1, in the dormitory, if you talk too much, you will lose.

Don't show off if you have nothing to do.

How much money you have and how good your grades are are your own business. Showing off is not the envy of others, but jealousy and hatred. The more you show off, the more natural it will be for others to ask you for it. If you don't do it, he will summon you from the ruins everywhere.

Borrowing money from you, if you don't pay it back, he will call you stingy everywhere; You borrowed it, but he didn't return it. If you ask him for it, he will say that you are stingy, so don't show off if you have nothing to do. It won't do you any good.

Don't trust your roommate too much, and don't tell your roommate anything, especially family details and love details.

4. Don't expect roommates to be friends, but lower expectations.

If a person is isolated, he is either too strong or too weak.

Psychologist schacht thinks that gregarious can reduce fear. If a person is too strong, the weak will automatically hold a group to reduce the fear you bring them.

As Mr. Lu Xun said, "Animals always live alone, and only foxes and dogs live in groups."

And if a person is too weak, they will dislike your food and won't take you to play.

The essence of human beings is to bully the weak and fear the hard, so isolated people are either too good or too weak.

If not, it may be a simple personality problem.

6, there is no need to forcibly fit in.

Low-quality gregarious is equal to wasting youth, and negative social interaction is not as good as sleeping.

As I said just now, being isolated only means that you are too strong or too weak. Enjoy the time alone and constantly strengthen yourself. You can be alone when your roommate is still eating in the dormitory and waiting for death! If you don't know how to strengthen yourself, I will continue to share the content, and I can squat for a while ~ I hope it will help you ~

7. Wear headphones when playing games, brushing Tik Tok and chasing plays in the dormitory, so that you can hear clearly and others are comfortable.

8. Show your bottom line and principles in advance. Don't touch things that are not allowed, and return things that are lent in time.

If you don't say something, there will always be people who think that you have acquiesced in revealing your principles, and others dare not touch your bottom line easily.

9. Help your roommate bring food, and accept it generously when giving you money. Don't feel embarrassed, you don't charge money, you are embarrassed, and he is embarrassed. Feelings are feelings and money is money. Don't feel that talking about money hurts your feelings. Don't worry about feelings that can be defeated for a few dollars.

What's more, don't talk about feelings, it will hurt money! On the other hand, when someone brings you food, don't give him money without waiting for him to speak. This will not only avoid embarrassment, but also make others' good feelings for you full in an instant!

10, don't call in the dormitory.

Roommates are not deaf. They can hear everything you say clearly. You never know how much gossip a phone call can reveal. The dormitory is half a public place. Keeping yourself clean and tidy is the minimum requirement.

Think about it, no one wants to live with a roommate who is sloppy all day.

12, don't expect too much from your roommates, you won't be so disappointed. The university dormitory is a magical place. Even roommates who have lived together for four years may not be friends in the end. Everyone happened to get together from all corners of the country. It's too difficult to meet a group of people with similar views and interests.

Meeting is lucky, not meeting is normal.

If you meet, please cherish this friendship.

If you don't meet someone and you don't like someone, please don't confront them. Just stay in the dormitory less. Go to the library and study room. In short, out of sight, out of mind.

13, say hello with other people's things first.

Even if it is a piece of paper or a pen, you should ask others' permission before using it. Don't think that you are close enough to use things casually. This is not only a matter of politeness, but also a matter of morality!

14. If you refuse, you can blurt it out. Think twice if you say yes.

15, let others help you buy things, remember to transfer money in time, don't be greedy for petty gain.

16, just need to buy daily necessities in time, always in a bad mood.

17, take turns cleaning the dormitory convention, it should be printed in black and white and posted on the wall, otherwise there will always be an excuse not to know.

18. Ask questions as soon as possible.

There are always people who talk on the phone while others are resting and play games while others are studying, which makes the dormitory sanitary. He probably didn't mean it, because it is very likely that he is the same at home. He'll never realize if you don't tell him. Therefore, ask questions as soon as possible, and don't wait until the last straw. At this time, just talking can't solve the problem.

19. Keeping earplugs and goggles in the dormitory can improve the comfort by 50%. Believe me, no matter what you do, someone will go their own way. Call in the middle of the night and play games when others are resting. You should either change your dormitory or create a better rest environment for yourself as much as possible. At this time, earplugs and eye patches can come in handy.

20, roommates quarrel don't blend, let alone take sides.

2 1, shut up, don't gossip behind others' backs, and don't join these gossips. Especially don't speak ill of your roommate behind his back. This is playing with fire, because it will damage your image rather than your roommate's.

22. Don't tell your roommate everything.

When you tell your roommate the secret, your secret is no longer a secret. If there is any conflict, it will only make you more embarrassed.

23. Don't be the first person to rush in.

If no one cleans the dormitory, you rush up; Roommates had a fight, and you rushed up again. In the end, you will find that no one wants to clean the dormitory except you, and the roommate conflict has not been solved. In the end, you mind your own business. So, don't think that the first one who rushes up can eat crabs, and you may be caught by crabs.

24. Put away your voyeurism.

Don't stare at your roommate's computer and mobile phone screen when nothing happens, and don't ask your roommate's secret when nothing happens.

Someone always goes out and asks him where he has been. The mobile phone received the message and he asked who sent it. When going out to eat, he asked who to eat with. All he needed was a GPS on you.

This kind of person who wants to pry into other people's privacy anytime and anywhere will make people feel disgusted.

25, mobile phone anti-peep film is useful, someone really cares about your mobile phone computer.

26. Don't always refuse other people's snacks and take the initiative to help. The relationship between giving and taking is more harmonious.

27. Ask your roommate for help and return in time.

Don't always think about Bai Piao's roommate, or no one will help you prepare snacks in the dormitory in the future. If the roommate helps, he will give the snacks to the roommate, so that the roommate will not be embarrassed to accept them and you will return the favor.

28. No matter how good the relationship is, don't tell your roommate your password. It is essential to guard against people.

29. Don't rot with your roommate. She might sneak in when you're not looking.

Don't touch the bottom line of others, belittle their hobbies and attack their families.

3 1. When you pay special attention to something, don't drag your roommate with you.

Get up early and be quiet. Don't slam the door.

If you don't want your things to become public goods, put them away in time when you use them.

Don't ask your roommate to keep his voice down when studying in the dormitory. You want to study in the library.

35. Learn to refuse, learn to buy food, and learn to deliver food. You can give and take, but it can't be you forever. Don't pay too much attention to your roommate's sour words. They will not be responsible for your life.

36. Pay more attention to the notice. It's mutual affection for your roommate to tell you, but it's duty not to tell you.

37, roommate's emotional problems, just listen, don't give advice.

Try not to keep pets in the dormitory.

39. Ask your roommate for advice before making a video call in the dormitory. They don't want to be in your video.

40. College roommates are a group of people who can't make up their minds and tear them apart, but they are also the purest group of people you meet before entering the society. Although you are not so happy and have a good time, you will still remember this small house and these people many years after graduation, because it has carried your four years of youth. Anyway, please cherish this time!