light tear, or a stubborn impulse.
A twisted melon is not sweet, and I can only complain if my concubine is interested. I hate that kind of "I like you, it's none of your business" and it's none of others' business. Why should anyone know? Silently, you go away!
In fact, Xiao Y's distant gaze, although not harassed, has been disturbed, and it is not far from that kind of "hardcore compulsion". I think, if I were the girl with long hair, I would be very upset.
Although I know this clearly, based on the kindness of my unscrupulous cousin and my deep understanding of the stubborn character of a big boy with androgen production, I didn't throw cold water on him. I just hope that time can make his disturbance to that girl fade away.
About unrequited love and bright love, possession and perfection, unswerving compulsion and silent gaze, it has always been the most exciting talk, which is described in epic sentences at all times and all over the world. Some stories I read when I was a child are still memorable.
For example, the logic of Jin Yong's novel the legendary swordsman is very strange. In order to pursue a nun's dumb mother-in-law, he shaved his head, which means that only monks can deserve a nun. In this way, after all kinds of entanglements, I really got the beauty back. Later, because she didn't stop praising the beauty of roadside women, the jealous dumb mother-in-law ran away in a rage, didn't stop supporting young Yilin, and went to the ends of the earth to find a wife. This search lasted for more than twenty years, and finally it was found with the help of Gu Tao's six immortals.
Asshole logic of not quitting, arrogance, hooliganism but perseverance, I hate it, but I admire it.
Perhaps because of the lack of fatherly love since childhood, Yilin has never inherited the style of never giving up on love.
She is soft, weak, pure and kind. She fell in love with Ling Huchong, but she was ashamed to express it. She just quietly looked at Ling Huchong's laughter. She escaped into an empty door and insisted on praying to the Bodhisattva for the peace of Ling Huchong every day. She confided to her dumb mother-in-law, saying that if a person falls in love with another person, he will never miss the second person again. She only wants Ling Huchong to be happy and has no other thoughts. What a pathetic kindness this is!
Finally, a kind-hearted Yilin teenager is always strong. At the critical moment, she accidentally stabbed Yue Buqun, a pervert who wielded a knife from the palace, saved Ling Huchong and Ren Yingying, and fulfilled her lover and another woman.
In addition to Ling Huchong, there is also a figure in Jin Daxia's works who is entangled with Yilin boy, and that is Tian Boguang, the flower thief. He was surprised at Yilin's face when picking flowers. He jumped ship from picking flowers for more than ten years, devoted himself to Buddhism, worshiped Lin as his teacher and became an indispensable monk.
Perhaps, he really has put down his lust and become a Buddha. Maybe, he just thought it would be easier to get close to the little nun when he became a monk. But anyway, he just likes the kind little bald lady and just wants to protect her silently, which is enough.
Another example is Chu Liuxiang described by Gu Long as "the marshal among robbers and the salary among hooligans". Whether it is the legend of Desert, Thrushcross Bird or Peach Blossom at Night, he is entangled with women, but in the end, in order to fulfill it, he just floats away like a gust of wind, leaving only a faint tulip breath.
Undoubtedly, the choices of Tian Boguang and Chu Liuxiang are extremely clever. They know women's hearts well and understand a truth: love is not possession, but fulfillment; It is better to wait silently than to be forced to work hard; Boredom day and night is far less ambiguous.
You see, this is the real master of picking up girls!
five
No matter Xiao D and the woman in white, Xiao Y and Rapunzel, or Lin Yi and Ling Huchong, Tian Boguang and Lin Yi, Chu Liuxiang and Su Rongrong, their meeting is like a beautiful fireworks, gorgeous and warm, within reach but out of reach.
Shouldn't the so-called affair be like this? Love at first sight; Once amazing, a lifetime of nostalgia. Extramarital affairs are undoubtedly beautiful. Her beauty lies in meeting unexpectedly and being gorgeous, and her beauty lies in passing by and never meeting again.
This kind of beauty is deeply hidden in the creeping weeds of vilen in The Book of Songs. There is a "beauty, graceful young". After meeting each other, I look forward to "what's the evening, what's the boat; Today, I want to help the prince in the same boat. "
This kind of beauty strolls in Xin Qiji's Lantern Festival. The object of his affair is a girl who is "like a moth to a fire, with a bright future and a fragrant smell". Then, looking for thousands of people in the crowd, just "suddenly looking back, that person is in the dim light." The girl is like a star, rising from the crowd and falling into the sea of carnival, leaving only a faint fragrance for the melancholy poet.
This kind of beauty flutters in the beautiful poem of Huajian Collection. The love affair of the poet Zhang Bi happened in the east gate of a small town. It was a snowy day, and in a distant place, the poet "met the gods according to the crowd." Then, I watched it for a long time, and I froze to "drink the evening grass", but the beauty was nowhere to be found. I could only "stand in front of the door and be too drunk to speak, and the smoke in Ma Si is all over the street".
Yes! I was shocked and disappointed to see passing by. How I long to write a happy ending on this beautiful picture! However, people have joys and sorrows, and the moon has ups and downs. In this world, there are always many things that are not so perfect, drunk and so on. As you desire, looking at each other stupidly, or trying to create encounters again and again, is a waste of emotion and resources.
Remember: two people, two lines. You have your circle of friends, and she has her family and friends. Since it's amazing, why meet it again?