Therefore, many people hold contempt for self-help books, especially those who read them. They think that only children who are still wet behind the ears and have their own daydreams will read these childish things.
I have some opinions on inspirational books.
As they say, the book function of the healing department is limited to a few days, and it can be read for a month at most. Few people can gnash their teeth after reading a book, and then leap all the way, soar all the way to success. That's a daydream.
We just need these days of high spirits to paralyze the heart that has lost its color. Inspirational books are like anesthetics for most people, which can bind up scarred and exhausted hearts and continue to survive in a dark world.
I don't know if you have ever faced the darkness of this world. It is everywhere and thick, and can penetrate into every gap. Even if you live in seclusion in the mountains, you will still be shrouded in darkness. Zombies wandering in the dark will climb into your mountain, tear off your disguise to cover your hiding place, drag you out of the mountain and expose you to the so-called media.
This is an inappropriate metaphor, but it can illustrate the power of darkness. The darkness in reality comes from society, from family, from one's own personal growth and living environment.
Almost every once in a while, the burden in my heart will crush my broken body, and I want to escape from this world and leave the darkness.
But we have no courage. You can imagine the way to escape from this world. We can only continue to immerse ourselves in the muddy pond and let our consciousness turn into a numb zombie, just like most zombies in society.
At this time, an inspirational book is like a sweet poison or mandala. Paralyze myself with its sweetness, paralyze myself with those encouraging words, let me find a glimmer of starlight and a little hope from the thick night, and let me continue to linger under the attack of the world, because I don't want to die yet! Because I refuse to accept it!
This is my inner cry, and I believe it is also the voice of all those struggling in this social trend.
Let people who cross the river endure the biting of the river, which is the meaning of chicken soup.
Many people despise the content of self-help books, thinking that although there are many kinds of self-help books, most of them are the same and familiar.
For example, what courage, confidence, goals, not afraid of difficulties, introspection, these are all known to those who have read the inspirational book, and that's probably all. It's clear what everyone knows, but keeping your mouth shut is the quality of a successful person.
On the other hand, isn't it? Just because you don't have these qualities, or you can't do it, question them? Isn't that too self-centered?
I don't believe that reading these books can really change anything. After all, everything depends on human effort, and only by doing it yourself can we really change.
I am eager for quick success and instant benefit, and I hope I can be the kind of person who works after watching the biography of Jobs. Try to read a book "The Greatest Salesman" and become a person with monthly sales of 10 million.
The topic of success has also been questioned by many people, who think that it is not as magical as its name, and its potential has been abandoned by everyone this time. Everyone also questioned the new vocabulary of potential development.
Do people really have that great potential? Nonsense, if there is, I will develop it myself.
Most people think so.
I thought so at first.
Listening to others makes it easier for us to follow others' ideas.
Since I read and tried a subject called NLP. After experiencing that magic personally, the author believes in the existence of potential and success. Then why are people full of ambiguity about these two words?
When I was in junior high school, I was introduced by a classmate, Yang. I read a book called Super Memory (one of the mind mapping series), and I didn't mind reading it for the first time. I thought it was nothing special.
At Yang's suggestion, I tried something in the book, and then suddenly found that people can really do that kind of memory, which is particularly amazing. After demonstrating to other students, they also felt amazing.
However, in later attempts, practice became more and more difficult. I didn't insist, so I only mastered the skin.
I have this experience. I am neutral to those who despise the contents of the book and think that it is useless without trying it myself.
This is a living example.
Why can some people take part in the super brain after reading the book on brain development?
And some people are still stupid after reading books on brain development.
Don't use your incompetence to deny anything.
We should maintain a neutral and objective attitude towards success, inspiration and chicken soup. Use this book as a tool for progress, not as an excuse for failure, or as a dogma that you can succeed after reading it.
Quote a special mathematical term.
To sum up, it's all my views on success, inspiration and chicken soup for my reference.