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Several things that ruin children's interest in reading
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1, forcing children to read books
Many parents think reading is very beneficial, so they force their children to read and stipulate how many pages to read every day. In fact, children are very sensitive to tasks, and no one likes being forced. Imagine if the leader asks you what tasks you have to complete every day and deprives you of the freedom to arrange your own tasks, then you will also have resistance.
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2, the provisions of the reading content
Many parents like to help their children make judgments, tell them which book is good, and assign them a bibliography. Some parents prefer world famous works, such as How Steel was Tempered and anna karenine, while others are utilitarian and ask their children to read "counseling books" and "composition collections" and so on. The first kind of book is really good, but is it really suitable for your children? Not to mention the second book. If an adult studies only for work every day, he will feel very appetizing. How can he love reading?
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3. Let the children retell and summarize.
Some parents ask their children to summarize the main idea and retell the story after reading a book. What's more, they ask their children to write reviews. For children, reading becomes homework. After reading the book, they must finish their homework. Who can read? ! Once children regard reading as a burden, they will have resistance to reading.
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4. children are forbidden to repeat.
Many mothers have this experience. Children always listen to the same story repeatedly every day, even the same page of the same story. Older children sometimes read the same book over and over again. Parents often want their children to read more books, and feel that constant repetition is a waste of time and is forcing their children to read new books. In fact, children's reading comprehension ability is limited. Every time they read, they can always find new fun. Don't interrupt their fun.
Small coup to cultivate children's interest in reading
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1. Parents should study first.
Parents must study first if they want their children to study. If parents watch TV by themselves, but ask their children to study, the children will feel unfair. How can they read carefully? Parents are children's role models and the objects that children should follow. Only parents with reading habits will have children with reading habits.
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2. Lure children to learn.
Some parents will say that we also read books, but children still don't read them because their interest has not been attracted. Parents can take the method of seduction. For example, when telling a story to a child, he will stop at the most exciting place and tell the child that he has to go to the toilet or that some work must be done. Let the children read the following first, and they will be attracted by the story. Once the child takes the initiative to pick up the book, congratulations, half the battle.
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3. Let children freely choose the bibliography.
Of course, there are good and bad books. As parents, it is their duty to weed out "bad books". What is a "bad book"? Some parents classify books that affect academic performance as bad books, which is actually wrong. As the saying goes, "open books are beneficial", and reading is not a matter of quick success and instant benefit. Children should freely choose the books they read according to their interests. All books should be classified as "good books" except some books that are violent, pornographic and have irregular language use. Parents should not think novels, magazines and other books are bad, so they should not let their children read them. On the contrary, they should encourage children to read more books. Even from martial arts and romance novels, children can appreciate the beautiful language and wisdom in life.
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4. Build stacks for children
Everyone's reading interest will change at different stages. What parents need to do is to build a library for their children, so that they can find suitable books to read in the library at any time when they are in the mood. The stacks should include all kinds of books, including novels, essays, history, biographies, poems and so on.
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5. Borrow books frequently
The sea of books is vast, and it is impossible for any family to collect all the books. In addition, borrowed books can create a sense of urgency for children to read and improve their reading efficiency. Parents can often take their children to the library to borrow books. On the one hand, they can cultivate children's quality of caring for books, on the other hand, they can enhance children's desire to read. Here, Bian Xiao reminds parents that parents should borrow the same number of books while lending them to their children. Parents also read quietly when their children are reading, and set a good example for their children through their own behavior.