Have a sincere dialogue with her
First of all, have a sincere conversation with her, and use practical examples, such as she often can't find anything, to illustrate the importance of sorting. Tell her that you have prepared a brand-new method, which will not only help her establish good tidying habits, but also reward her. Want to try it?
Make a closing plan
Take a piece of paper, and two-thirds of it lists the items and requirements you want her to tidy, such as "making the bed in the morning", "returning the book" and "putting the clothes in the bucket". For the remaining 1/3, the inspection standards and reward items should be clearly defined. For example, if you check every day, it will be 1 if you are satisfied, and 0 if you are not satisfied. Reward according to her preferences, such as "KFC 15", "Park 5" and "Comic Book 10".
Combination of encouragement and "deduction"
Encourage and "deduct points", list the behaviors she wants to change, such as "3 points for throwing books when she loses her temper, but no points for throwing pillows". This not only reminds her not to vent at will, but also provides her with a suitable emotional outlet. Let's work together to make good habits a part of life!