When we were young, we needed shining idols on the stage to accompany us through bitter or difficult times. At that time, we only needed to see them once, even through the screen and mp3, and we were full of motivation.
But when we grew up, we found that at that time, not only the light of idols illuminated us, but also the logistical support of parents behind us. Because of our parents, we don't have to worry about being hungry and not having enough to eat. We don't have to worry about having no place to live tomorrow. We can boldly pursue what we want to do. When we grow up, we need to pay for many things ourselves. The motivation brought by idols is not enough to support us through the material predicament of no house, no clothes and no salary. Our spirit also needs more knowledge to nourish it.
Idolization can't satisfy our growing desire.
Because of our increasing contact with the world, our conceptual thinking has changed a lot. When we were young, we could see very few fields, thinking that standing on the stage was the greatest thing, but when we grow up, we will see many things we have never seen before, have different views on the same thing, and pursue ourselves more diversified.
Therefore, the older you grow up, the less you think about idolization.
No one will be idolized forever, but someone will always be idolized. Whether you can catch up with idolization or not, I wish you to be what you want to be.
Ways to nourish the spirit:
1: read more books, read good books, and get more spiritual nourishment from books;
2. Travel regularly, really go to the corner of the world and enjoy more beautiful scenery;
3. Insisting on exercise can change a person's appearance and mentality from the inside;
Supplementary book recommendation: (recommend 25 quality books)
1: career choice: find your own life track
2. Ordinary World
3. "Operation is actually very simple: the advanced way of Internet operation"
4. A Brief History of Mankind
5: "Entertainment to Death"
6. The Art of Love
7. The Wisdom of Life
8: "Living"
9. Identity anxiety
10: global history
1 1: Learn to ask questions.
12: freedom above.
13: The True Story of Ah Q
14: Xue Zhaofeng economics lecture.
15: Principles of Economics
16: the way to be happy
17: The three of us
18: Make a decision
19: On the road
20: "The Kite Runner"
2 1: the weakness of human nature
22. "The advantages of human nature"
23. "How to read a book"
24. "Non-violent communication"
25: "The Road Few People Walk"